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Heyyy, I'm Mary:)I've been on here for over four years--Ask me anything, and I'll try my best to help you out. :)
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ive know nt his boy for awhile now, we met last year. he lives with my friend and there was a party that we were both at and he kissed me, a few times. and everything seemed fine. he would call me or i would call him until like 3 days after the party he hung out with his exgirlfriend now he wants nothing to do with me. and i really like this guy. what do i do? he doesnt get the fact his ex has a boyfriend, shes only using him. but he told me not to talk to him. did i do something wrong?
I'm sorry to tell you this--but you were used. He probably just wanted a makeout partner at the party. This guy is a full-on JERK. Please don't let it get to you, because if you do, it will mess with your head. You didn't do ANYTHING wrong. He did. He was the one that decided to hurt someone--and you know what? It's going to come back and smack him in the face. When he realizes that his ex is only using him, he is going to be just as hurt as you are now. But you know what? You can change this. You don't have to let this get to you.
oaky...Well I will start out like this, well there's this boy and he lives with me four days out of the week,and it kind of seems like he takes over a lot of things like usally i am the one that stands by the cart being able to talk to my mom and then when he comes I am the one standing in the back and he is the one that is getting all the attention and its not fair.... it seems like he takes over everything like my sister and my dad. because like my sister is way nicer to him and my dad is always doing stuff with him... And he makes me cry every night because everytime i need to talk to my parents he's there buddin into the conversation and i can't barely talk to anyone about the way i feel because he's always around and I dont want to tell my friends and family about him in front of his face well all i am asking for is some good advice so even if its bad but you tried I will give you a five
Luv Brittany PLEASE PLEASE answer because I need halp : (
Just a friendly suggestion =) : Try punctuating more next time (It was hard for me to read and keep up with what you were saying.)
If I were you, I would tell him nicely at first. Don't be afraid to! If you're too scared to tell him to back off, then how would he know that he's bothering you? Tell him to stop butting in, and be polite when you are trying to speak to your parents.
Also, you said that he lives with you four out of 7 days, right? Well, talk to your parents when he isn't there.
Don't let him continue this--Right now, he doesn't know what he's doing. He doesn't know that this is making you angry. Tell him. Tell him. Tell him. It's the only way.
--or you could just ask him to move out. :)
Hope I helped!
Okay, so theres this guy who ill call "T". ok so when my boyfriend dumped me t was always there for me, and i realized after a couple of weeks that i was beginning to like him also, but he liked my best friend. than a week after he rejected me he told me he liked me, so stupidly i listened to him and rejected this other nice guy. so me and t hooked up, and i made the mistake of giving him head. a couple days after he broke it off with me and said it was bc he was in love with my bestfriend .. i cried for nights and i still do. its been 2 months, and i still have so many feelings for him. i really want to kill myself, and i have hurt myself a couple of times. i really just ddont know what to do because i love him.
thank you so much
First off, you don't love him. If there really was any kind of love in that short "relationship", then he wouldn't have hurt you. Here is a website on how to get over heartache: http://www.womentodaymagazine.com/advice/heartache.html
Also, don't kill yourself over a boy. It's not like you guys actually had a relationship--It was a just a fling--He just led you on only to break your heart-and you let him. This guy is a JERK for doing that to you. Don't let it get to you-Tell yourself that hurting yourself isn't the answer--Seriously, what good will come out of it?
Here is a link on how to get over a guy:
http://wiki.ehow.com/Get-over-the-Guy-That-Has-a-Girlfriend
I really hope I helped & I hope things get better for you.
Is there anyway to get my hair thicker? I'll rate 5's for anything
Well, what I'm about to say is the pretty much the same thing everyone else said--There are thickening shampoos & conditioners at your local store (Walmart, Target, Ulta--any hair salon place, etc) My friend has thin hair and she uses a thickening shampoo, and the result was really good. :)
Hey
I'd like to know the best straitener that you know of
also what is the best protective spray out there less than $100?
thanks!
The BEST hair straightener out there is CHI. I'm not even kidding--It's the best-It's my life! lol Seriously, CHI is the best.
