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oaky...Well I will start out like this, well there's this boy and he lives with me four days out of the week,and it kind of seems like he takes over a lot of things like usally i am the one that stands by the cart being able to talk to my mom and then when he comes I am the one standing in the back and he is the one that is getting all the attention and its not fair.... it seems like he takes over everything like my sister and my dad. because like my sister is way nicer to him and my dad is always doing stuff with him... And he makes me cry every night because everytime i need to talk to my parents he's there buddin into the conversation and i can't barely talk to anyone about the way i feel because he's always around and I dont want to tell my friends and family about him in front of his face well all i am asking for is some good advice so even if its bad but you tried I will give you a five
Luv Brittany PLEASE PLEASE answer because I need halp : (
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ansley says: if i were you keep trying to talk to your parents when he is around, and if they dont listen talk to them when he isnt around, even if he just went to the bathroom or something like that! just let it out and someone in your family should listen ... i dont know if that will help but i sure hope so! good luck!!
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Just a friendly suggestion =) : Try punctuating more next time (It was hard for me to read and keep up with what you were saying.)
If I were you, I would tell him nicely at first. Don't be afraid to! If you're too scared to tell him to back off, then how would he know that he's bothering you? Tell him to stop butting in, and be polite when you are trying to speak to your parents.
Also, you said that he lives with you four out of 7 days, right? Well, talk to your parents when he isn't there.
Don't let him continue this--Right now, he doesn't know what he's doing. He doesn't know that this is making you angry. Tell him. Tell him. Tell him. It's the only way.
--or you could just ask him to move out. :)
Hope I helped!
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I would tell this boy nicely to please back off and how you are feeling and that you want attention as well. Also, on one of the days he's not at your house just tell your family, but if you don't get to be alone with one of them because of this boy I would just say politely can I be alone for a little while with my mom, dad or sis or w/e lol but I would suggest talking with your family and this boy and don't worry about it they love you tons more!! it'll be ok, hope it works out for ya, GOOD LUCK
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