well my frend told me she smokes andim not sure if i should try caus she brings trhem to skool sometimes and i dont know if i should try !!!!!!!!
Okay well I'd be hypocritical if I said that smoking is bad and that you shouldn't start etc
A lot of my friends smoke and so do I, although I've kind of given up. At first it's great, it calms you down and makes you feel more chilled out but after a while you'll wish you'd never started.
So basically, don't. You're probably thinking "Oh but if I only try it once then it wont hurt me." That's not always true. The first time you might really like it then you'll wanna do it again. Pretty soon you'll be addicted. It's not good. You're better off just leaving it.
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around 2 or 3 months ago my best friend claimed i did somtheng that she knew i would never do. she said that i started a rumer that her ex-boyfriend beet her. so i have stopped talking to her . what should i do
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Well there isn't much you can do. I suggest you ignore the rumours and if anyone asks you if it's true then just deny it. Eventually people will stop talking about it and start gossiping about something else. Your friend obviously isn't worth it if she makes up such strong accusations. Eventually she might see that she was wrong and come and apologise to you but don't go chasing her, she's the one in the wrong.
If you are angry with her and want to find out why she made up the rumours then try talking to her when you are both calm and just ask her why she made that stuff up. If things start heating up then just walk away, you don't have to take crap like that from anyone. She isn't worth worrying about.
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whats an emo?? or like the emo stlye?
Emo was originally a type of music. It's short for emotional and most pure emo bands are made up of soft male voices, acoustic guitars and depressing and emotional lyrics. Most emo bands have mixed their music with rock, examples of emo bands are Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional.
A style of dress developed from the music and is now a label (as in goth, prep, skater etc...). The sterotypical view of an emo is tight black trousers, black hair, Converse chucks and black framed glasses. Emos are usually associated with self-harm and suicide, this is reflected in the lyrics of many emo songs.
However, the definition I have given you is the stereotypical view of emo. You don't have to dress like that to listen to emo music and vice versa.
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Hey, Is there a haircut/ style that can make a face look broader and a head bigger? thanks luv rach
Styles that hug your face usually make it look broader. So any short style with a fringe is good, layers around the face will also help. Longer styles make your face narrower, as do ones that don't have a fringe. So basically, any shorter style with some kind of fringe/layers will work.
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I have golden brown hair (dyed ) , green eyes and a fair complexion (with some pink tone in my cheeks).I wish some advice abour coloring my hair . I want a change but I don't know how to do it. I think that black it isn't quite good for me (my natural hair color is dark ash blonde )..What do you think about highlights ?Please , please , give me some advice .
Personally I think that you'd look beautiful with dark brown hair or very dark red. But you want highlights so you'd probably look good with the colour you have at the moment with darker highlights (such as the ones I suggested above).
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Do guys like it when girls are outgoing and flirty? If a girl is ugly but really outgoing, talkative, and flirtacious, will shallow guys still want to fuck her? Thanks.
Well, from numerous conversations with my male friends and boyfriends about what turns them on about a girl, generally they love an outgoing girl. Guys really like it when a girl has the courage to talk to them and flirt with them, it's very attractive.
However, some guys are just shallow. There's nothing you can do about it. A lot of guys wont care about your looks and if you're personality is awesome and all that then yeah, they'd still want that girl. But some guys give no shit what the personality is like. Those guys aren't worth the effort and it's the ones who aren't shallow who should get the girl's attention.
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whats the difference between foundation and concealer
Concealer is used to cover things like spots, blemishes and dark circles under your eyes whereas foundation is used as an all over base. Usually concealer is worn under foundation but some people only use one or the other.
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I'm like an A size bra becuzz I'm pretty skinny for my age, but it's porportionate to my body and I'm not undernourished, or underwieght. Only thing is, since I have such small boobs, they should be round, and they usually appear to be in the mirror. When I look down, it's a whole other story... they look pointy and gross and stuff...... is it maybe the angle I'm looking? I know this is a really wierd question .... but what the hell.
Most people's boobs look like that when they look down on them. It's just the angle, don't worry about it.
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Hey. I just want to be really realistic here with my question. Think of something you might do in real life. There's this kid I know from my church, he used to come but he left for a while. We were kids then. Now he's back and he's a year older, I'm going into 9th grade. I'm very interested in him and I wouldn't know if he has any in me because we literally never talk. How do I start something up with him? And realisticly, I'm not going to be all bouncy and annoying. He seems a bit shy too, and I want something clever, and not like "Hi, what's your name" type of thing. Thanks!
Hey there, sorry it took me so long to answer.
What I suggest you do is to get into a situation where you will be near him. Try and get into a conversation with someone else when he is nearby and ask him for his opinion. The conversation should develop from there so that it'll be easier to talk to him in future.
If that isn't possible then next time you see him, smile at him and ask him how his week's been, just something friendly like that.
At first, talking to him will be uncomfortable and difficult but once you get on to regular speaking terms it'll be loads easier.
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Ever since I got back to school (middle school now) I have changed. I mean by my attitude. My mom has threatend beatin the shit out of me if I don't stop being a smartass. I didn't even know I was one. Am I gonna stay like this or am I gonna change back to my old self. :(
You're a teenage girl, you're bound to be changing a lot. You're hormones are all over the place and most teenagers will go through a phase where they are all attitude. You can't force yourself to get back to being a good girl, you just have to try and be as calm as you can. As you get older and mature more, you will get back to how you were. This happens to most people as they grow up, it's completely normal and nothing to worry about. If you are tempted to say something sarcastic or shout and scream etc at your parents or friends then stop yourself and count to ten. Try and control yourself but don't beat yourself up about it, it's natural.
