HAYBABY104 answered Friday August 6 2004, 12:13 am: yeah, that can be true in some cases. but it is also true that there are some genuinely nice guys out there who dont care that much about you looking like the girl on the covers of magazines. I think you should try to give some guys a chance and get to know them and what they look for in a girl.. its worth a shot! Hope i was of some help .. rate me please [ HAYBABY104's advice column | Ask HAYBABY104 A Question ]
raushelle answered Friday August 6 2004, 12:03 am: stop being so self absorbed. Ur missing out on some good guyz. Just get to know them as friends and then youll like actually know them before rejecting them. lol. sorry but yeah.
Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:33 pm: Sadly this is true for a lot of guys. However, if you don't want to be rejecting them every time they approach you, you might want to try getting to know the guy. If he turns out to be a shallow prick, then you can reject him. Lol.
Give them a chance - some guys are worth it. I gave my guy a chance and we'll have been dating for 9 months solid on the 14th. *Shrug*
You've gotta take a few risks when dealing with love or anything along those lines.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:30 pm: At least get to know the guy first. You may fid he likes you for than your body. It's not fair to not give these guys a chance. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
Cutie8 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:42 pm: Hi, i completely understand your problem but i personally think not ALL guys are like that. I know alot of my guy friends arent like that and they are just as cool as the rest of the guys in my school! So, i think if your turning guys down you should maybe give one or two that you are intrested in a second chance but make sure he likes you for you! and if you just dont like him or anyone that is offering find your own guy to ask out or simply wait it out. Boyfriends will come and go but if you make sure that you both like eachother enough and on the same terms than it could turn into a steady relationship! good luck hope this helps! [ Cutie8's advice column | Ask Cutie8 A Question ]
spirit250 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:25 pm: Well, not all guys are the same. Around Middle and High School, though, most of them can seem like jerks, but that doesn't mean they all are! I know a bunch of boys who read your question and don't feel that way about girls are probably hurt that you could think that. I would say try to be nicer to the guys, please? Maybe don't entirely reject them like a moldy piece of bread, but just tell them nicely that you aren't interested in starting a relationship. It's okay to just not want to get involved, but keep in mind that not all guys think the same way. [ spirit250's advice column | Ask spirit250 A Question ]
TheKnightOwl answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:19 pm: Well, you're right, a lot of guys like girls for their bodies. As to what you should do, get to know some of these guys, don't let them touch you, if they are in it for the real thing, like a long lasting relationship, they'll be able to wait. Guys are simple creatures really, and react very well to conditioning if they think there's something in it for them. But keep it a secret, if any of my friends knew that I was leaking information about us to women, they'd make me get a sex change. [ TheKnightOwl's advice column | Ask TheKnightOwl A Question ]
Jane answered Thursday August 5 2004, 9:58 pm: *They do, it's part of human nature so let that go unless they keep staring at your chest or ass. If the guy compliments you on something other than your body, give him a chance.* [ Jane's advice column | Ask Jane A Question ]
JuStAsKmE answered Thursday August 5 2004, 9:53 pm: l0l.. thats not true though.. i mean.. for a lot of guys it is.. but not all of em.. cuz.. im uHh.. idk how to sae it bein nice.. but.. im reeeaally fat.. l0l.. and i dont have a problem gettyn hot guys.. [ JuStAsKmE's advice column | Ask JuStAsKmE A Question ]
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