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Hey!I'm Casey(girl)and im 14.My friend is also 14 and she is in 6 month relationship with her b.f.They have had sex 8 times and whenever they are together they always do stuff(sex,BJ,makeout,HJ etc.)I sometimes start to think he is using her but then again they r in a serious relationship. Is that the way to go in a relationship? Do you think their realtionship will go far if thats all they do?If u have ne advice please write..thanx!;)
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I think it is going wayyyyyy to fast! Well she is too young to begin with! And also since I don't know how their current relationship stats are , I dunno how far they are gonna go...But still I can't get across the fact that she's only 14 and having sex... next thing you know she's gonna get pregnant... and the babies daddi may leave... too much too young. And they are also too young too be soooo serious. But it's her life and she (I guess) can live it the way she wants.... Good Luck! and I hope she makes the right decision! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~
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Wow, for 14 yr olds, they are getting in2 a lot of stuff. This isn't really the way 2 go in a relationship, especially when ur only 14 yrs old. It is better 2 wait 4 all the sex stuff until after ur married, that way ur with a partner that u completely trust and truely love and u no they feel the same about u. You don't wanna do sumthin that u might regret in the future, cuz most likely 1 or the other of them will get hurt.
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well... if he is just using her she has to go thu it herself. all you can do is be there for her.
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A serious relationship at 14. Haha. That's a good one. He's using the hell out of her. The relationship won't go far at all because soon she'll tire of sex and she'll want something real from the guy.
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Well, if their relationship is based purely on lust, not love, it may not last long.
I'm sixteen, he's eighteen - My boyfriend and I have had sex six times and we make out when we're together - that's not all we do, but still - we're in a serious relationship, and it's going really well.
*Shrug* It's really up to them - if they can deal with the fact that the lust might not always be there, and their relationship is based on love, too, it may very well last. However, if literally ALL they do is make out and have sex, they may get tired of each other quickly.
There's also no one way to go in a relationship. They're different for everyone, really.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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that is not a relationship because a relationship is not based on only sex! if they have an "serious relationship""" then they should do more then have sex. just on day ask her if she knows his fav food or color if she cant tell u then it is baced on only sex. if she can anwser those questions then ask her what is his longest relationship. because if she can tell u then they are 4 real.
write me back and tell me how it went!
hopes it works jasmine
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if thats all they do then thier relationship wont last. but maybe they do it so much that its so annoying to you that thats all you think they do. they might do or talk about things other than sexual. i guess you will just have to wait and see if they last.
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Best way to tell if he's using her, judge how they interract with each other when its a public place. If he treats her like crap and tells her to do stuff without being polite, "go get me a drink" and stuff of that nature. As for your second question, about sex being the way to go. Everyone's going to do it when they're comfortable about it. Yes it feels good, yes its a loving intimate experience to share, but don't rush into anything you think you're not ready to. As for when you know you're ready, you'll just know, its all part of how you develop as a person and as a biological entity.
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i really dnt understand y u care i mean i noe shes ur friend n all n u care about her but its her problem.. honestly i dont think a relationship will go far if its just based on sex.. so i really dont think its a "serious" relationship.. especially wen ur 14.. n plus shes to young to b havin sex..
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I'm going to guess that they competely don't understand what a relationship is for, and are doing this for the sake of sex. Their relationship will fall apart.
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If thats ALL they do.. maybe it wont go as far as you think... but hey.. as long as she is WILLININGLY doing it and hes not FORCING her to do it then.. i guess its okay for them to do it... its not always the way to go.. but it just depends how the girl / guy are and how long they have been going out =)
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*Nope, their relationship sucks. They didn't save the important things for later, so he's pretty much using her.*
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