ok i have a bf and everythang and he sed if he did sumin 4 me i wuld have to kiss him tha next time we see each and i dont wanna kiss him right now enwayz so wut should i do..??
BeezKneez answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:16 am: If u truely feel uncomfortable w/ kissing him right now, just tell him that. If ur boyfriend respects u then he will accept it and be willing 2 wait until ur ready. Good luck! [ BeezKneez's advice column | Ask BeezKneez A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Saturday August 7 2004, 1:57 am: well a relationship isnt a what will u give me if i give u sumthing u want... its wanting to give sum1 sumthing cuz u know it'll make him/her happy... and if ur relationship doesnt work that way its not much of a relationship.. talk to ur bf and see what he says... im sure you'll be able to tell by his reponse whether he is bf material or not [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
Short_N_Punky answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:28 am: Stand your ground and tell him you dont wana kiss him right now. If you tries to get you to do it be more firmer. If he wont listen then tell him if you dont listen to me its over. Good luck hope iv helped a little and dont be afraid to write back.
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anonymous525 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:23 am: well thats a trouble... it depends how much you like this guy..and then again he is sounding a little pushy .. don't let him think he can get his way every time cause soon it might go on a turn for the worst! the right choice is in your heart try to listen to it... it can help!
BabyJay04 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:21 am: hey girl i was in that same situation once.if he is the type of guy u can just say hey im not ready to kiss ya yet or if hes the guy that wouldnt understand that then just try to avoid it and change that subject when it comes along..or if ur afraid of loosin him if u dont kiss him then just kiss him maybe it is the rite time for you.but he should always respect you and if he doesnt maybe he isnt worth your time hope i helped.put it in the inbox..xoxoJay [ BabyJay04's advice column | Ask BabyJay04 A Question ]
*tasha* answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:18 am: Hey!If your not ready to kiss yet then your not ready to kiss yet...Whatever you do don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't wanna do!If your not comfortable with something than definetely dont do it!Just be like "hey i dont think im ready yet" I think he'll understand...and if he doesn't then hes not worth it cuz what do u think hes gonna want after you do give in and kiss him??Maybe he won't..but guys think if they can pressure you into doin somethin then they can pressure you into havin sex too..and if ur not ready to kiss then i bet ur not ready for sex!I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!LET ME KNO HOW EVERYTHANG TURNS OUT!!!
Mackenzie answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:17 am: Dude.. flat out tell him. I don't kiss guys.. EVER!!!!! I just skip that "base". I make shoRe that eveRy guy I go out with knows I don't like to kiss. That way, if he tRies to kiss me and gets socked in the jaw |[this has happened many a time]|... he would have deseRved it, because he knew betteR! The way I see it, if a guy can't Respect how I feel... then he can't Respect me, and you don't need him! Hope I helped! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
xcry4noguyx answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:17 am: you should tell him that if he's going to put you in that kind of a position than you dont need to be with him...tell him to reconsider his demands [ xcry4noguyx's advice column | Ask xcry4noguyx A Question ]
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