Question Posted Saturday December 11 2004, 12:12 am
Dear Advice People Givers:
Hey! Ok, I'm confused. See, I'm 14 & I wanna do something REALLY bad! Like see, here's the thing though.. I'm not really sure how to kiss a guy though.. I mean.. when I got my 1st kiss, it wasnt at all wat I wanted it 2 be. It was kinda one of those "in the moment" type deals. I kno I'm just 14 but is that 2 young? And is there a "wrong" way to kiss some1? Please help. I rate 5's to anybody. So you could say something like, "Sup?" and I'd still rate you, but PLEASE give advice!!
mysticpixie05 answered Saturday December 11 2004, 10:09 am: no its not too young to have your first kiss. there is no age limit. well what ideas are you thinking about that may seem "REALLY bad!"? cant help ya if i dont know what they are. no there is really no wring way to kiss a guy. but it may not be the best kiss they have ever had and it may not be the worst either. it just comes as a natural. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
queenbianca2004 answered Saturday December 11 2004, 9:18 am: Well hey,
No its not wrong to kiss a boy. I got my first kiss when I was 13. It was a great thing but now I wanna do more. If theres a someone out there you really wanna kiss just go for it. I hope I helped!
Berri answered Saturday December 11 2004, 7:45 am: Sup?
Nah, just kidding. I'll give advice. There's not a totally wrong way to kiss a guy. Just don't do the snake tongue (where you just sorta' like...poke your tongue in and out), the limp tongue (where you just sorta' don't do anything), or the spastic tongue (where you flail it around in circles, lol). No, 14 isn't too young to kiss, but you put your question in the "Sex" category. If you're talking about sex, then yes, it's way too young. [ Berri's advice column | Ask Berri A Question ]
theblondeone989 answered Saturday December 11 2004, 1:54 am: Nah, that isn't tpp young. And there isn't really a RIGHT way to do it...it just happens. I mean, obviously...saliva control, BREATHE...but it just comes naturally, so don't stress over it. [ theblondeone989's advice column | Ask theblondeone989 A Question ]
cUteNsImplE answered Saturday December 11 2004, 1:30 am: ok look-you wanna do sum10 bad?-dont go over with it-you dont kno wut the hell youll be getting yourself into-i thought the same thing-you begin to get so caught up in things then be4 you kno it ur doing things you nvr even wanted to do- [ cUteNsImplE's advice column | Ask cUteNsImplE A Question ]
PerkyPeacock answered Saturday December 11 2004, 12:47 am: that's not too young, and i'd like to say, i'm glad you're not asking us how to go farther, it's nice to see someone with a nice set of morals and all that. congrats!
snowwalker69 answered Saturday December 11 2004, 12:40 am: sup? lol. uh, well, brethe when you kiss a guy, so you don't drool, don't bite, don't use a lot of tongue, and don't wear lipgloss. chapstick is good though. and the whole in the moment thing isn't bad. lol. And 1st kisses aren't always what you expect [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
FunnyCide answered Saturday December 11 2004, 12:39 am: nah, there is no age limit. but dont have sex yet. you are 14 (as you said) and that is too young. you need to save that for when you are married, that is a gift that you give to your husband when you marry him. i know people who are 18 and havent kissed, and certanilly havent done more than that. i dont guess there is a "wrong" way to kiss, but i havent experienced mine yet, so i dont know. wait for the perfect guy, dont go with just any old loser; i am waiting, so can you. i havent even held hands with a guy, but that doesnt bother me, i am waiting. you can hang out with guys - i do. just dont push it. if they like you, they will ask you out. sleeping with boyfriends is a bad idea, because even if you take precautions, there is a chance of you getting pregnant. and then you are in a mess. just wait for God to bring the right guy, and wait until you are married.
-FunnyCide [ FunnyCide's advice column | Ask FunnyCide A Question ]
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