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I'm a new young mom who has a lot of things to say to whomever is willing to listen :). I promise not to judge you no matter how crazy you may think your questions are and I will give the best answer I possibly can!

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ok this is juss a curious question about my friend.

they were messing around, she was totally clothed & there was sperm near her, barely on her, but the thing is since she was totally clothed, nothing would've gone through right?? she said she even had a pad on, cause obviously she had her period.

thanks

no you cant unless it goes in her.

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ok well i have like soo many pimples and i have cream but does toothpaste really help them go away? please ii need help. this guy said he likes but i have too many pimples&ihate them too so please help. ill rate high.

yes...simple as that

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has any one else noticed that most of the things asked on this site are not people seeking actual advice, it is just a bunch of people who are too um i guess "lazy" to type in google.com and search for the lyrics to a song, or where they can find a good website etc.,so they have to ask a bunch of people who want to give them advice and who may not even be right...hmm...
yes, i know i may be being a little hypocritical right now by asking a question, but i am just um.."upset" that young people these days just cant simply go to the lovely site of google..o well does anyone agree with me on this one?

AMEN!! omgosh i tottaly agree.

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My boyfriend and I can rarely hang out because my parents are so strict. I almost never see him outside of school. But he loves me alot and will do practically anything for me. But lately he has been hanging out with this girl, we'll call her Liz. And Liz obviously likes him. Liz has been using me to get closer to him but he swears that he doesn't like her. He always also talks crap about Liz behind her back. but they continue to hang out. But he doesn't want to break up with me.

Since me and him dont hang out alot, is he maybe trying to create a substitute of me that he can hang out with? What do you think?

im just gonna make this as short as i can. in my opinion i think he IS using her as a substitute. but i DO think you should be worried. listen, when someone hangs out with the opisite sex for a long period of time they begin to learn more about eachother and begin to find out what they have in common and what they dont. then they will begin to bond and then theres a chance he might start to like her. i dont think you should hang out with Liz anymore if shes just using you. thats not fair to you. for your boyfriend, try to hang out with him more durring school. like flirting with him, talking to him more, and trying not to show any jealousy. ok so maybe this wasnt as short as i planed but I TRYED haha. if you ever need any more advice or just need someone to talk to about your problems just drop it in my inbox : )

Leah

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omg i swear your like my twin.. im 13.. my favorite band is simple plan followed by good charlotte i love to swim and skate and i love giving advice to people.. oo and i also suffer from CRS! haha omygod i swear im not making this up.. haha sorry i just though it was funny we had soo much in common

lol wow. its not every day where i find someone with a short memory span like my own haha. thats pretty cool, more people should be like us!!! haha just kidding. ya i get kinda hyper though sometimes : ) but its fun!!! see ya twin!

Leah

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Hey, I'm 17/f
I was just wondering... how can you tell if you are in love? Are there signals he'll send you? I need any kind of advice because I think I'm in love but I'm not sure.

Thanks in advance!

wow great question. listen, its just a wonderful feeling you get inside. but here are some signs from personaly experience...

1.you get butterflies in your stomach whenever you see them

2. your constantly thinking of them

3. no madder where you are, you know you would rather be with that person

and if you want to know if he loves you

1. he'll give you a look like he doesnt give anyone else (i cant explain it but when he gives it to you, you'll know.

2. you might catch him staring at you durring class

3. lots of extra flirting

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I enjoy spending time with two of my friends. But one of my friends gets jealous when she thinks I spend more time with my other friend. What can I do?

sit down and talk to your friend who is getting jealous. dont get mad or yell at her because that just causes trouble. just say "listen i know you think im spending alot of time with *name* but i want to let you know that your still my friend and i dont that to change." be nice about it though. if she starts yelling at you after that then keep your cool. she'll get over it, trust me. i was in the same situation once, i know its hard but just stand your ground. hope i helped : )

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do you think abortions should be illeagle?

yes i do. its the same thing as killing someone. their just not alive yet to stand up for themselves. if someone REALLY doesnt want their child then they should consider adopition or open adoption, which is when you get to see your child once in awhile. : )

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Okay. I'm in love with this guy. I always have been. He doesn't know. He never will. I'm moving in less than a month and I am NOT going to tell him. That's not my question. My question is, this love for him is killing me. KILLING me, because I can't do anything (I AM NOT GOING TO TELL HIM, SO DON'T TELL ME TO!). I don't want to stop loving him. I know my feelings are true. But for my own sake, I have to.
How can I?

