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i am so confused. what did i do wrong?
ive know nt his boy for awhile now, we met last year. he lives with my friend and there was a party that we were both at and he kissed me, a few times. and everything seemed fine. he would call me or i would call him until like 3 days after the party he hung out with his exgirlfriend now he wants nothing to do with me. and i really like this guy. what do i do? he doesnt get the fact his ex has a boyfriend, shes only using him. but he told me not to talk to him. did i do something wrong?
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It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. It sounds as more as though he was never quite over his ex when he hooked up with you and then he decided that perhaps the grass was greener on her side of the fence, so to speak.
Unfortunately, there's nothing you could or should do in this situation, as he's decided his heart belongs elsewhere. I'm just sorry that he couldn't have been a little more respectful of your feelings at the same time.
To be honest, it sounds as though you are better off this way because although I understand you like him, it's possibly not a great idea to be with someone who cares so little about your feelings that he can dump you just like that. You deserve someone who will be nicer to you in the long run and you will find him. In the meantime, find yourself some ice cream and your pyjamas and have yourself a good cry. You'll feel better after you've let it all out.
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You did nothing wrong!His ex seems to be a slut so yea he will go to her.He probly just wanted someone to make out atthe party with.He is a typical jerk.I also think his ex is really jealous of you two so that`s why she said that.What you do is don`t even bother talking to him totally ignore him & then when his ex dumps himhe will come to you and then don`t go to him and let him know how it feels.Don`t even worry! ♥
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I'm sorry to tell you this--but you were used. He probably just wanted a makeout partner at the party. This guy is a full-on JERK. Please don't let it get to you, because if you do, it will mess with your head. You didn't do ANYTHING wrong. He did. He was the one that decided to hurt someone--and you know what? It's going to come back and smack him in the face. When he realizes that his ex is only using him, he is going to be just as hurt as you are now. But you know what? You can change this. You don't have to let this get to you.
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okay, first of all this has absolutely nothing to do with you. this girls obviously a slut and she doesnt want to be with him but she doesnt want to see him with someone else. and maybe he still has feelings for her, so hes believing her bullshit. just stop talking to him for a little, and eventually he`ll realize he made a really huge mistake, and come crawling back to you.
good luck
-- kelly <3
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Let it go - you didn't do anything wrong. It could just have been a spur of the moment feeling he had to do those things or try to keep going. Besides - just because he kissed you that doesn't mean he didn't like any other girl before.
It could just be that he wants to get back or wants to listen to her or anything, not too sure. But yeah just try to move on. If he is telling you to leave him alone, and isn't sensible enough to see that his ex is using him, then is he really worth it to begin with? If he's going to fall then let it happen on its own - try to stay out of it to avoid getting hurt. If he doesn't want to listen to you, then let him go and think nothing else of him. Hope that helped and good luck.
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hey this guy is just messed in the head at the moment and as much as u would like to help him sometimes you just have to let them figure stuff out by themselves otherwize you will destroy any realtionship u might have left .guys can be complicated and its nature not to try and figure them out he will eventaully see what he is missing out on just time and patience and to see what happens next. you havnt done anything wrong hes just probly confused so dont put urself down
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