Question Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 10:33 am
around 2 or 3 months ago my best friend claimed i did somtheng that she knew i would never do. she said that i started a rumer that her ex-boyfriend beet her. so i have stopped talking to her . what should i do
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? cHeErcHiiCk answered Thursday September 29 2005, 9:29 pm: just dont talk to her.... obviously shes a backstabber...... i have someone just like that in my schooll but its a guy.... he keeps on saying that my my spread a rumor abiut him and that i am a tramp.... he wouldnt leave me alone b/c at first he thought i was spreading the rumor but my mom told him that she was spreading the rumor JUST SO HE WOULD LEAVE ME ALONE! now he calls me a tramp everyday..... i just go along with it and be like "yeah okay im a tramp".....works for my sometimes but i think it would just be better to leave her alone!
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dreamist16 answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 3:55 pm: i think you should talk to her and tell her that you would never start something like that and ask her why she thinks you would do such a thing.
theonlyoneforme answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 6:17 pm: If you didnt do that, tell her boyfriend and tell him to talk to her. I think you two should work things out.
xxoBriannax answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 12:52 pm: Talk to her and tell her that you never said that. Why would you just stop talking to her instead of explaining yourself to her 2 or 3 months ago. If she really knew you, she'd know you wouldn't do that to her. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
Curemysadness answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 12:46 pm: Well if you really didn't start a rumor, then I think you should tell her that. Find out where she got that idea, and ask her why she would accuse you of something like that. If she didn't tell that many people, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal. People will forget about it sooner or later. [ Curemysadness's advice column | Ask Curemysadness A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 12:24 pm: Well there isn't much you can do. I suggest you ignore the rumours and if anyone asks you if it's true then just deny it. Eventually people will stop talking about it and start gossiping about something else. Your friend obviously isn't worth it if she makes up such strong accusations. Eventually she might see that she was wrong and come and apologise to you but don't go chasing her, she's the one in the wrong.
If you are angry with her and want to find out why she made up the rumours then try talking to her when you are both calm and just ask her why she made that stuff up. If things start heating up then just walk away, you don't have to take crap like that from anyone. She isn't worth worrying about. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
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