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I just got a job and was late on my 3rd day. I am late to almost everything. As you can see I am far from perfect, but I accecpt myself as me. I'm not perfect in school, actually I am going to summer school this summer, but to me, it's not that big of a deal. Things don't phase me like they do other people...
I am a little spoiled. My dad lets me keep his credit card and gives me money on it that he doesn't even have. My mom gives me her debit card way to often and usually is to ditzy to notice what I do on it. I love my parents. My grandmother is pretty rich and gives me money to come visit her...and sent me money to buy stuff for work...she sent me way more than I needed and I love her very much too! =)
I lost my grandpa 2 years ago and i miss him to this day. He was one of those people that you can't forget and no matter how much pain it causes you to think of them, you never even want to forget them, becuase you feel somewhat empty. He was one of the greatest people to me and I love him and miss him very much and cant wait until we meet up again.
When i'm am not working or not in school...i sleep as late as possible and stay in my pj's all day. I am not one of those people that gets dress to sit at home. I will go out in my pjs if i have to. To me, what people think about me is not as important as what I think about myself.
Some of my favorite things:
tv, movies, summer, not having school, beach, vacations anywhere, music (country and alternative rock), my mom (she is hilarious and i couldnt live without her...shes one of my best friends), my job (i love making money), my car, my fanily.
I am very typical but unique in my own way. I can sing very good, by myself in my car or in the shower...thats it! When i get bored I love to color...but i am really 16...not 10.
I have been through so much...my parents were divorced when i was 2 and i lived with my mom...she has had many boyfriends, and we have lived with a few...she has been engaged and married once before. That was really hard on me, harder than she or anyone thinks.
1. i had to leave all my friends and move an hour away to somewhere i had never lived before and move in with people I bearly knew.
2. i am an only child and the man she married had 2 kids. peroid.
Dont get me wrong, I loved his kids but when you are an only child for 15 years then get mixed with a 13 year old boy and a 9 year old girl that are used to getting everything they want and never doing anything....cant be good.
Me and his daughter got really close and as much as I dont like to admit it, it really hurt me when we couldn't be step sisters anymore. and her brother, he and I were alike in some ways and not in others, he was very carcastic like me which isnt always a good thing but sometimes is. We got along but i was shy and he was a little to. But we had just gotten used to each other when my mom told me they were getting a divorce...i wasn't suprised.
There are many other things about me that I am not going to bore you with because I want you to get to the end without falling asleep...if you have even gotten this far...
Now if you have read this far already which i really dont think you have...then you can ask me a question. I like giving advice...it makes me feel wise, and people tell me i am not to bad at it...so go ahead...its its stupid...you will feel the warth of my sarcasim....but its serious...then i will be as serious as my sarcasim permits....so just find out.
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ok i have this scar on my stomache and its really really deep cuz i had 6 operations on it. i was wondering if like those two pieces are out of style or what will work?? cuz i cant wear a bikini to show my body off!!ANY HELP!!
i dont usually answer like this but i hope it stays there forever because you sound really concieted!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hey i saw one question someone asked you and you said you had some good diesting books and i was wondering if you could give me a few tips
Sure! Is there anything you particularly want to know?
I'll just go with some basics. In dieting, you want to make sure you DON'T try and starve yourself. That will cause your metablolisim to slow down and sometimes stop, making you not lose any weight at all...
If you can do it, you should try and eat a small breakfast (2 eggs and 1/2 a grapefruit) a mid-morning snack (some greens or carrots) lunch (a small portion of chicken or tuna over lettuce and some veggies) a mid afternoon snack (some veggies or fruit, but try and syat away from sweet fruit, try some berries) and dinner (some chicken or fish and steamed veggies) --please make sure you come up with your own plan because this my be a little to drastic for you)
now those are just some examples so you know what types of food and how much. It all depends on how much you want to lose.