--thanks.

aw, im sorry thats really ironic : (. Love is one conplicated emotion, the most confusing one you will ever feel. its REALLY hard to get over someone or deal wtih the fact they will never know how you feel about them. you just have to remember that life goes on and love will soon find you again if you let it. my advice to you is that you look into poetry. read some and you'll soon realize that other people go through the same things too : ). or you could also get a hobbie or join a sport to get your mind off of him. you could start a diary to let out your emotions. listen to some music and DONT be afraid to cry!!! you need to let it all out. i hope everything works out for you and if you EVER need advice or just someone to talk to about things you can always drop something in my inbox. good luck ♥ Leah

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i am 15/m and i am completely in love with this girl we'll call her Ally she is 15 as well...and we have been dating for three months but it seems like years...we are both so close to eachother and we love eachother so much...now we want to have a baby....i know we are 15 but we want one....we have been talking about it for a while now..and we feel like we are ready like we have been doing a lot of research....but how do we tell our parent that we wanted one and it wasnt a mistake?

listen, everyone is gonna tell you, your too young bla bla bla so ill just lay down the facts. money wise....dipars, look i have a little brother so trust me when i say babies go through ALOT of them. clothes, your gonna need winter, sping, summer and fall clothes which cost quite a bit when you add it all up. and plus your child will be made fun of in school bc he or she doesnt have cool clothes like the other kids bc he or she doesnt have the money. ya see where im going here? so i REALLY think you should reconsider.but as for telling your parents, no dout its going to be hard and stressful but you have to do it. you dont want to be living a lie do you? just tell them when your all together. if you two love eachother you'll get through it. i hope you two work things out with them!!
♥ Leah

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so i like this guy from camp and he lives like 2 hrs away from me. like i want to call him and everything but im really shy and i wouldnt know what to say. can you help me think of topic to talk about or some way i can get over my shyness?

thanks

i rate!

ask him how he's been doing since camp.

talk about what you liked about camp and ask him what he likes about it.

if he asks y you called tell him that your extreamly bored and have nothing to do then laugh.

ask him if he's seen anyone from camp after you guys left. after you ask him that tell him about your friends then ask about his. aafter that you guys should be off the subject about camp and starting to get to know eachother better.

ways to get rid of shyness:
hug a pillow while your calling him(always helps me)

keep taking deep breaths

and dont talk really fast but dont talk extreamly slow.
i hope it goes well!
Leah

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Hey I was just wondering well, you see...my boyfriend && i have been going out for 1 month or so and we are not as close as we could be. I'm crazy about him and as far as i know he's crazy about me. But I wanted to know if there was little random things maybe i could do to show him i love him, you know? Another problem is, he hasnt even kissed me yet but he always bothers my best friend and her boyfriend because they kiss everyday. I would sort of like to take a step forward because i like him alot but i dont want to be the first to kiss him. If you guys have any ways i could sort of hint at him that'd be soo great. Thanks in advance

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get him a frame and put a pic of you and him in it.

tell him how much you like him everyday

make him brefest, lucnh, or dinner.

give him the biggest hug ever lol.

and for the kissing thing, i wouldnt worry much about it. i mean, my bf and i waited like....4 months before we kissed and it drived me insane but i had to respect the fact that he wasnt ready. if you REALLY want to move forward then you should kiss him your self. you should first kiss him on the cheek when you guys say good bye to eachother and see how that goes. if it goes good then you should kiss him on the lips when you guys say good bye. that should give in a sign that you want more from him. i hope it all works out for you
♥ Leah

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me and my boyfirend have been goin out for three months today he got me a ring for christmas do u think that is to early to be gettin somethin like that?

well, i must say that it seems alittle soon but that doesnt mean its all that bad of a thing. it probably just means that he really cares about you. if YOU think its too soon than you should talk to him about it ; ) good luck!

