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...iS iT GOnNa WorK?
me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now almost 5 months but lately we've been fighting alot and i dont like it..like everyday something new to fight about comes up..we hang out like everyday so people say its because we need to hang out less..he brought up taking a "break" or time apart..im scared..=(..what should i do..and does it seem like its gonna work out in the end?
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hmm this sounds familer 2 me heehee...well, you really should take things slower and stop hanging out so much. im sure you've heard this before..but its true! you need to not revolve your lives around eachother, it will make things worse. if you two stop hanging out as much you guys will miss eachother on days you dont see eachother instead of fighting. it really does work!!! if you really care and want this relationship to last, thats personally my opinion on how it make it go well..hope i helped you!!! xo andrea
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I really think yOu and ur boyfriend are gunna work out. I dont think that yOu guys should take a break at all... your friends are ryte... dont be with him EvErY Day... It gets kind of boring. Plus if yOu are gunna be with him every day. Have a friend arounf and have another guy come too. I mean many things can happen. I widh I would have a long realtionship with a guy that long. I have only known a guy fro about 1 month and a half and we arent even goin out... we mess around and do stuff. I wish I was dating him... Dont be scared... just tlkin to him about it and work things out. Write me back and tell me how things go... bye*
-*>RaTe Me PLeAzE!!!<*-
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hey! omgosh trust me i know it stinks when u and ur boyfriend fight but i think every1 goes through it! if u wanna take a break bcuz u think u spend to much time together then i think it would b a good idea to talk about a break with him.. but he needs to understand that a "break" does NOT mean u wanna break up... u just want time for urself. sit down and talk to him about everything then see wat he says and if he agrees then u know he rly cares and if not... well then he doesnt care about u as much as u care about him. lets just hope he understands wat ur saying and decides to do wat will b best for u!
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i think that you 2 are just going through a rough stage in your relationship. my boyfriend and i fight all the time, but it just brings us closer together. you cant avoid fighting, its natural in a relationship. maybe you 2 are getting a little too much of eachother for the time being. you should do sum stuff just for you without him being there. like shopping or going to the movies with your friends. it always helps.
Hope everything works out for the best. and dont be afraid or upset if it doesnt work out.
-PA
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Well maybe a break would be good... or maybe hang out less. But if you both agree that hanging out less will make your problems fizzle down a little bit then go for it... test it out for a while and if things dont work out then maybe it just wasnt ment to be! good luck i hope things work out for you
-holly-
hope i helped
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It can work, and if you really want it to it will. First off, fights don't mean anything in a relationship. You just need to work it out. A lot of people just end relationships when a fight happens, its a lot smarter to at least try and work it out. Maybe you should hang out less though. People do get sick of each other and hanging out too much affects the rest of your life and relationships too. Just don't forget to make time for yourselves somewhere in there. One of my best friends fights with his girlfriend constantly. We try to get him to end it, but he really loves her and so somehow they work it out and have an incredibly strong relationship.
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Well, there's no telling what will happen, but it sounds to me like your affection is diminishing. Sometimes if people hang out every day, they do get sick of each other.
I can only hang out with one of my friends for three days in a row without her driving me nuts, for instance.
If you think taking a break from the relationship - by break I mean like not hanging out, calling each other, or anything - is a good idea, then go for it.
If not, tell him you don't want to, and just try hanging out less.
I hope it all works out!
-Siren =)
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I'm really sorry btu this doesnt seen liek ti is going to work uot for you two.
The same thing ahppened to ym friend. SHe fought about somethign new wiht her boyfriend after a long relationship. ((it was towards the end that they started fighting)) eventually she broke it off and althoguhg she still cared about him she realized that it was for teh best. and she is also a lot happier now
I think that you should should break it off now before he really hurts you ((emotionall or physically!))
Sorry adn i hope ti works out int eh end! Rate me
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you should sit down with him and talk about it.. or maybe see him every couple of days or so.. if you two still fight a lot and you don't want to be with him anymore than you should probably tell him that all the fighting is breakiing you two apart..
RaTe Me!
hope i helped!
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Sometimes people just need their space. Fighting is never good in a relationship...especially when its only been 5 months. I recommend that you guys split for a while and if it is meant to be than you will find eachother again.
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