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shyness
so i like this guy from camp and he lives like 2 hrs away from me. like i want to call him and everything but im really shy and i wouldnt know what to say. can you help me think of topic to talk about or some way i can get over my shyness?
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Hi, First of all do you know this guy very well?
You could start the conversation on something you think might interest him e.g soccer world cup. Hopefully you should find the more you talk to him the more comfortable youll feel. The hardest part about being shy really is just going up to him and saying something. Hope it works out.
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just be like "hey i just wanted to tell you that i miss you!" and then ask him hows school, his friends, girls ;] (who he likes), and stuff like that. then when things are buzzing, be like
"well i gotta go"
& give him your number ..
leave him interested ;]
that way, he'll call back!!
*oh and to get over your shyness, talk with confidence [even if its fake confidence] . . be like "oh my god i miss you!" and laugh and stuff, don't be quiet. when your done with your phone call ..you'll realize how shy you really aren't!!!
i hope that helped ! ♥
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well..this site might help you.
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hope i helped =]
--jESSiCA*
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Well i would just call him and tell him you were bored and that you havent talked for a while so you wanted to call him... talk to him about camp and talk to him about how much you cant wait to see him again... but he might even be the one to start up a conversation......
Sorry if i didnt help
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tell him that you were wondering if he's going back to camp this summer
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you can talk about anything that you have done at camp and whatever happened there and then get into the subject about family and friends and you can find out a little bit more about him and see what he's doing/done for the holidays and then go from there im sure it'll be easier after that i hope i helped...
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Talk to him as if he was one of your friends
Here is a site to help get rid your shyness
www.shynesscurve.com
You can talk about funny things that happened at camp, Kodak moments, what you'll liked and didn't like about camp, who you'll keep in touch with, what you'll miss the most. Once you start to open up to him then the conversation will start to flow smoothly.
If you need any other conversation subjects or advice in general then feel free to write me back.
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Just say Hi?
And then go on talk about the camp.
His intrests, your intrests.
And such.
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Hey,
I have the same problem. I have googled a web site for you :
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It's Safe so don't worry. Just skip down to were it says :"Stage One"
That way you don't have to read all that. But Here is a web site to help get a conversation started [Cause I know you will need one! :) ]:
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♥
-GD ((Green Day))
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ask him how he's been doing since camp.
talk about what you liked about camp and ask him what he likes about it.
if he asks y you called tell him that your extreamly bored and have nothing to do then laugh.
ask him if he's seen anyone from camp after you guys left. after you ask him that tell him about your friends then ask about his. aafter that you guys should be off the subject about camp and starting to get to know eachother better.
ways to get rid of shyness:
hug a pillow while your calling him(always helps me)
keep taking deep breaths
and dont talk really fast but dont talk extreamly slow.
i hope it goes well!
Leah
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