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i liked this *casey* like a month before school ended. and then when it did end i barely saw him or talked to him cuz he was on vacation alot. he would call me sometimes and would talk to him on the computer. i just couldnt like him that much anymore cuz i barely saw him. i found out like mayb a month ago he did like me but i dunno if it waz true or not. then i saw him last friday at the mall n we were talkin n all this stuff. i realized dat i still like him alot. i found out that he did still like me. this girl *danielle* likes casey too. basically shes obsessed wit him. i told her if he did ask me out i wuldnt b/c of how much she likes him. i realize now that was a big mistake and i told casey i liked him last night.. n now hes gonna ask me out and i really wanna say yes but i alredy told danielle i wuldnt.. wat shuld i do.. sorry so long
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Okay, you told one person you'd say no, but then you really wanted to say yes. It seems to me you just didn't know what to do.. so you lied.. but on accident. So first thing, just try to tell Danielle that you really like Casey, and you think you're not doing something for her, but for you.. and she should understand.
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Well before Casey asks you out, go talk to Danielle about how you feel about him. Let her know you are sorry but you want to say yes, and you hope she understands. And even if she doesn't understand still say yes. She will just have to get over her obsession.
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Well if you really like that casey tell danielle how you feel about him. Maybe she will accept the fact that he likes you and you like him.
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Tell him yes you cant sacrafice all the happiness in your life for a friend and if she is a friend she would be upset but she would also be happy that youre happy so if you like him say yes and if shes mad about it tell her he asked you out and she can either be happy about it or she can stay mad but if she is a true friend she would understand.
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Giving a girl your word is important. You shouldn't go out and break it. It'll crush her, and not to mention crush you because she'll probably hate you. I'm not saying you shouldn't go out with him though. Your feelings are important too! Talk to Danielle first. Tell her your feelings. Be honest. By the way, how do you KNOW he's going to ask you out? Anyway...tell Danielle you really like him and he really likes you too. Tell her you can't hold back your feelings. Ask her to understand what you're going through. If she is really a good person, she'll understand. If she doesn't, she's really being selfish.
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talk to *danielle* before you say yes, just be honest ~ a good friend would understand...if he doesn't like her then he's not going to ask her out neway, so she should be happy for you instead of making you both miserable
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