Leah

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me and my boyfriend have been goin out three months today we have been fightin alot in the past 2 weeks do u think thats bad?

yea it is bad. but if you REALLY like him i sugest you try to compromise. you need to talk to him about the things you two fight about in a mature manner. tell him that you dont like to fight and that you're willing to work things out if he is. dont be all crabby about it just say it in a calm way. if that doesnt work then maybe you two just wernt meant to be together. i hope it all works out the way you want it to!

Leah

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i want to make xanga layouts but im not really sure how. i can make myspace layout and understand html pretty well but i use mygen and other websites that give you the code ...are there any sites like that for xangas?

ok this is what you do

on the top of your site there should be a box looking thing that says xanga. type in layouts in the box. and then push enter. there should be LOTS of layouts to look at. then click on one of them and there is a code on the bottom of each one. if you have any more questions just put them in my inbox. or if i wasnt clear enogh just ask. : )

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friend coming over in an hour. nothing to do what do we do. we might see a movie but thats all? i rate please hurry!

1. dance to wacky music
2. paint nails
3. play board games
4. prank phone call ppl(my fav lol)
5. pillow fight
6. truth or dare
7. jump on beds
8. have races outside
9. watch t.v.
10. play video games

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my brother (older by a year) says if I dont get bf IM a loser, his geeky friend on the bus even got one before I did and my little sis did before me too and my lil bro might get one before me too and I have never had my first kiss ither and I really want one too.and I need to know if I want to start a conversation with a guy and how to flirt keep on talking to him.

sometimes you just have to be patient with boys. i know its dificult lol trust me but you have to do it if you want a bf. dont listen to your brother because your not a loser your just the type of girl who KNOWS she deserves more than some slob she finds in the hallway. ya know what im saying? first just friendly flirt with them, like take their pen and give a flirty smile and make them get it from you. then do stuff like giving them a playful push and then a hug to say your sorry lol. then you can start the real stuff like giving hugs naturally. then eventualy you will be able to ask someone out. just take it step by step. i wish you the BEST of luck hun!
♥ leah

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One of my friends likes this guys and wants to date him, so we have all been trying to get them together. the thing is whenever we all go to the movies or whatever her best friend is always all over him. her best friend just got out of a relationship and is taking it pretty hard. lately she has been hanging out with my friend's crush (just her and him)
I was wondering whether anyone thinks that she would go for the guy. I mean normally i dont think she would, but she isnt in the best mental state. what do i do?

ps: the guy likes them both

pps: i rate 5s

Thanks!!!

Look, girls can be ugly(on inside), cruel, and bitchy(excue my language). there fore i really think she would. just tell your friend that you have her back on this. i mean, if she was a TRUE friend she wouldnt hanging out with her best friends crush and being all over him in the first place. i REALLY think you should talk to your friends best friend because from the way I hear things she not doing her job as a friend. just be there for your friend when she needs you. i hope i helped you and good luck.

♥ Leah

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well i know this is late but i don't know what to get my bf for x-mas...does anybody have ideas..rate high for good answers

hunny, i had the SAME EXACT PROBLEM last week lol. get him something fun and something sweet. like a CD and some candy or a shirt and a picture frame to put a picture of you and him in. or if you have a pic of you 2 together put it in a frame and give it to him. or give him a card saying you love him or your really glad you met him then also give him like a CD or something he might like. i hope those give you some ideas

♥ Leah

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Would anyone recommend some good DVDs that have come out in like the past year or so. I like chick flicks, romantic comedys and really funny movies...
the more the better
I rate.

white chicks(awesome)
note book
just friends(hasnt come out on DVD yet but when it does you HAVE to see it)
tuck ever lasting

thats all i got right now but i might put in more later.

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