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I'm in love...oh, no...
Okay. I'm in love with this guy. I always have been. He doesn't know. He never will. I'm moving in less than a month and I am NOT going to tell him. That's not my question. My question is, this love for him is killing me. KILLING me, because I can't do anything (I AM NOT GOING TO TELL HIM, SO DON'T TELL ME TO!). I don't want to stop loving him. I know my feelings are true. But for my own sake, I have to.
How can I?
--thanks.
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Have one of your friends ask him about what he thinks of you and ask if he would ever go out with you or something like that and if he says yes have your friends tell him that you like him i hope this helps and good luck
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I know you said you're not going to tell him-- but let me tell you straight out-- that is one EFFED UP thing to do. You NEED to tell him.
Let me tell you from experience-- you should not continue keeping things in like that. This might sound corny or whatever but you have one life to live-- and it's a short one. Don't waste your time keeping everything in. Especially if it really is that deep.
And no, you don't know if your feelings are true. You can say that all you want and try to beleive it but you're not in love until you have someone who loves you back. I was in "love" with one boy for 7 years and I decided I would never ever love anyone and then finally I let go and met other guys. Now I have a boyfriend who Ive been with for a year or so and I know what love really is.
I don't care-- you can rate me a 1 or whatever but this advice is from my heart, hun, and I really think you should take it.
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uhh, sorry if this is blunt but honey, its pretty dumb if ur not gonna tell him. but since thats not the most helpful thing to say. You say you don't want to stop loving him and you no your feelings are true,but you dont want him to no. Alrighty then. Well what I would do is tell him on the last day in that school, and if he likes me back,lifelong happiness. If he doesnt, i can forget about him in a snap. What YOU are gonna do, is like someone else. You will find someone else and you will forget about him happily nomatter what you say now, but when things don't work out this guy will forever be in your heart. You wont forget about him ever.
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Bless you, that is a pretty difficult situation to deal with. However, if you're moving away and not going to see him again, that's half your problem solved. It's so much harder to get over someone if you have to see them every day, so at least you don't have to worry about that. Unfortunately the only thing that you can do is give it time. It might take what seems like forever but you'll start to notice other guys and have fun with them. You probably won't ever forget him, but try to think of him as just someone you miss rather than someone you're in love with. Eventually the pain will pass but there is no quick-fix method!
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Hey Love sick one,If he is moving away and you know for a fact there is no way you are gonna tell him, then you need to try to move on. Trust me I know for a fact how this feels and i know how much you hurt. the same thing happened to me with this guy that i had known for almost 7 years. I never told him when i had the chance and I'm still trying to move on. I still really regret it and its been almost two yrs. Now i am not going to tell you to tell him but I will tell you that if your not, then maybe its time to let go. So just try. try to let go.
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aw, im sorry thats really ironic : (. Love is one conplicated emotion, the most confusing one you will ever feel. its REALLY hard to get over someone or deal wtih the fact they will never know how you feel about them. you just have to remember that life goes on and love will soon find you again if you let it. my advice to you is that you look into poetry. read some and you'll soon realize that other people go through the same things too : ). or you could also get a hobbie or join a sport to get your mind off of him. you could start a diary to let out your emotions. listen to some music and DONT be afraid to cry!!! you need to let it all out. i hope everything works out for you and if you EVER need advice or just someone to talk to about things you can always drop something in my inbox. good luck ♥ Leah
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i would try to find someone else.. start fresh.. in your new neighborhood try to find a guy that catches your eye, and get rid of everything that reminds you of him if you dont want him to be part of your life!
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