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Change? Trouble!
Ever since I got back to school (middle school now) I have changed. I mean by my attitude. My mom has threatend beatin the shit out of me if I don't stop being a smartass. I didn't even know I was one. Am I gonna stay like this or am I gonna change back to my old self. :(
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You're having mood swings I have the same thing and yeah after a while you will change, I flip out over every little thing to my mom she threatened to beat me too. You'll eventually grow out of it.
x0brittany0x
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well You are changing and your hormons are on a ruf rollercoster I am the same way you may be bypoller but that probelly not it because I'm just like you.hoped I help.and good luck.if you need anymore advise just ask and please rait.thanks.
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its a stage. dont worry, and i think your mom just doesnt want you to get out of control. dont worry <3333
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It's not an irregular case. A lot of people go through changes every year. Changes can be for the better and changes can be for the worse. You can't change what's happened, but you CAN change what WILL happen. It's good that your mom has been telling you you've changed. Because usually we can't tell if we've changed...only others can see it easily. Just evaluate yourself. You'll only change back into your old self if you start paying attention to yourself and making a difference in your personality. Good luck.
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The funny thing about the smartass phase that most teens go through is that it is generally a good thing. You're not a child anymore and this is probably just dawning on you. You are exerting your independence in new ways, when you were little you might have lied about having a cookie or refused to wear your snow pants, now you are arguing and being sarcastic.
The fact you recognized this means you probably aren't all the bad, but this is a huge lesson for you (one that some people never learn) in how your attitude influences the people around you and how to care what people around you are feeling. The most self-centered way to look at it is, you don't get want as a smartass.
It might take some work and a few swift kicks in the pants but you will get over this and be a better person for it.
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It really might be just a little stage your going through since like you were changin schools and all that stuff. So it might get out of you after a while.Cause i used to be a real smartass to ma parents and everyone but i get i just grew out of it so mabey after a little bit of time you will stop.
~Kristy~
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I don't think you will because you have started to become a teenager. Your stress levels are increasing, your horones are working, and your body is developping. All adds up to that you are changing naturally. You most likely will not change to how you were ever again.
But, you can change to other things. Like, you can change to being a wonderful helper dedicating your time, or an athlete, or even a star. All you need to do is reach for it.
This is your time to decide who you want others to see you as. Choose wisely.
-Steven
(Wow, I feel like that didn't do anything...)
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When you get into middle school, people start to change. It just happens. You might be a smartass all three years of middle school and then totally change during highschool! I know i did!
Hope I Helped You!
~Melissa~
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well it would have helped if yoo left ur name **she sighs** but it nay just be ur hormones kicking more than ususal. hope i helped :)
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Im the same way..big smartass with an attitude problem, people change when they are around people that make you have a negative look on life and you tend to say rude things and smart comments. You will only stay like this if you want to, next time you feel like saying something smart or rude, just bite your tounge lol But it is hard to respect others, but then again it is hard for others to respect you when you act in this way.
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You're a teenage girl, you're bound to be changing a lot. You're hormones are all over the place and most teenagers will go through a phase where they are all attitude. You can't force yourself to get back to being a good girl, you just have to try and be as calm as you can. As you get older and mature more, you will get back to how you were. This happens to most people as they grow up, it's completely normal and nothing to worry about. If you are tempted to say something sarcastic or shout and scream etc at your parents or friends then stop yourself and count to ten. Try and control yourself but don't beat yourself up about it, it's natural.
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