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i feel so ugly... no guys like me, all my friends have b/f's. i even thought i was ugly before. i stayed up until 3;30 last night crying my eyes out because i knew i was ugly... im crying typing this . i feel like im never ever going to be pretty... i dont really even want to live but i wouldn't kill myself cuz thats eww... i just keep realizing how ugly i really am... and then i keep crying. all i do is get made fun of and called ugly i dont want to be ugly.. please help
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well...u sound axactly like me,except i did try to kill myself.People can be mean and i took it way to hard. I cut and i became very suicidal. I don't cut anymore and i'm no longer suicidal. I still feel ugly but i do not get as depressed over it. you ahve to learn that when people make fun of you they do it because they want to make themselves feel better. All that really matters is what's on the inside. That's really cliche and i'ms ure you've heard it before, but it's true. I am the only one is my group of friends without a bf too, but it doesn't matter.You don't need a boyfriend. just forget what people say. It doesn't matter what they think. IF you ever wanna talk u can instant message me. NotARandomSN13 bye
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I'm sure your not ugly. Its not you its them! They need a magifine Glass! Or Is It That!? No They Need New Eye Balls! I Bet you $$464.5341.3547.6768.7468.7468.4657.0000 That your not ugly. And Thats ALOT of money I am risking! (*grins* Money that I don't have) Thats Why I am saying. If guys are stupid enough to think that just because a girl hasnt got the right kind of body for them there not worth it. Believe me I Know, and I'm not skinny or any of those things. I Weigh over 199lbs. and I am just 14. So Your not ugly. People just need to wake up!
♥ - Green Day Rocks
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Your not ugly.
DONT CALL YOURSELF THAT. Join a after school class, take internet self quizes. You just need to realize HOW SPECIAL you REALLY ARE. Everybody is beautiful on the outside, and everybody has atleast one good thing on the inside. FIND you confindince(sp?), its there, go search.
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Cheer up! I'm sure this is not the thing you want to do right now, but a lot of people feel this. Even those drop dead gorgeous girls with boyfriends have their moments and weaknesses.There's actually something that you have over them, believe it or not. Boyfriends do not equal beauty! I know someone who is very pretty in my eyes, I think you would consider this girl pretty too. She never had a real relationship until she was sixteen. (She 'went out' with some kid prior, but it didn't really count she was young). She is as happy and glowing as ever but before that she had some real self issues. Maybe your older or younger than that girl but it doesn't matter is what I mean. You do NOT need a boyfriend. All those girls are gonna have 5421 boyfriends throughout the course of the year, and PLEASE let them! Who cares? Because they're going to go through boyfriends like they're disposable! It's going to wear out all the specialness. I think there's plenty of people for everybody, it just depends who you find first. So yes, I think there are dozens of people who might find you absolutely entrancing. Think of how big the world is. Forget your town or school or county or state! They're all over the place. Believe it or not. And besides that, guys should not judge a girl based upon looks. Maybe some do, but those aren't the kind of guy you want. You want a cute guy who loves you for you and searches so much deeper. There's nothing wrong with being single! Trust me...it's not the key to failure. Eventually, when you do find that person, and believe me I know they're coming whether it be in 2 years or 2 weeks...it's going to feel golden! Just develop skills and have confidence and let people know that you don't NEED a boyfriend because that will only drag you down on the inside. People who jump from boyfriend to boyfriend are screaming INSECURITY! They can't live without a boyfriend. I find that disgusting. Is that supposed to boost their self-confidence? That they're immature and need someone to swoon over 24-7? Listen, it's not like I know what you look like, but I just have this feeling your coming down too hard on yourself. You know how when you talk, you hear your voice so much differently than when you watch a home video and listen to your voice? You perceive your voice differently than it really is. Couldn't that be the same thing with looks? Haven't you ever had a bad hair day and walked out the door and been told that your hair was fine or you looked pretty? I'm sure it's happened atleast once. You see yourself different than you really are. Why do you think some super skinny people think they're fat? It's all a deceivery...something about living within yourself changes your view to what you're really like. Maybe you're not the 'hottest' girl in school, but I'm sure after a while, those girls even get bored of it. Being pretty is nothing you can personally acheive. Being smart, witty, charismatic, funny is all about how you apply yourself. It's something you can actually work at. Maybe looks you can change more or less with a little makeup, but it's not the looks that should draw the boys. I promise one day you'll find a cute boy who likes you for you. Don't get discouraged when it's been a month or two and prince charming's nowhere to be found. Here's what I'd do if I were you and my looks were bugging me really bad. Put on a little makeup, do your hair nice, buy a cute new outfit, and encourage yourself with every fiber of your being. Tell yourself beauty should only be from the inside but if it's strong enough in can reflect on the outside. Don't cry anymore. It's not worth your tears. Every girl has weak moments like this. Just keep fighting and you'll find a way through it. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
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im positive you're not that ugly.. maybe you should try doing some different hair styles or something .. like makeup - if you don't wear it already try it, it always makes me feel better about myself for some reason - or if you already wear makeup play around with some different colors - hope i helpedd!! =)
xoxo - meg
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im sure you are a pretty person, but something you must remeber what makes you beatuful is your personality, be confident and you will be beautiful to everyone because of that self confidence, feel pretty and you will be pretty. <3
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ok send me a picture of you and I'll tell you if you're ugly... Please do I want to help you...
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Sweetie, I know how you feel. When I was in highschool I was made fun of all the time too. They used to call me Chocolate Covererd Marshmallow because my foster parents took me to a barber instead of a beautition to get my hair done and it looked square and fluffy.
But now, here I am, 21. I have a wonderful husband, a great job, and I'm getting to see the world. Where are those people who teased me? They all ended up getting pregnant and having a kid while not married, or kicked out of the house, or addicted to drugs.
I know school is a tough time... you just want to fit in and you want to be liked. But you have to trust me when I say, those wont be the best years of your life. The only people who say,"High school was the best years of my life" are those who have nothing going for them.
You'll grow up, you'll become attractive, and you'll make something of yourself. Trust me... I did. You just have to grit your teeth and take one step at a time. You'll get through this. You will. But as of right now, you need to stop worrying about everyone else, and spend some time on you. Take a day to give yourself an at home spa, it'll make you feel better. And work on bettering your own life(emotionally, physically, and hygenically). Once you stop stressing about what the others have to say, and you start focusing on making yourself feel better and look better, then everything will eventually get better.
Stay safe, don't harm yourself.
Tipsy Gypsy
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