Member Since: July 25, 2004 Answers: 2 Last Update: July 25, 2004 Visitors: 538
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Hey i have a few questions. ok 1st of all lately alot of people have been telling me it seems like i have a low self esteem and im just now seeing that i do when it comes down because i always care about what people are going to think or what there going to say about me.I dont know this just started and i wanted to know if you could help me stop being like this.and 2nd of all i had this one best friend i mean we were always together and did everything and everyone even thinks were sisters but i messed up her friendship by doing something with her boyfriend and now she hates me and calls me a hoe and all this other stuff and i dont know what i can do to make her forgive me cause were going into high skewl this year and i dont know what im going to do i know i should have thought about that before i did that with her boyfriend.but i just wanted to know what you would do if you were me.?.Ok and now my last one. i had sex when i was 13 with the guy i have been with for 15 months now and i really do love him. but ever since i had sex people call me a hoe and all that but i dont think i am and i know im not cause isnt a hoe someone that does it with everyone? cause hes the only person i have done it with so i dont see how im a hoe. i mean yeah i kissed other guys and get finger but i still dont see myself as a hoe.So i dont know what to do.Please help me!!! I also wanted to know how far other 14 year olds have gone.so please write me back.Thanks! (link)
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ok wow thats a lot of questions!
self esteem- i rly dont know wat i would tell u except to believe in urself!
ok im going through the exact same thing with my best friend. i love this grl soo much(in a totally BEST FRIEND kinda way lol)but we kinda started going seperate ways. I now hang out with most grls that r older than me and idn if she got jealous or wat happened but she thinks ive totally changed and she doesnt like wat ive changed into. She wont talk to me and its so hard bcuz i relied on her for EVERYTHING! this grl knew me better than i knew myself! as for u... i think it would b good to try to talk to her urself and see wat she says! although if u rly cared about her y would u do something wit her boyfriend?? sry but she has a right to hate u! just try to talk to her
ok if ur only 13 and u had sex...idn thats rly young! the same thing happend to a grl at my school and she lost a lot of friends and her reputation even tho she only did it once. just let time heal it i guess.. just dont go and have sex with any1 anytime soon... u have ur whole life ahead of u!
idn i go to southlake carroll and we're rllly fast ppl! so like idn ppl do everything but sex but in my opinion i dont think thats wat should b going on i mean we;re soooo YOUNG! haha wow i sound like my mom! well idn do wat u feel comfortable with and dont let any1 pressure u!
anyways i hope that helped!
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now almost 5 months but lately we've been fighting alot and i dont like it..like everyday something new to fight about comes up..we hang out like everyday so people say its because we need to hang out less..he brought up taking a "break" or time apart..im scared..=(..what should i do..and does it seem like its gonna work out in the end?
xO ManDiiE =) (link)
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hey! omgosh trust me i know it stinks when u and ur boyfriend fight but i think every1 goes through it! if u wanna take a break bcuz u think u spend to much time together then i think it would b a good idea to talk about a break with him.. but he needs to understand that a "break" does NOT mean u wanna break up... u just want time for urself. sit down and talk to him about everything then see wat he says and if he agrees then u know he rly cares and if not... well then he doesnt care about u as much as u care about him. lets just hope he understands wat ur saying and decides to do wat will b best for u!
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