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I'm starting to throw up my dinner each night. I know this isn't good, but i cant stop myself. What should i do? (link)
You need talk with your parents and get pro help.


ill rate 5's
i feel so ugly... no guys like me, all my friends have b/f's. i even thought i was ugly before. i stayed up until 3;30 last night crying my eyes out because i knew i was ugly... im crying typing this . i feel like im never ever going to be pretty... i dont really even want to live but i wouldn't kill myself cuz thats eww... i just keep realizing how ugly i really am... and then i keep crying. all i do is get made fun of and called ugly i dont want to be ugly.. please help (link)
Your not ugly.
DONT CALL YOURSELF THAT. Join a after school class, take internet self quizes. You just need to realize HOW SPECIAL you REALLY ARE. Everybody is beautiful on the outside, and everybody has atleast one good thing on the inside. FIND you confindince(sp?), its there, go search.


okay...my boyfriend's mom buys me stuff all the time because he's an only child and I'm now like her adopted girl or something haha, but anyways, I wanted to get her and my boyfriend's dad something for Christmas because of this. My boyfriend says that their anniversary is just before Christmas and he suggested that I, or maybe even we, get them something to count for both occasions. Anyways, I have no idea at all what to get them, shopping for my own parents is hard enough and I've know them my whole lives. Um...his parents live on a farm, his dad works at a golf course, they make maple syrup, and they have a little dog. Any suggestions would be great! They don't have to do with the stuff I said either, original ideas are good too. Thanks! (link)
-Ask him for Ideas.-
You could get them something that relates to there favorite Movie/Song.



OK so tomorrow i have lacrosse tryouts, and i know i probably won't make it, but i still will probably get my hopes up too high by the time i try out...is there any way i could make it so im not so disappointed if i dont make it? It'll also make it WAY better if i DO make it if I'm not expecting it hehe (link)
Just Try hard & do your all around best.
Know that not making it doesnt mean your not good.Good luck, & try hard.


I have a problem with bad breath...i always brush my teeth, i chew mint gum CONSTANTLY and i eat mints all the time, and yet my breath still stinks, what can i do to make it fresh?!?!?! (link)
See a dentist (sp?)


should girls shave thier pubes? and if so how much? and how are you saposed to get the hair wwaayy down there.. since its pretty much.. surrounded..?
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you dont have too.
I get mine waxed personally.


hi. umm i am 13f and i havent started my period yet.. which is fine. but umm i am completely am totally flat. im not one of those girls with small boobs who just says shes flat. i really am quite literally FLAT. and i hate it. all of my friends (again, not exagerating) have boobs. how come i dont? will they ever come? because i do see adults sometimes that are flat. i really dont want to be like that. i have never had a boyfriend. my friends have. guys like girls with boobs. and dont say its not true. sorry huns, but uuh it is. guys used to like me in 5th grade and below because i am pretty, and then, nobody had boobs. but now that they do, im just a "little girl" compared to all of my friends. i really hate being flat. i dont know what i can do. obviously i cant magically make them appear.. but aah i hate it. i dont want to wear a padded bra because if someone bumps into me it will be obvious. what is a water bra? and wtf do i do????????
i rate 5. just pleease give me some good advice. (link)
One you get your period, (Lucky you dont have it yet, its not ALL that great) They will start to grow. Big boobs are not all that great ( Major hard clothes finding i consider you lucky). And Yes they will grow, You will have come your still young. A water bra just kinda like a padda bra only is looks more real.



I am 13 and in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'll be able to manage one better when I get to high school. Is it a turn-off to guys if you've never had a boyfriend before? I need to know, thanks.

I give fives. (link)
I dont think it is. I mean if hes a super flirt guy, he MAY use it against you. But no i dont think it would be for MOST guys.



My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months and i want to get him something for christmas. I don't have a lot to spend and i want it to be something special. Any ideas? (link)
Cd,shirt,hat,Dvds, or something.


I had tennis try outs today. I didn't expect to make it, because there were 40 guys fighting over 6 spots, so I wasn't too bumbed when I didn't make it.


My family is making comments about the coach and how they should have picked me, all in the spirit of making me feel better. But I got over it while I was walking off the court, how do I make them get over it? (link)
Will families are like that, they just wanted you to get it. Id tell them " Im over it now" And now its up to them to get over it also. Dont worry, they'll be over it soon.


I am 13 and in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'll be able to manage one better when I get to high school. Is it a turn-off to guys if you've never had a boyfriend before? I need to know, thanks.

I give fives. (link)
to most guys this is actually a turn on BECAUSE they know that like, you`ve never been kissed and they would be your like, first kiss i guess? But yea i asked my friend brock just because he was over haha. ♥


i'm dying my hair red. what is a good kind of dye to use? my sister is going to do it. and it needs to be inexpensive from walmart. (link)
Herbal Essencess
yes, its the best.


How do you put bullets on your "About Me" section on your MySpace page?


Also, does anyone have a site where you're able to make "Over Lapping" text? Thanks. (link)
www.myspacesupports.org
I think I think. If not look up Myspacesupport
on Yahoo or something.