Make sure you drink A LOT of water...i am on a diet right now that says you should drink 100 onces but that may be a little extreme for what you want to do but again, im not sure. You at least need to be drinking around 65 onces. The reason is that when your body doesn't get enough water, it holds on to the water it already has causeing water weight and retention.
Exersise!!! Make sure you are doing at least 30min-1hour of exersise for 3-4 times a week!!
Walking, jogging, biking, eliptical, whatever cardio you can do, you need to do, after you lose the weight you want to lose, you need to start doing weights to tone your muscles and body!
Hope all this helps!
If there is something i didnt cover that you want to know, let me know and i can get it for you!
Good luck!
I have growing marks or stretch marks on my upper theighs. I've tried excersising that area but I dont know a whole lot of upper theigh/butt excersises. Does anyone know of any that work?
Also, if anyone knows of anything that can either get rid of competely or at least hide the stretch marks I have now. I've heard to use a self tanner but that only made my skin dark and the marks lighter.
Someone help? I promise to rate high.
Signed,
Stretch.
Try doing some sqauts and longues, possible holding weights. Also, vitamin E oil will help with the stretch marks, it wont make them go away completely (they will probably never go away completely), but it will help. Sadly, almost everyone gets stretch marks unless you are disgustingly underweight, i know i have them and a few of my friends have them and they are all average size. I hope this helps!
Okay one of my best guy friends is home for vacation. And I really like him like alot but he doesnt know (like no one told him). And I want to go to the movies with him tonight but his cell phone and computer arent working. So should I call his house (even though we hardly ever talk on the phone and if we do its on his cell phone) and if so what should I say?
ps. I would also like to invite his best friend who is home for vacatino also
PLEASE HELP I RATE REALLY HIGH!
You should definitly call. What harm could it do. Even if he doesnt feel the same way as you do, yall could go as friends and remain friends. What you need to do is just call him and ask him, dont beat around the bush trying to ask him. Hope this helps!
i have THE WORST acne on my back and no matter how much i wash it it WONT go away. i want to have in gone by soon bc its getting warmer and i want to wear tops w/o a back. PLEASE give me some suggestions
well it is in a kind opf hard to reach place, but try proactiv, i use it on my face (it can be for body but i dont have body acne) and i have heard it works on your body just like on your face. It works wonders on my face! You can get one of the back washing sponges with like the stick on them so you can reach your back. Then get maybe you rmom or someone to put the astringent and lotion on it. (It comes in a 3 piece set so use all of them and do it at least once a day. This should help very much and should give fast results! Hope this helps!
I listen to a different kind of music and it's hard to find c.d.'s sometimes. I have downloaded a lot of songs by these bands, but I want the actual c.d.'s.
The bands are:
A Life Once Lost
Isis
Opera IV
Twilight Ophera
Ablaze My Sorrow
Das Ich
Unearth
Tapping the Vein
&
Behemoth.
I can't find any of those bands albums around here. My only other resort is to order over the internet, but I don't want to spend that much.
So, question being, does anybody know a website I can get these bands at for not that expensive?
1. http://merchnow.com/store/merchant.mv?Screen=CTGY&Store_Code=ALOL&Category_Code=MUSIC
2.
3.http://www.nehrecords.com/shop/PhantomsIV.htm
4.http://www.twilight-ophera.com/
5.http://search.ebay.com/ablaze-my-sorrow_W0QQfkrZ1QQfnuZ1QQxpufuZx
6.http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepages/das_ich/
7.http://members.tripod.com/unearthweb/merch.htm
8.http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/search-handle-url/index%3Dmusic%26field-keywords%3Dtapping%20the%20vein%26results-process%3Ddefault%26dispatch%3Dsearch/ref%3Dpd%5Fsl%5Faw%5Ftops-1%5Fmusic%5F3117826%5F1/104-1869606-0185528
9.http://www.lambgoat.com/bands/view.aspx?id=310
most of the ones i found go right to the page where you can purchase...the others you have to serch a little bit, and you can always google them if this isnt what exactly what you were looking for...i hope this helps!
does any body know who chosen view is
Where can i get there cd?
try looking here:
http://www.chosenview.com/1home.html
hope this helps!
you can also google them and see where you can buy them...
i like guys and stuff,and in real life i look at girls (im a girl) brest...and butt...and i make out with guys.am i bi?
