Today i gave my boyfriend head for the 1st time ...and then I did it a second time and that time i like almost gagged! what should i do should i say anything...???
Additional info, added Thursday July 29 2004, 11:28 pm: No it wasn't because it was disgusting.and he didn't make me. I did it on my own. He didn't cum in my mouth he pulled away so He wouldn't the reason I did it was because he ate me out which I enjoyed and I accually enjoyed giving him head. But I gagged and idk why. I like didnt choke but i kinda softly gagged. but heres another thing I have been wanting to have sex I just cant find the way to tell him...or should I just wait until it happens and not have it planned!?
Ey3sWide answered Friday July 30 2004, 1:19 am: Ok, I think the gagging is your subconscience trying to tell youthat you don't really want to give this guy head. Just don't do it again. Jesus is watching. [ Ey3sWide's advice column | Ask Ey3sWide A Question ]
alderworth1 answered Friday July 30 2004, 12:29 am: ok well i have gotten head before and beleave it or not it feels pretty good when u choke or gagg so don't worry about that
but about the sex thing if u wanna do it figure out if he is like one of those people who wants to wait till marriage and as long as he ain't don't plan nothin i would whole lot rather of a girl just got on top instead of like asking her u wanna have sex!? cause that would be werid
Mz_Leesa answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:28 pm: u gagged cuz u went too deep duh. next time dont go too deep for so long n use ur hands too. hands for the bottom n concentrate ur mouth on the top,the very top n just go down periodically, he'd like it. [ Mz_Leesa's advice column | Ask Mz_Leesa A Question ]
jnxdhollowrobot answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:21 pm: ...Gag reflex...lol. Again...you'll get used to it pretty quickly. I have a gag reflex...FUN! Especially at the dentists office. = lol
As far as the sex thing goes, I think it all depends on your age...and if you're really serious about it and he loves you back, then hopefully he won't have a problem with it. You could either talk to him or...as you said...just wait until it happens. Or do both. I think that's the best way. Talk about it and see if you both agree that you're ready and just let it...happen. Be sure to use protection though! ^.^
soljette answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:16 pm: maybe you shouldnt put too much of it in your mouth. if hes making you do it, then tell him no. tell him to go find some guys dick and suck it to see how that shit feels [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
A.Good.Lie answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:14 pm: If you almost gagged, then you should definatly stop for now. Tell your boyfriend that your uncomfortable with giving him head for now. Do anything to stop. You can't be afraid to let your boyfriend know what's happening. Because if you do do it until you gag, chances are you're gunna throw up. And if you're still giving him head while you're throwing up, well...lets not get into details. It just really won't be good. If your boyfriend really respects you, then he'll understand why you have to stop for now.
But which would you rather do, stop when you start to gag, and feel a bit embarrassed (which will go away)? Or would you want to keep doing it to pleasure him, and then vomit on his you-know-what, and then him getting REALLY upset (and I mean really)?
Just say something. If he's worth keeping, then he won't be upset.
PuReLuVeR143 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:08 pm: literally, almoswt every time a girl deep throats a guy or gives there guy head, they will feel like gagging. its totally normal ...if i were u i would make a joke outta it or something, he prollie doesnt even care.
~kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:07 pm: How old are you? If you gagged stop putting so much in your mouth or just don't do that shit at all. And if your boyfriend has problem with you not wanting to do it then forget him. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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