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14/f
ok so this is the problem. Ive been going out with this kid for 4 months now, and i broke up with him a lil whie back for like 2 days bc i had feelings for this othre kid. In the summer the other kid and I almost hooked up and we screwed around and i really liked him. but that same night the other kid ( lets call him John) John broke up with this other girl, and so i forgot about The other guy and went out with John. BUt latly i've been haveing mixed emotions like i still like the other kid and when im not with john i feel like i dont want to b with him ne more and stuff but then i hang out with him and its like it all goes away. I really need some help. I rate 5's/
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How come you keep calling them kids. I think you should cut all ties with them start a fresh and look for a man not a kid. Good Luck.
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girl i dont even know who is who cuz you keep on sayin the other kid. name these bitches from the beginning and then maybe i could answer your question.
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I think you should either break up with both of them or u could ask each one to explain you in 10 words.Then you would know which one that cares 4 you more.
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OK...your stll young and you will proboly be going out w. alot of people, so dont worry. I've had things like tht happen, {now i might sound like a mother or a nun} but just pray. Do good deeds and your answer will lie in your heart. Who do you like more, who makes you have the kiddishy feeling tht you dont want to leave the person. You right their name. Things like that.
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You need to stick with one guy. As you know you cant really be with all of them or that would be messed up. If you like your bf one minute then not the next and the same with the other guy maybe you shoudlnt go with either of them. See how it goes with your boyfriend that you have now and if it doesnt go so well then go with the other guy. Figure out which guy you would rather be with more. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina~
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well since you keep switching around, i really need to choose because if you lose john again then you might not be able to get him back so if you do choose the other guy, you need to know that its right, but if you still like john better then i would see where it goes with him. I hope this helps!
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Honestly, it sounds like you should go out with no one for a while... maybe date guys casually, but don't bother trying to tag any one of them as "your boyfriend" because it sounds like you're not able to do that at this time. Really, there's nothing wrong with that, and if people gave it some thought, that is what most should do- relationships are more than just fun... they are a lot of work... and if your heart is still flitting about, then you cannot really claim to settle on any one guy for now. So, the best option is to NOT settle on someone. Don't have a boyfriend. Have friends, go on dates, hang out with people. Since you're feeling torn, that should be telling you something.
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