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How to approach
Hey. I just want to be really realistic here with my question. Think of something you might do in real life. There's this kid I know from my church, he used to come but he left for a while. We were kids then. Now he's back and he's a year older, I'm going into 9th grade. I'm very interested in him and I wouldn't know if he has any in me because we literally never talk. How do I start something up with him? And realisticly, I'm not going to be all bouncy and annoying. He seems a bit shy too, and I want something clever, and not like "Hi, what's your name" type of thing. Thanks!
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Ok well I think you just need to be yourself. My best advice to give to anyone who needs relationship help is be confident because confidnece is sexy. Go up to him and say hi and start a conversation. Exchange screen names and stuff. Ask him if he's going to the school dance.
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Hey there, sorry it took me so long to answer.
What I suggest you do is to get into a situation where you will be near him. Try and get into a conversation with someone else when he is nearby and ask him for his opinion. The conversation should develop from there so that it'll be easier to talk to him in future.
If that isn't possible then next time you see him, smile at him and ask him how his week's been, just something friendly like that.
At first, talking to him will be uncomfortable and difficult but once you get on to regular speaking terms it'll be loads easier.
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hey i totallii know what you mean.Well i think that like you should go up to him and just start a conversation and then ask him if he even remembers you and if he does then great but if not then just like um tell him that you knew him from church and what not. Basiclii um like just be your self and you should be fine. Hope i helped x0x0 Dzana ♥
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..Well if your at church maybe u can go up to him n be like heyy this thing is borin isnt it n just start a convorsation..and just become friends with him and get his number (DONT GET THAT TIL THE END OF THE CONVO) and call/text him and just flirt with him sometimes andd if he flirt backks u know he likes you..n then eventually he will ask you out
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Hi! Yes, starting convos with someone u hardly know CAN be difficult, but first thing's first: look CONFIDENT & BE confident. Guys dig confident chicks. It's just the way it is. Approach him maybe as he's walking out the door and maybe say, "Hey, you look familiar. Have you been going here for a while?". Wait for a reply, and be sure to smile, but don't make it TOO obvious to the point that ya look like 'Suzee Sunshine'. Once he says yes (he went there for a year, right?), say "Oh, cool." casually, and maybe say "I haven't really seen you here before" or "I think I've seen you here before." Finally, casually introduce yourself, and over the next couple of weeks, see if HE says hi to you. THAT will be the sign that he likes you, maybe not as a gf, but it's best to start as friends, trust me. Good luck & be CONFIDENT & CASUAL! Don't forget: CONFIDENT & CASUAL! ;)
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if you have any classes with him in school try to sit near him and make him notice you. try to get his screen name by asking him or one of your friends that might know him. then talk to him about stuff you guys can relate to, is he in any sports? stuff like that
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Maybe you could say
"hey, haven't seen you in a while! How's it going?" OR
If you doesn't talk to you, or doesn't show intrest, maybe you should try someone else. Can't force someone to be in to you.
If I didn't help, I'm sorry, I tried
Morgan
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well if it was me i would start off with a "hey" i know you may not want to do something like that but you cant just come up to some one and start just saying random things right? introduce yourself flirt with him a little bit ask him if he wants to go out for ice cream or something so you guys could get to know eachother
find out what hes into, if he has a girlfriend, what his hobbies are, compliment him, find some things you guys have in common, etc.
hope this helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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