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how do you approach a stranger at a party? i'm a really shy 16 year old, and i can't approach strangers. what's an easy way to? what's your experience with approaching people? don't be scared and just do it? but do what?
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just go up to them and say hi how are you coplement them then you may get into a good conversation.hoped I help.and good luck.if you need anymore advise just ask and please rait.thanks.
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umm you can try this ... something big always happens at parties so if you want to start up a conversationit's easy to use something like that ..you ca be like ..lol did you see that girl over there dancing i wish i could dance like that...lol idk but stuff like that usually works for me
tina
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You can start off by asking a simple question. Try something like: Hey how long have you been here; Do you know who so-and-so is; Hey where did you get that shirt. Stuff like that. Music is always a good ice breaker, so talk about that.
As for meeting people...how would you feel if somebody approached you and was nice and cool. Would you tell them off? No of course not. So try that - don't be too afraid or too aproachful, just act like you know them. Hope that helpd and good luck.
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Either A)Just introduce yourself, and ask whats going on, or hows it going, or B)Observe what they are doing, and think about something witty to say about what they are doing. Just make them laugh, and take it from there. You'll be fine
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What I might try and do, is bring an outgoing friend with you to the party, and just walk around with her a bit and see who she talks to. And whenever she's talking to them, join in on the conversation! =) And then maybe after awhile you'll get more used to talking to strangers and leave her and start walking around on your own =) I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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i myself am very very shy too but at parties noone knows you expecially if you see someone you never seen before and you want to say hi or wut not he dont know your shy so u can always play it off like ur an outgoing gurl and walk up to him and be like wassup you stay around here??
and see where that takes you
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get a mate to come with you, or try to get your group of mates to collect near where his is, and then just turn round and say something like hey good party or something. Chances are that other people you know might know him so that might be an option too, to talk to someone who knows him, and then get him into the conversation.
Hope i helped take care
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yooo just like dance in front of them nd say i love this song or like omg have i seen yoo b4.this is just to get the convo flowing! hope i helped :)
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The eaisest thing to do, for me...is to walk up and say 'Hello'. Then ask them what their name is, do they like the party, ect. And it's not as mortifying as it sounds-if it turns out they don't 'click' with you, it's not like they're going to remember and try to kill you, or something drastic like that. But usually, good results come out of a little bit of nerve.
did that help?
-katherine
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My experiances are many, as I have gone to many places where I haven't known people. I just walk up to a group of people and ask nicely if I could join in with the conversation. Then, you contribute to it, and gain knew friends. That's the just do it part.
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