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For as long as i can remember ive been attracted more to guys that are older than me...not like wayyyy older but like 2-4 years..is that weird? i flirt with a lot of guys my age but i dont like having relationships with em...im not gonna stop i just wanna hear what other people got to say...thanks.

thats perfectly normal cuz girls mature faster than guys do

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Ok..well i have a desk in my room and i keep all my deoderant,purfume,and stuff 4 my hair in a little basket type thingy. But i dont wanna put it in there anymore..so does anyone have any ideas..or like wat do yall put all that in? Be creative..if possible=)

If u go to Ikea... the have this mesh bag type of things that u can hang in ur room and it has different compartments i cant really explain it u can put ur stuff in there... cheQ out other stuff at Ikea too... they have great stuff for storage

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My stomach is feeling extremely, uh.. acidy? acid-like? Is there something I can do to solve this?

u can take Gas- X, Mylanta, Pepto Bismol.. etc

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ok i have a bf and everythang and he sed if he did sumin 4 me i wuld have to kiss him tha next time we see each and i dont wanna kiss him right now enwayz so wut should i do..??

well a relationship isnt a what will u give me if i give u sumthing u want... its wanting to give sum1 sumthing cuz u know it'll make him/her happy... and if ur relationship doesnt work that way its not much of a relationship.. talk to ur bf and see what he says... im sure you'll be able to tell by his reponse whether he is bf material or not

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does anyone know of a way to get an anti-depressent(i.e. Zoloft©) without going to see a doctor??? I need something along those lines but i can't tell my parents that i need an anti-depressent for certain reasons. My depression used to be just the common teenage cliche of {boredom + no life + no friends + girl troubles = depression}. Earlier this week i realized it was a much more serious problem when i was alone(drunk + depressed) and for some reason got to thinking that i dont want to live anymore.......So i went downstairs, got a knife from the kitchen, went back up to my room and proceeded to stab myself in the wrist numerous times. It bled all over the place for a while and then i turned really pale felt really cold and also a bit numb....then i just kinda zonked out. The next morning i woke up in a puddle of my own blood, and thats when i realized that i cant do this anymore. So yea my question remains is there any way to get an anti-depressent along the lines of zoloft or ya know something like it without seeing a doctor???

(p.s.) - anyone who says "you should tell your parents" gets a rating of a 1 and i automatically dont like you....

to get help u are gonna have to tell ur parents to take u to see a therapist or sumthing... and they can prescribe an antidepressant... u cant get anything without a prescription, u cant get a prescription without seein a doctor, and if ur under 18 u cant see a doctor without ur parents... u need to see a doctor ASAP... they do have emerygency sessions for people that need help asap... just tell ur parents that u dont feel good emotionally... and go from there... once u talk to sum1 u will feel a lot better... and im sure you'll be fine once u get an anit-depressant... good luck

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Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped?

Theres no way that people like this can be stopped... but what u can do is when u have a serious question instead of askin the whole pool ask colonists that dont give smart comments... and when u ask a serious make sure u dont mark the box at the top labeled "Present question to everyone if not answered in seven days" :)

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i feel like guys only like girls for their bodies, so i reject alot og guys. what should i do?

Most guys are like that... but trust me not all guys r like that... always get to knO sum1 before u get into a relationship or before u reject...

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I don't get it. Disco is cool! If you don't know how to dance, chances are Disco works. Does anyone know how and why it died????

Cuz Hip Hop ShOweD up... lol

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SORRY IT'S SO LONG, BUT I HAD TO SAY IT!!!!

STUFF SOME OF THE MODERATORS ARE SICK OF DEALING WITH (actually im speaking for myself, and i'm not sure but maybe a few others)

the people that ask to be rated, I usually rate them LOW, just because it seems like all they care about are ratings, and they aren't in it for the advice

the people who say I Rate, it's like they're so desperate, that they tell people that they rate, just so they can get better answers, WTF¿?

And what bugs me, are either the non-advice questions, like asking for a screen name(thats what you have friends for)

And, the people who ask the following, I like a guy, I'm Not sure if he likes me, What Should I Do? Uh Hello obvious, TELL HIM!!!

And people who say, My boy Friend wants to have sex, I'm not sure, I almost feel like I'm to young, what should I do? well thats easy, if u have to ask, then the answer's NO

The one thing that gets me is people who say admin please don't delete, HELLO that just makes the admin know that it's a Dumb question

All these repeats, and stupid I Rate, Rate me questions are SO ANNOYING, i just wanted to state that

sorry i know that it wasn't asking for advice, but i just felt like posting that, it just really gets on my nerves, i mean i have done that before, but i've realized how stupid it was!

by the way, if u wanna leave something in my inbox, like a rude reply to this, or just any question, then my name is SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

i don't care if this gets deleted, i just HAD to post it!!

