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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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hey my mom said whenever i want to become sexually active she would give be birth control pills does that mean she cares or not?

Yes it means she cares. She is trying to say, that if you feel you are ready to have sex she will not be on your case about it, but she will make sure you don't get pregnant because she is not ready to be a grandma.

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Hello is ur name Maria Richardz?? and if ur not I thought me n Maria Richardz were friendz but online she is acting like she hatez me and I asked her but she won't answer wat should I do!?!??!?!?!?!

No I am not Maria Richardz. Give her some time, and then try talking to her. If she still ignores you, forget her, she is acting like a pain in the ass.

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Okay there is this boy that i met a couple times but i mostly talk to him on the phone i wanna hang out wit him n get to knwo him n we both agreed on that well the first nite we were suppose to do something he was sick for the day the sec time he got hurt at work .. im not sure if he is just making this up or it really happen but like i said i sorta like this boy n wanna get to knwo him n hang out what do i say to him for him to see it

Ask what is deal? Do you really wanna chill? if so when? Cuz I'm getting the feeling you are just messing with my head.

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can a girl cum?

yes its called an orgasim.

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ok..im not extemely popular..i`d say im in the middle. Well anyway theres a guy..we went out..then broke up.
Lately ivve ben so lonely that ive been thinking of getting backk together with him...maybe just to hook up. I think he`d be fine with this idea..but I dont want it getting around. i dont want ppl to know WHAT we will do..or that i did it with him. Ive had bad experiences with this kinda stuff getting around school. Give me advice on wat to do? Thanks

Why do you wanna sneak around? Ask the guy if he wnats to give things another try. But if you do just wanna sneak around then tell him to keep what yal do on the low, and if anything comes out, the minute it does, cut that shit short.

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hey i was just wondering: wat is an aeroli or whatever? i think it has to do with breasts and is there supposed to be a little hair there? well i shaved it off and now its growing back quickly and stuff just wondering abut that

The aereola is the brown part of the nipple, the circle part around the part that poks out. Sometimes hair does grow there, nothing is worng with that, some females hormones are just different. But nothing is wrong with you, just keep shaving it or pluck it, it will grow back thinner.

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Today i gave my boyfriend head for the 1st time ...and then I did it a second time and that time i like almost gagged! what should i do should i say anything...???


signed confused one

How old are you? If you gagged stop putting so much in your mouth or just don't do that shit at all. And if your boyfriend has problem with you not wanting to do it then forget him.

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I know that i like guys, but iv always had a fascination with girls and have begun to wonder if i might be bisexual. If i was i wouldnt know how to come out and tell ppl because i would be to afraid of rejection. I hope that this fascination for girls goes away because i'm getting tired of wondering if i might actually be right! If you have any kind of advice for this difficult question please help!!!Thx

If you are straight you are straight and if you are bi you are bi. There is nothing wrong, its your life. But you are probably just curious.How old are you?

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me n mi boyfriend have been tagether for almost a year now nd we've done everythin but have sex and well tanight he was fingering me nd that nd it got a little out of control nd ima virgin nd hez lyke well jus let dem meet nd i waz lyke k nd he did nd there wasnt a condom nd it wasnt long but im really afraid that i culd get pregnant i dunt no what happen lyke with him 'down there' but im so scared can i get pregnant from that it was only like a minute but idunno is there a possibility ? PLEASE HELP im way to young ta get pregnant im so scared

If you are too young to get pregnant, then you are too young to be having sex. Think about it, if you don't wanna shit you don't eat, if you don't wanna have a baby you don't have sex. But if he didn't cum you probably are not pregnant. AND IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BEING HAVING SEX THEN WHY ARE YOU. STOP THINKING WITH YOUR COOTCHIE OR LETTING YOUR BOYFRIEND THINK FOR YOU WITH HIS DICK AND YOU WOULDN'T HAVE THIS PROBLEM. AND DONT GET MAD JUST BECAUSE I AM TELLING YOU THE TRUTH.((( YEAH WELL NO ONE ASKED YOU TO BE A LITTLE FUCKIN GIRL AND NOT TAKE MY ADVICE LIKE A WOMAN. AND NO ONE ASKED YOU TO OPEN YOUR LEGS AND THEN BE ON THIS SITE ASKING QUESTIONS LIKE A LITTLE CHICKEN SHIT))

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plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???