Also, I'm not sure about sprays; But I use this purple serum called Catwalk (You can get it from Trade Secret//or Tony & Guy//or Ulta) You put it in after you take a shower, blowdry, and ta-daaa....PERFECT, SILKY hair. (It also protects your hair from any kind of heat--blowdryers, straightening irons)
No kidding--It's a Godsend. :)
Okay, I got most of my fathers genes in me. I have extremely hairy arms, I do shave them though. As a girl, it embarrasses me very badly. I've been to doctors and they've given me pills to see less hair growth, but the hair that was already there will just keep growing. (Which is a lot) I'm in my first year of highschool, and I'm VERY self conscious about my arms. I wear long sleeves/jackets until I can't take it anymore. (And I live in Texas, so it is already sooo hot right now) What do you suggest I do? Keep shaving them? It's time consuming, every other day I have to do it cause my hair grows back so fast, and it's just now fair other girls have basically no hair on their arms & they do nothing to them. Ahh, what to do, I have to start wearing short sleeves, the heats too much.
Go wax them. Don't shave them anymore! Trust me, I've seen people who shave their arm hairs--and it's not pretty! Also, that's pretty gross that you have to SHAVE it. Maybe go by a home waxing kit and use it--That way, the hairs would not grow back as fast and you won't have to re-wax as often.
Also, if you shave your arm hairs, they grow back faster, thicker, and longer--although you probably already realized that.
---Edit--
Thanks for giving me a 3 when you didn't even mention that waxing wasn't an option. Seriously, if you can't wax or get laser hair removal, what other choice do you have? None! Thanks for wasting my time.
where can i find some desktop wallpapers of pete wentz from fall out boy?
Look it up on google. You don't need to be wasting space on here when you could simply look it up yourself.
Google "wallpapers of pete wentz from fall out boy"
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You just gave me a 1 because you're too lazy to go look it up yourself. You know, if you went and looked it up YOURSELF, you'd probably already have the desktop wallpaper by now! So why don't you go get your lazy ass and type in google.com instead of sitting here wasting everybody's time. Get a fucking life instead of sitting around the computer waiting for people to give you answers. Look it up your damn self. It's not that hard...You only have to type in a couple of words.
Hey guys yeah i no i am a columnist well i have a question this girl in my school thinks that everyone likes her but really noone does and she wont stop annoying me to and she is calling me bad words what do i do?
Um k first off, pay attention in english and learn how to fucking spell and punctuate.
Also, you must be doing something mean or annoying to her to cause her to be so mean. If you just want her to shut up, tell her--simple as that.
where can you buy a chi straightener? what is the price?
You can get it at Trade Secret or Ulta (I'm sure there are more places). The price is around $150 depending if you want a regular or a turbo one.
i like this boy since last march. i don't know if i should come out to him. i really love this boy, it's so hard to explain. we flirt alot but he doesn't like me he's a BIG flirt.. i'm scared of responses and i don't know if i should tell him? what should do to forget about him ? should i tell him? how could i move on?
Your question is confusing. First, your subject says "so sick of love"...then you ask,"should tell him? what should do to forget about him ? should i tell him? how could i move on?"
Also, "i really love this boy"...NO, YOU DON'T! I am so sick of little, immature kids thinking they're in love with some guy who doesn't even like them back/breaks their heart...Trust me, if he loved you, he wouldn't make you feel bad!
"we flirt alot but he doesn't like me"...He doesn't like you..so I don't think you should tell him unless you want to embaress yourself anymore.
Move on...go shopping or something instead of wasting your time over this guy who doesn't even like you.
so, a random question bout sex. i was just wondering, since statistics show that the average teen loses their virginity by the age of 17. well.. is it possible to have sex (when the guy uses a condom) and NOT get pregnant? cuz like, other teens have done it and they havent got pregnant riight? but what im scared of is that my sister had an unplanned pregnancy and she already had a baby. she said she used a condom and i guessed it broke.
questions:
is it common for a condom to break?
can a girl get pregant if a guy uses a condom?
thanks in advance.
You sound way too young to be asking this---you don't even know the answer!
As for your questions, YES, it is possible for a condom to break. It's only 98% effective if used correctlly.--And YES, a girl can still get pregnant if a guy uses a condom & it breaks.
Ok, I know this is a weird question.
I'm just curious, I'm not trying to get a bigger ass, but anyways, if you really exercise your gludius maximus (aka butt muscle), will you get a bigger butt?
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Well, it would tone your butt muscles--which will become bigger...so I'm guessing your butt would become bigger also..haha
hey
iv heard that if u straighten ur hair it falls out....... is this tru?
No, no! Of course not!