LOL you have a point... but keep in mind... not everyone is up to your level... ur rite tho... it does get annoying :D

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It looks like my mother is finally lettig me get my nose pierced for my 16th birtday in a few months. My birthday is in October, and I could get it done around then, or I could wait until Christmas break. What I want to know is...does anyone know any specifics about it? Like...does it swell up? How long does it take to not look like you "just got it done". Because I don't want to go to school having a strawberry for a nose. Please don't resond to this, if you have no idea what you're talking about, thanks ;)

I have my nose pierced...:) and it's not that hard to blow my nose... um there might be sum swelling but honestly it doesnt last that long for most people... If u go to a piercing place they are probably gonna pierce ur nose wit a needle... i got mine done from a Pakistani Jewelry store & they pierced my nose wit a gun... so if u rather get it done with a gun try to find sum Pakistani or Indian Jewelry stores... because sum do piercings... if u feel comfortable doing it around Christmas break than wait... but the sooner u get it done... the sooner... it'll heal... the sooner u can enjoy it:)

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I'm only 13, but i need to save up some money 4 my Bestfriends birthday. But what i want 2 give her is really expensive. It's like 70 bucks! But i know it's wut she wants more than anything else. So, does anyone have any ideas for how to raise that much money??? thanx

why dont u try mowing ur neighbors lawns... or babysitting...

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anyone kno how to get rid of blackheads[ somethin at home] thanx

get a blackhead remover... u can get it at a drupstore... it'll be near the tweezers

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Is it true that if you don't eat your body makes something called "water fat" whitch is harder to loose than regular fat?

yup... suppose you knew that u wouldnt be able to buy food for a very long time... what would u do... store food rite? well ur body does the same thing... if u dont eat much ur body stores the food that u do eat as fat...ur body is thinking i dont know when im going to get food again

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Im think im soooo fat and no matter what I do nothing seems to work. Im 105 pounds 5'1 and 13 years old. isn't that really really over weight?? any ideas what i can do to loose weight before school starts?!

U ARE NOT OVER WEIGHT...

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ok here it goes: i have some kind of persperation problem. like i sweat all the time! i put on deodarant, wash and everything. i dont have b.o either. ive tried many different brands 2! it shows up on my clothes and its embarrasing. how do i control this problem? thanks 4 the help!

Well it soundz like you have hyper hydrosis which is caused by genetics... when you have this condition ur palms, da soles of ur feet and ur under arms are constantly dripping wet... This Happens when ur sweat controlling nerves work more than they are supposed... And when u sweat like this theres nothing deodarant or antiperspirants can do... What you can do is go to the Dermatologist and they can inject botox in in ur underarms... that'll fix ur problem... however this only lasts for a year... so its needs to be done every year... Another choice u have is a Sympathectomy... This is a surgical procedure where the surgeons will cut the nerves in ur under arms so they dont send the messege to your sweat glands to work more than they should... this procedure has sum short term side effects which are costly so talk to a doctor and find out whats best for you... what u can do in the meantime is use underarm pads which can be sewn into ur clothes... u can find them at fabric stores...

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hey,
i love this 1 girl i mean i cant get my mind offa her ive been tryin 2 forget about her for 6 months because all signs say she doesnt like me any more but im hopin she still does ya know???? i mean you got any ideas on how i could try and get her back or possibly forget about her ill try anything SOME! HELP!!!

It's not good to crush over sum1 that doesnt feel the same about u ... try to go out wit the guys and hollah at other girls ...

thats what i said about tryin to get over her... and u replied.... " hey ass i dont wanna get over her" .... well if u dont wanna get over her... than i suggest you start kissing her ass....!!!

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ok.. in 2 days im going to the eye doctor and im gettin contacts.. what i would like to know if what color would go best with dark brown hair? please help ( i rate mostly 5's ) thanx!

i think any color would look good... but what i think i really cute is... if u get purple contacts and than wear like a shimery purple eye shadow and black eye linear...

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hi ok i really want a thong i am 14 and i am in 9th grade. i asked mi mom if i could get i last year and she said no i wuz too young well i am a shy person at times now i wunt to ask her but im scared !!! help

well... what i would try doing is ... tellin your mom that the reason that u wanna wear thongs is so your underwear line doesnt show... cuz if you wear really tiight pants you can see the imprint of it through ur pants... so try that and say that its embarassing when people can see your line and stuff... try that...

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i found the background i want for advicenators.. but cnt get it to work.. ne help? or im x mercy me 14 x

XOXOX LOV YA

right click on the picture... and than go to open with Internet Explorer.. than copy the url addy and paste it in the blank marked website url

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