Look your DAD just died, she should be there for you comforting you. If she doesn't understand that you had some important shit to do pertaing to your father's death then she is a shitty friend and you need to lose the bitch

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I have been going to the same Christian school all my life. Now Im entering high school and I have the choice to go to the public highschool near my house. Im worried about not making friends or getting into trouble in the public school. Its my choice but I cant decide. Which on should I go to and why? Please help! I know its a stupid question but please .. Thanks!

xO mE

Sorry hun, only you can make that decision. Weigh out the pros and cons. :)

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I have a friend who i know would always stick up for me in the worst situations, but it seems whenever i do something wrong or get her angry she doesnt want to talk to me anymore and says she hates me. She says this is because she is a very emotional friend, but i'm not sure if that is completley true. She always sticks up for me whenver someone makes fun of my voice because it sounds like a cartoons and she always wants to talk to me, but when we get into fights some of the things she says can be very hurtful. Like just the other day she said on the phone she didnt wanna talk to me so i said then hang up cuz ur wasting my minutesand she got really mad and started accusing me of stealing the guy she liked away from her. She said she hated me and that i was some stupid hoe and many more mean things like that. The next day she said she was sorry for getting all emotional and asked if i would forgive her, but deep down i wanted to say NO i dont forgive you, but if i was to do that i know that the friendship would be over forever and i dont want it to end for some strange reason. I dont know what it is inside of me that makes me keep wanting to be friends with her, but all i do know is that when i start to think about not being friends anymore i get so sad and think about how bad of a friend i am and i just dont know what to do......plz someone give me some good advice on this one! Thanks

Friends get in fights and say messed up things to eachother. It happens. Obviously you think she is a good friend, and can't let her go, so just stick with her.

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okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do?

Why does your mom think she is a bad influence? Is she? Does she do bad influencing things?

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hey--> my brother [a college kid] screamed at me because he said i told his best friends sister [who i really dont even talk too bc shes older than me] all these stories about stuff they do at parties but i didnt...i tried to convince him it wasnt me but he doesnt believe me...today i was looking through his conversations in the log manager on aim and my bro n his best friend were talking about all this stuff they think i said but i honestly didnt know about any of it! and i dont know what to do...me and my brother got along last year really well and this summer were constantly fighting...i tried talking to him but it didnt work...hope u can help

Your brother is probably being such a jerk this summer, becasue he is getting older and probably think you are just a little kid. Who cares if he is mad at you, you know you didn't do that shit and thats all that matters.

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i have a thing for this kid that works at the cvs near me. i dont know anything about him except his name, which i got off his name tag, and that he has to be at least 18. he flirted with me one time i went in there and then i went back constantly for a couple weeks to try to start some sort of conversation but he was never there. then one day i saw a girl that works there walking to work and i asked her if he still worked there, and she said he did. that night i went to cvs and he didnt flirt at all and beyond that i didn't find him to be particularly friendly. so was he having a bad day or did she tell him that i asked about him and now hes all "eww" and is rejecting me? should i go back and try again? what should i say? im such a dork. but im a cute dork.

If he wasn't nice then leave him alone. He probably thinks you are desperate or something now.

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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel?

If he is still hangin with you he must not feel that akward. I think you did the right thing.

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My ex and I were friends before we got together in March. We talked a lot and got along great but I never really found myself interested in him until one night when we were flirting over AIM and he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend.

Anyways...As we went on, he seemed less and less interested in me until he, finally, broke up with me. It wouldn't have been that bad had I not fallen in love with him. And he had, in turn, told me that he loved me. He would send me emails signed 'Forever Yours' and 'Love You Always'. And his dumping me made me feel gullible.

After he dumped me, I stopped talking to him. Recently, he told me he wanted to be friends. And he also told me that he's loved me ever since he broke up with me but that he didn't want to hurt our friendship. But a friend told me that he LIKED me but didn't want a RELATIONSHIP with me.

I have a boyfriend that I'm happy with but I find myself still having feelings for my ex. Who doesn't want anything. What do I do?

Stay with the guy yuo are with now. The other guy is jsut playing too many mind games. Not worth it.

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i liked this *casey* like a month before school ended. and then when it did end i barely saw him or talked to him cuz he was on vacation alot. he would call me sometimes and would talk to him on the computer. i just couldnt like him that much anymore cuz i barely saw him. i found out like mayb a month ago he did like me but i dunno if it waz true or not. then i saw him last friday at the mall n we were talkin n all this stuff. i realized dat i still like him alot. i found out that he did still like me. this girl *danielle* likes casey too. basically shes obsessed wit him. i told her if he did ask me out i wuldnt b/c of how much she likes him. i realize now that was a big mistake and i told casey i liked him last night.. n now hes gonna ask me out and i really wanna say yes but i alredy told danielle i wuldnt.. wat shuld i do.. sorry so long

Well before Casey asks you out, go talk to Danielle about how you feel about him. Let her know you are sorry but you want to say yes, and you hope she understands. And even if she doesn't understand still say yes. She will just have to get over her obsession.

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Last year my step-dad was diagnosed with a brain tumor. (cancerous) And since then everything has changed-- which i expected. But i didnt expect my whole family to get so uptight about things. I mean, hes not fully cured ( never will be ) but hes still living.. i want to show them that he can still have fun!!! How do i help them understand that it would be bettter for everyone if they let him out a little more? ik.. its a weird question, but i need some advice..

~ cori

tell them, they need to lighten up. What happenes if he finds out he doesn't have too much longer to go, and he never got to go out and have some fun? He's still a living person who needs to smile. Just tell them that.

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my mom won't let me get a thong...she's says im too young but she won't by one for me and i dun wanna get one behind her back...how do i convince her to let me have one?

How old are you? Maybe you are too young. What do you want a thong for? Because all your friend have one and you think they are cool... I hope not.

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