It just gives you dry and damaged hair. :)
what do you do when your in a bad mood?
i have so much homework to do and its stressing me out and i just dont wanna do it anymore
I kind of going through the same thing right now. School's really getting to me, and I feel totally stressed. What I do is I take breaks...((Spring break is just around the corner!)) Everything will be fine. Just keep hanging on..because I know I am.
Im 15 and i drink. A lot. A few friends have commented but i tell them i could stop any time i want. Which i always believed. Thing is, i never want to stop. So i never know whether i can or not. Hense not knowing whether i have a problem. *sigh* I usually drink a bottle of wine in the mornings after breakfast (red: yum) then a beer with lunch. I then just have beers and lager etc for the rest of the day. I usually go through about 1 bottle of wine and 7 cans a day. I then have a bottle of vodka if my mates are round but if theyre not i just have a few shots before i go to sleep. Thats the weekends. On school days i have a few shots of vodka before i go to school and beers afterwards when i get home. I didnt think this was all that much. What should i do? I DONT HAVE THE WILL POWER TO DO ANYTHING. i like to drink. Thats all. Its not like im hurting anybody... thanks
You're an alcoholic. Period. "Its not like im hurting anybody..." Wrong--you will hurt somebody-Whether it's driving under the influence or doing something really stupid without realizing it.
I'm not going to tell you to stop..because that would be really hard..but Try NOT drinking before school..and cut it back after school. Try and get help..for your own sake.
whenever i run i get out of breath real easily so what can i do so i can run longer without getting so tired ?
Pace yourself. DON'T think about running. Bring music along. DON'T think about running. Have water with you. DON't think about running.
When you think about running, you're going to think "I'm out of breath!" or "I'm tired!" etc etc etc..Get your mind off of running and onto something else. Trust me, the time will go by so fast.
since i was born ive had a huge birth mark on my neck. it hasnt really bothered me until this year. it makes me so self-conscious. its covered up pretty well when my hairs down, but you can still see it a little. but i do sports all year and i have to put my hair up and it just makes me so self-conscious like everyones staring at me. a few people have asked me about it and its so embarassing. i never wear my hair up for school or dances. only sports because i absolutely have to. i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to get rid of it besides surgery because i know my parents wont go for that. thanks.
I have no idea..I mean, you could try cover-up..? But other than that, I don't think there's anyway to get rid of it besides surgery (which obviously isn't an option for you.) Just accept it..I mean I have a birthmark on my left hand, right shoulder, etc..and yeah sometimes it makes me self-conscious, but I realize that there's nothing I can do about it. So I think the best thing for you to do is accept it. If anyone asks, tell them that it's a birthmark..Infact, in some countries, if you have a birthmark on certain areas, you're considered lucky! But IDDDK..I'm sure you're beautiful with or without birthmark! Hope I helped.
Hey Guys =D
Okay I'm working towards a healthier lifestyle for myself ( less junk food, more exercising ) and so far its working out great! However I'm having the worst time giving up soda. I love love love coke and I drink like 2 or 3 cans a day! I know this is really bad for me but how do I stop? I can't just STOP drinking them, and I've tried drinking less and less each day but its not working out so great. Any ideas?
Thank you so much!
You don't have to give up soda forever. Try limiting it down to two cans per day for a week...then one can per day for a week. Then try making it one can per two days..(if you catch my drift) Just keep decreasing the amount you drink day by day. You can still drink a soda once in a while, you know.
But if you're really determined to be soda-free forever, get it out of your sight so you won't be tempted. Try substituting soda for water or juice...Hope I helped!
ok so im in 8th grade 14/f, and i need to write a paragraph (8-10 sentences) on a treasured memory. This is kind of a gay question but I really can't think of what to write about. I like soccer, field hockey, love the Flyers, and stuff. I rate high for good ideas!! =]~
No one on here can tell you what to write because we don't know you! We don't know anything about you except that you're in eigth grade and you like the Flyers and such.
Suggestion: Think about the past and whatever stands out the most, write about it!
I have a myspace and I picked a lyt and it was all good untill I decided I hated it.
I went to the section I had it, and deleted the code for it. I then put another lyt code in it's place. and on the PREVIEW it was fine and all was well.
but as soon as I hit "view my profile" it was that dreaded lyt that I hate.
anyone got any ways to fix this?
Myspace is kind of messed up right now...because I was just on it and it wouldn't let me do anything. Umm you should wait..and then after a while, try putting on the layout again..
Also, when you put in the new layout, make sure you click 'submit' or whatever after the preview page.
Hope I helped.