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umm.. well first of all. i cut.. second of all.. ppl keep telling me that its really bad and unhealthy but i seriously dont understand why?
*me*
You don't understand why it's bad to slice your own flesh up?
What if you slip and hit a main artery then bleed to death? And have you considered the scarring? The scars will probably be there for life, I know from personal experience. What will you do when you're older with kids and they ask you why mummy has scars on her wrists?
And have you considered the feelings of your friends and family? How do you think they're feeling? They'll be going out of their mind with worry and concern, it isn't fair on them to hurt them like this.
There's also a possibility that you use something dirty to cut yourself with, which gives you a serious infection. It's possible that you die from that, I'm deadly serious here.
Cutting is bad and it's unhealthy for both your physical and mental state. I suggest you stop.
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so i used to have normal-big boobs.. then i stopped eatting so well and they got smaller. is there any food that will help me make them bigger?
There isn't a certain food you can eat. You lost weight which caused your boobs to shrink, so in order to get the size back you need to start eating a healthier, balanced diet. That doesn't mean you have to be fat, just eat sensibly and properly and they should start to regain their original size.
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im a dancer and i'm doing a lyrical solo for like the 4th time and i'm running out of songs. i need some songs that are really sad and tell a story. thanks.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Under The Bridge
That is quite a sad song about the story of frontman, Anthony Kiedis' drug addiction. It's really good and meaningful.
[EDIT] Ooh, another one I just thought of, also by the Red Hot Chili Peppers, called Dosed. It's really sad and touching.
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what is the difference between binging and purging? and also what is binge eating.
Binging is when you eat a lot of unecessary food, regardless of whether you're hungry or not. Purging is when you eat then throw your food back up again, basically what bulemics do. Binge eating is when you eat a lot in a short period of time purely because you want to eat, not because they're hungry. Usually people do it when they're upset about something, it's usually known as comfort eating if this is the case.
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My mom has this huge bump on the crease between her nostral and her face. It's about the size of an ususually large pimple and has a black dot on the top. Is it possibly a blackhead? It looks big for a blackhead. It's not red or anything.
The actual bump is unlikely to be a blackhead, but the black dot probably is. Often they will grow on other spots and the area where your mother has it is a common place to get them. The blackhead is probably big because it's ready to come out. To do this, gently sqeeze it and it should come out without hurting or scarring. I don't know what the bump is, it's probably just a spot of some kind.
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Why the hell do people send hate-mail to bad columnists? Saying "fuck you i hate you bitch die ur a fucking loser" does not help them turn into a better columnist, and why do you want to change them? they're cool like that. No one asks them for advice anymore, they just use that to cuss them out, and in the end they get owned by the crap columnist, so they're basically stupid.
People do that because they get angry with them. It's so annoying to have to look through columns because someone's filed an abuse report against them because they're pissing them off. Sometimes they have every right to be angry with them, some of those columnists cross the line between being a bad columnist and being nasty.
I agree, it doesn't turn them into a better columnist. It just gives the columnist who recieves the hate comments a kick and a reaction. If they know people are getting annoyed by them then they carry on, they do it to cause a reaction.
However, people want to change them because a lot of them are assholes. This site is awesome, if we allowed columnists to be so rude to people then it would ruin it. They're not cool just sitting there giving out insults to strangers. People get genuinely upset by some of those comments. I agree that yeah, there are bad columnists who don't mean to be bad, they just don't give good advice and that's fine, they don't need people yelling at them. But there are columnists who deliberately give out bad advice and that's annoying.
It is good to ignore them. If they are ignored then eventually they will realise that they aren't getting a reaction and stop coming to the site or turn themselves around. There have been columnists who realised that taking the piss out of people isn't fun and started giving out good advice.
The people who insult the crap columnists are stupid, but they have a right to be because the crap columnists said something offensive. The crap columnsts are also stupid but they don't have a right to be. Do you think it's cool for someone to tell people with problems to go slit their wrists?
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what are the bases..?
not like baseball, like..
kissing
french kissing
making out
sex
etc. etc.
It usually depends depending on where you are but generally it's:
First base - Kissing, making out, getting off (whatever you prefer to call it).
Second base - Hand jobs, fingering, using your hands on your partner's sexual organs.
Third base - Oral sex. Cunnilingus if you're a girl or a blow job if you're a boy.
Fourth/Home base - Sex.
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what does a tease mean?
A tease will flirt with people and make suggestive comments but wont do anything physical with them. They are usually physically attractive to help fiddle people's minds even more. Usually known as a flirt.
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Does anyone know of any websites where you can get cheap posters of like bands and stuff?
http://www.allposters.com is good but if there's nothing you like there then try http://www.ebay.com, you have to bid for most of them but there are some you can buy right away and you can get really good deals. Also, new ones come up all the time so if there's nothing you like originally then you can have another look a few days later.
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I cheated on my boyfriend and now he is really mad at me. he is thinking about breaking up with me. What can i do to fix this?
He has every right to be mad at you and to break up with you. You hurt him and betrayed him, he will find it very hard to trust you. At the end of the day, it's his decision whether he forgives and forgets or whether he breaks up with you.
Let him know that you're sorry, that you wont do it again and that you want to be with him. If he knows that he can trust you in future then maybe he wont end it. You want to fix it, so you obviously care for him and regret what you did. If he decides to give you another chance, then don't do anything like that again. It's unlikely that he'll give you a third chance. It will take a long time to rebuild his trust in you and your relationship will always be damaged by what happened but you can make it work if you put your effort into it.
If he does break up with you, then learn from it. Don't cheat on anyone again, if you love and care about someone then respect them. And respect means not cheating on them.
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