I dont understand what you are really saying. 'In real life...' aren't we always in real life?
If you have only made out with guys then im guessing your stright, maybe you just wish you had the breats and butt that the girls you look at have...i think everyone goes through that in their life, wondering if they are gay, straight, what...
As long as you have only kissed and hooked up with guys, then i think your fine! Hope This Helps!
wat does wtf mean?!?!??!?!
wtf= what the fuck
I have a Honda Civic 97', and I haven't been driving that long. I'm just getting used to the clutch and I've almost worn it out and its getting really spongey. Are there any "homemade mods" or cheap parts I could buy to fix it?
Because it's a 97`, i'm guessing it was used when you got it or you have had it since 97` which really means you need to get a new clutch...thats all i can tell you...all manual cars have to have the clutch changed sometime...i have one and i know its expensive...but i dont know of anything else you can do...i learned to drive a stick on my dads jeep and when i was done he had to have it changed...lol...(my dad knows cars really well and has always had manual cars, so i can ask him if he knows anything you can do for know, when he tells me, i will edit my answer and tell you what he said) hope this helps! (btw, i have a honda civic too!)
I want to start going tanning at this major tanning salon near my house. Im having a problem with the lotions tho. The tanning salon has tons of lotions but theyr all expencive. They reccomend California Tan lotions but does anyone recomend others or like California Tan the best.
thanks.
If you are haveing problems with the price of them then you dont have to buy one there, you can go to target or watmart and buy one.
If you are haveing a problem picking one, then just try some different ones (i know at the tanning salon i used to go to they had samples of the different lotions for like 2 dollars)
hope this helps!
ok so this is the problem. Ive been going out with this kid for 4 months now, and i broke up with him a lil whie back for like 2 days bc i had feelings for this othre kid. In the summer the other kid and I almost hooked up and we screwed around and i really liked him. but that same night the other kid ( lets call him John) John broke up with this other girl, and so i forgot about The other guy and went out with John. BUt latly i've been haveing mixed emotions like i still like the other kid and when im not with john i feel like i dont want to b with him ne more and stuff but then i hang out with him and its like it all goes away. I really need some help. I rate 5's/
well since you keep switching around, i really need to choose because if you lose john again then you might not be able to get him back so if you do choose the other guy, you need to know that its right, but if you still like john better then i would see where it goes with him. I hope this helps!
I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help.
It depends on if you want to lose any and how much you weigh. It's not like you are going to lose like 100 pounds, you may lose a pound or 2 but thats not bad...hope this helps!
I am a preschool teacher at a church. The church supplies us with a yearly budget for craft supplies and snacks. My assistant is in charge of getting snacks for the students. She charges these at a grocery store on the church's account. When I checked the receipts I saw that she had charged two inexpensive personal items for herself and the chruch paid for it. She is my friend or atleast I thought she was. The church never asks for the itemized receipts only the total amount. Should I report her?
Thank you
I think you should talk to her and see why she did it. If you really like her and you think she is a good person and they were really inexpensive, then i wouldn't worry about it very much, just make sure she doesnt do it again, and if she does do it again, no matter what the cost, i would definitly say something...i hope this helps you out!
Ok, my head hurts really bad. Its not a headache ( I know when I have a headache) and Its kind of a weird feeling, like my head is a melon and everytime I lay down or bend over, my head feels like its goign to fall off. My nose is all stuffy and I have no idea if I am getting sick or what. What do you think this is, the flu? What should I take (over the counter) to help me get better? Thanks
That definitly souand like a cold or the flu because my head feels like a bowling ball too when i get sick. You should either go to the doctor or start taking some good over-the-counter cold and flu meds. The earlier you start taking meds, perscription or other, the faster it will go away...
hope this helps!
ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..
im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals
he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk
i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?
(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)
1- should i tell her (well i did...but i didnt actually do it yet i think i mite have hinted...i asked her if she still liked him and she said no not really just as friends)
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh
Well if you really feel strongly about him then you shouldn't hold it in!
You need to do what you think is right, if you really like the guy, i would tell your friend first, and if she gets mad then just talk to her calmly and ask why because you thouht she didn't like him.
1. If you really like him and you want things to move forward then yes you should tell her. But i think you should tell her before you tell him.
2. Why use signals? If you are talking about telling your friend then its better for your friendship if you dont beat around the bush with anything and just tell her. If this is about telling him then i think you should just be really flirty and kind of touchy-feely and try to flirt a lot to show it.
3. With your friend, you just need to tell her and try not to let her get mad, (i dont know why she would get mad if she doesnt like him....)
and with him, like i said just flirt around and sometimes like touch him on the arm, or grab his hand a little, and if he says something funny laugh! lol
4. Everyone flirts differently. Do whatever you want. Tips: would be do what i have been saying above, that should work, but if he starts acting weird when you start flirting with him, back down a little because you don't want to scare him off...but if he likes it, then go for it girl!!!
hope this helps and good luck!
hey, I'm going to Florida in 3 or 4 days and i want to look a little "less" in my bathing suit... like losing 10 pounds. Does anyone have any ideas how to make it work [besides becoming anorexic or bulimic]. thanks so much
You are not going to be able to lose 10 pounds in three days inless all you did was work out and only eat like 1000 calories a day. But what you should do work out 2 times a day until you go and just make sure you are buring more than you are eating, but dont stop eating because that makes your metabolism to stop causeing you to gain weight. Maybe you should also try instead of eating 3 big meals, eat 5 small meals and dont eat 2-3 hours before you go to bed.
Hope this helps and good luck!
Have fum in florida, Where are you going there? i love it down there!!!
Hey... The thing is.... We've been having sex now for a litle over a month i want to say.. and each time its unprotected... I know stupid of me.. but it feels funny with protection. But we have sex almost everyday or even 2 times a day.. but I got my period the 1st of this month after having sex.. and then after my period was over.. we had sex again... and my next period wont be here until March 1st... I'm on the pill also.. I dont know if i should wait and see if my period comes in march and then take the test... or to take it now..
well in your first quesion you never said that you were on birth control pills so that kind of changes things. I mean of course you could still get pregnant because nothing is 100% protective, but it does help. If you have been taking your pills regularly asnd have been on them long enought for them to kick in then you SHOULD be fine. I would still get a prenancy test just to make sure. You could get one now or wait and if you dont get your period on march 1st then i would definitly get one. You could do either.
Hope this helps and Good Luck!
i want to turn my room into an old hollywood style, kinda hotel room type of thing, but where the stars stayed, and by old i mean like the 20's 30's 40's hollywood theme, breakfast at tiffanys, casablanca, etc. i want it to look like the fancy hotels of that time with the posters from movies of that time, i know where to get the posters, but what, and where do i get the other stuff?????? please help, i rate well!
Yoiu could try hobby lobby or Michaels, (if they have one around you) and you could also look on the internet for those types of things hope this helps!
Hey Guys... I'm 17 Years old... and I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend who ive been with for 5 months... I had my period the first of this month and it lasted about 5 days... and thats pretty normal... But my boobs are starting to hurt.. and I feel like I'm getting fatter... I'm scared.. is there any way i can be pregnant???
:(
There is definity a chance you could be pregnant, but dont go by the symptoms. Go to the store and get a pregnancy test and find out. Since its been five days, its to late for an emergncy contriceptive, and yes it is possible to have one or maybe even 2 periods right when you get pregnant.
Your best bet is to take a pregnancy test! I hope this helps and let me know if you need anything else.