Heres my proble im female and im 16 I hope you can help,so to make a long story short i fell for my best guy friend and he lead me on for like 6 months im crazy about him it got to the point where he has become me security blanket. i've been going through a really tough time in my life right now and hes been there for me i'd tell him i loved him and hed say i love too but he wouldnt date me and i asked if him it was okay that im so dependant on him, and he told me yes its fine im here for you etc. and just recently out of the blue he was like you call me too much, I cant be your security balnket anymore plus he met someone and basically he was like here ill give you some space get over me and like now we dont really talk hes ina erlationship with this new girl of his , im so hurt cause he just like left and he promise he'd always be there for me and he promised me alot of things but he did lead me ona nd now hes basically doesnt want anything to do with me and he told me left like he did because he got sick of being my friend and i know that, thats not really the main reason why its because of this new girl and i dont know im still in love with hima nd hes my best guy friend and im so confused and hes said oh im sorry a million times but i just cant forgive him a part of me wants to hate him so much but i jsut cant because i love him and he was the first guy ive ever fallen for and ive cried so much overhim and i just cant let go of him and accpet that he did what he did out of all the people i truey care about he walked out me just like my parents did, How can I get over him i need to so bad all he does is hurt me (link)
Wow. You know You maybe just gave him a LITTLE to much dependace, and freaked him out. So, maybe its time Just to clear your head a little. And Realize, That maybe he couldnt take helping you with all your problems. Id forgive him, And then maybe lean on him for things, but maybe just dont make it to were you just like ATTACK him with problems you know? (Kinds seems how it was when you explained it) And let him know that he IS VERy IMPORTANT TO YOU (Even if he does know it)I really think you may need to keep a diary, or like find away to relive your self beacause i feel like you really got ALOT of stress. I tried to help, It was just hard for me.


Heres my proble im female and im 16 I hope you can help,so to make a long story short i fell for my best guy friend and he lead me on for like 6 months im crazy about him it got to the point where he has become me security blanket. i've been going through a really tough time in my life right now and hes been there for me i'd tell him i loved him and hed say i love too but he wouldnt date me and i asked if him it was okay that im so dependant on him, and he told me yes its fine im here for you etc. and just recently out of the blue he was like you call me too much, I cant be your security balnket anymore plus he met someone and basically he was like here ill give you some space get over me and like now we dont really talk hes ina erlationship with this new girl of his , im so hurt cause he just like left and he promise he'd always be there for me and he promised me alot of things but he did lead me ona nd now hes basically doesnt want anything to do with me and he told me left like he did because he got sick of being my friend and i know that, thats not really the main reason why its because of this new girl and i dont know im still in love with hima nd hes my best guy friend and im so confused and hes said oh im sorry a million times but i just cant forgive him a part of me wants to hate him so much but i jsut cant because i love him and he was the first guy ive ever fallen for and ive cried so much overhim and i just cant let go of him and accpet that he did what he did out of all the people i truey care about he walked out me just like my parents did, How can I get over him i need to so bad all he does is hurt me (link)
I know how you feel. I am so sorry. He's an asshole. He doesn't know what he is missing out on. The best thing you can do is try and move on too. Ya, it is going to be hard. But I believe in you. Maybe you can try and talk to your parents? Even though,you said they walked out on you. The best thing to do is rent a movie(chick flick) sit on a coach and eat ice cream. No I was just kidding. There will be other guys out there I promise. This guy doesn't desire you. You don't just randomly dump your girlfriend for some gross chick.

I know I wasnt very helpful but just give it time and everything will eventually go away. When I got my heart broken last year i think i cried from february til july. I know, you can do so much better than him. You can even tell him i think he's an asshole for dumping someone like you.

Carolynn


i am 13/f, 8th grade, virgin, flat, has not yet had my period, don't masterbate, etc etc. I havent even had my first kiss yet, which totally sucks. but i always have this gross white goopy stuff in my vagina or my underwear. its really gross. it doesnt smell or anything, its just.. gross. what is it????

i rate 5 (link)
Its discharge happens to ALL girls.


i need help and tips on how to apply liquid eyeliner
please no websites (link)
Well it's a little more difficult than pencil. I wouldn't suggest putting it on the bottom until you get used to it. Don't put too much eyeliner on the applicator brush thing, and only go where your eyelashes begin to grow (on the top of your eyelid). Keep practicing and soon you'll get used to it and be able to do it in no time. Wet Q-Tips are great for fixing little problems. I hope I helped. to it. Remember, practice makes perfect!


I know that when in a relationship 'Trust' is the key element. Well, I trust my boyfriend with everything I am, but that's not the problem. I know that he thinks other girls are pretty and that he looks at other girls like that upsets me. I know, I know. I probably sound really immature, but I know that ever since I've been dating him I don't really look at guys that way anymore because I don't need to look- I have him. I haven't got upset over this, but I can't help but think he's checking girls out while he out with me. Any advice? (link)
Hes Just looking- If he even is in fact looking.
not touching. As you said you know he thinks other girls are pretty. Dont let it get to your head, before you EXACLTY seem him looking. I think you really already know everything that anybody can tell you.


what is a good way to get lower abs/ a flat tummy. what are some exercising techniques or healthier eatin habbits, anything anyone will recommened thank you sooo much! =) (link)
DO streches & crunches. Loads of running.
And Be positive.


Why doi have stomachepains2 days after having sex? (link)
Maybe its just cramps.?
Take some medcine. And lay down & drink water.
Nothing to worry about.




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