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me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?! (link)
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i wouldn't think it was weird. He was your first love. But it might bring up old feeling
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well me and my parents got in the BIGGEST fight ever and i walked off and went to my boyfriends house...adn im 5months pregnat adn he said he would suport me and all that shit..well when i went there i didnt tell him and when i got there he was with a nother girl...i felt really bad...and i had no where to go so i went to my friends Marissas shes trying to help me out alot but i tinhk im putting alot of presure on her tho..and i fell bad adn i dont no what to do i dont want to tel lher that i feel liek tell her that...cause she might be liek yea you are and kick me out and i dont think i want to have this baby from that dude...so im tihnking about an abortion but if so then my firnd would get mad saying you made me go all throw that shit!!! i really dont no what to do and i havent heard from my parents for liek a month and i dont wnat to stay with her..what shall i do?
hel me!!
p.s im 17 (link)
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first of all, contact your parents. don't get the abortion. It's too late anyways. You can't get an abortion after 3 monthes, it's too dangerous. Your friend sounds very supportive, and your ex is a jerk. i think you should talk to your parents, they can help you out.
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Hello. Um, I have a problem with this guy who lives in my neighborhood. Everyday he harasses me sexually. I've tried telling the police, but they said without hard evidence they couldn't do anything. I'm sort of a feminist, so something like this shouldn't be a problem for me. But, I'm too afraid to tell my friends or family. I'm 16 and he's like, 25. So, I know it's illegal.
What should I do? (link)
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get a friend to hide somewhere and tell him to meet u there, andshe can videotape it, or bring a tape recorder with you, or you can just avoid the guy at all cost
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what is gyno? im so confused (link)
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it's a type of doctor that gives you pap smears and stuff. She looks into your vagina and ovaries and things like that and check if there's cancer or infections or stds, and cysts and stuff like that
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I am a 16/m and I have a girlfriend who is 21 and we have been going out for 5 months. I just recently lost my virginity to her. After that, we have been having sex, but there is one problem. I don't get aroused enough. I feel horrible about this. I want to have sex with her so bad when I am not with her but then when I am there and we are foreplaying or she is on top of me I do not get fully aroused. What should I do so I can be fully aroused because I really want to enjoy it? (link)
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concentrate on her touch, and everything she is doing. get on top of her. There are lots of things you can do to get turned on more. Maybe try new things like dry sex, sucking on earlobes, kissing EVERYWHERE on the body before sex ... things like that. If it's still not working ... maybe it just aint it for you. What i mean is, maybe she's not your type.
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When do your breasts stop growing because I'm 14 and I wear a size B bra and how much will I be when I stop growing? Thanks! Please try to give me a range of my bra size for me! (link)
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well, i'm 17, and they are still growing. Also, when you gain weight, your boobs will get bigger
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ok, last month i got my period and i know that at first its not on a regular schedule but like how many days off will it be from last month? (link)
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it doesn't really matter. You don't have to worry about it too much. That is what it's like in your first 2 years. Just always have tampons with you. TIP - if you use tampons, the cramping up and all that pain goes away.
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me and my bf r going to have sex. im a virgin and he isnt. how much does it hurt? and what are all the ways u can get pregnant? thanks (link)
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Hey. It hurts a lot. It hurts the most when it first goes in, and it just a very fierce stinging. After he starts moving around a bit the pain goes a way a bit. And you can get pregnant by actual sex, or if he pulls out and sperm lands on the outside of your area. Also, precum contains sperm
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
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tell them your period is irregular and you heard from one of your friends it makes it regular, or tell them it is really painful, which the pill will take the pain away. good luck.
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hi, next month i have my first appointment for the gnyo, becuase im 15 and have had my period irregular since i starting getting it 4 years ago,so my mom made me an appt...so anyway my concern is that, a couple months ago my boyfirend and I of 9 months decided to take are relationship a little farther and he fingered me, quite intensly and has done it a couple times..(but I have never had sex, and dont plan on it anytime soon)I am worried that the gyno will tell my mom,(becuase i know the gyno will be able to tell,becuase i am quite stretched out from it) and i really dont think that my mom wants to hear "oh by the way your daughter has been fingered" and she will be quite dissapointed in me. If i ask should the gyno keep my information confidential?
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um, there are 2 ways they can tell, and they are not for sure. yes, by the stretch out way, but that isn't a sure thing. Another thing is if your hyphen broke (or cherry popped)and again that ain't a sure thing because that can break during exercise or tampon use. And because your not 16 yet, you cannot ask for confidentiallly.
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I'm a teen girl going through puberty and my private has losened up. I never had sex before so it couldn't have "stretched" that way. Also, around the edges of the viginia it's turning a dark tan color. What is this and is it normal? Also, are there any exercises i can do to tighten it up?
thnx so much, i really need your help! (link)
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hey. yah, it's totally normal. It strethches because after you start puberty your body is ready to have a baby. So the stretching is normal. The tan color is also normal.
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alright,well i was in a relationship with this boy all summer.and we really have bee on/off for a year.But recently we were going back out.and for some reason he stopeed saying "i love you" to me.i dont get?all before that he said it openly and now on the phone or comp. he just ends our convercations really fast.well, we did break up again this weekend,and he was really mad @ me, but now he acts like nothing even happened?i basically feel like i keep putting myself in the situation were i will get hurt...what do u think? (link)
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I think you should end it permently. A couple of years ago I was in a relashinship just like that. That signal of him no saying i love is telling you it's gotta stop. That fact that he is pretending nothing ever happened is normal. End it now and there will be better men in the future.
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Okay how long should u wait for a guy who says he isn't ready for a relationship because he's busy? he says he likes me! (link)
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don't bother. not to be mean, but the same thing happened to me a year ago and he said he was busy but he likes me, and a week later has had another gf. I'm just basing this on personal experience. He might be actually too busy to have a gf.
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I know I'm in love but I don't know if my parents will except it they think we should be 15 before we date but I don't want to wait til I'm 15 to date the guy I love cuz I don't want him to go out with any one else before the 9th grade in June...What should I do obey my parents or do what's right?
-Jasmine (link)
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the right thing to do
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I'm 14 and this guy i'm good friends with it 15, of course he is your average, out of control teenage guy. All we ever talk about is sex and everything, even school related subjects seem to trace back to it. He's already told me that he wants the first time to be with me BUT he's got a girlfriend. I have asked him if he talks about this with her and he always says no that he doesn't want to scare her away, yet it is okay to talk about it with me??? I don't know if he's mixed up and doesn't know what he wants or what, but really, is that normal to be serious about doing it with your friend and talking about it while you have a girlfriend that you refuse to let go of? (link)
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Okay, i'll give you advice because i was in a simular situation. Back about 6 monthes ago, my current boyfriend and me were best friends, and I was dating another guy. Well, my boyfriend and me always talked about sex, but what's different in our situations is that that is not all we talked about. lol. Anyways, in the end, i didn't really know what i wanted, and it came clear to me that I wanted my best friend, or now current fiancee. So with him, yes, he probley doesn't know what he wants yet. He's preobley confused, because there are 2 girls to choose from. That is a very very stressful situation. but when the time comes, don't rush into anything.
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I was having a conversation with a guy about sex between the same sex, and of course he was very excited to hear about my girlfriends and I open mind in the subject. After I told him about a personal experience, he felt free and conferrable to tell about his with another man. The feeling of disappointment and discuss was automatic, and he asked me to explain why? where is the difference? why was it okay for me, and so wrong for him? I was out of words, there where no explanations, this has never been open for discussion. At this point I think that maybe if I can't be open minded about both ways of same sex relationships then I need to rethink my ideas of two girls together.
How does everyone feel, and if the same as me, how would you explained. why do we accept to girls and not two men? (link)
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OKay, this is what I would have said before your added info ...I feel that both males and both females can be together, it doesn't gross me out at all, even though i'm straight. Society in general, accepts women being together just because men are more ... open with their sexual wanting then women. And what do you think a man would rather see, 2 men or 2 women? lol. To the additional info, the reason his experience gave you the creeps was because you were attracted to one another. It probley took you on by surprise. You probley go with society's standpoint though
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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf broke up and it was this huge drama because i'm not suppose to ever talk to him again. Well, I did. Huge mistake because now he's kinda being weird saying if i don't do what he ask he'll tell my mom that we've been talking. Which knowing him he would and i'm not even suppose to be talking to him. What do I do? (link)
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okay, first of all, i don't know why your mom would be in the middle of your relashinship. lol. All mothers are alike. lol. Now, your ex doesn't seem to want to talk to you. For two reasons maybe. He either still likes you and you talking to him will regenerate those feeling, or he's just not into it anymore. I think you need to get over him. For your own good. If you keep talking to him, you'll get in trouble with your mom, and perhaps irratating him. Your 17, you can make your own decisions about whether or not you want to move on and find a better guy or stay obsessed with the ex. But personally, I think you should move on and life will be good again. No more drama.
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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"
also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?
thanks a lot yall :) (link)
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i believe you should have sex with the person you love. It is suppossed to be special. Don't do it. lol. If I was a friend, if you had sex and didn't really love him, i would probley lose a bit of respect, but if you loved them i wouldn't.
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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?! (link)
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your only option is to wax. yes, do not for the love of god shave it. It will grow in thicker. There is nair, which is a hair removal cream. You put it on, wait a couple of minutes and wipe it away. It's 5 dollars and something.
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Dear Advice People Givers:
Hey! Ok, I'm confused. See, I'm 14 & I wanna do something REALLY bad! Like see, here's the thing though.. I'm not really sure how to kiss a guy though.. I mean.. when I got my 1st kiss, it wasnt at all wat I wanted it 2 be. It was kinda one of those "in the moment" type deals. I kno I'm just 14 but is that 2 young? And is there a "wrong" way to kiss some1? Please help. I rate 5's to anybody. So you could say something like, "Sup?" and I'd still rate you, but PLEASE give advice!!
-Stephanie- (link)
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sup? lol. uh, well, brethe when you kiss a guy, so you don't drool, don't bite, don't use a lot of tongue, and don't wear lipgloss. chapstick is good though. and the whole in the moment thing isn't bad. lol. And 1st kisses aren't always what you expect
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