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My boyfriend sort of fingered me last night, it's not the first time. This time he wasn't going into the "hole", he was moving his finger around the top, forcefully. I don't know what he did, but it hurt, and now this morning its extremely sore. The specific part it hurts at is the top of the clit, there is something like a small ball. It hurts to touch. What did he do and is something wrong with it? What should I do? (link)
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He probably scratched it, But if it doesnt stop hurting in awhile, I'd go check it out. And tell your boyfriend to go a little easier, lol.
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Okay so I LOVE DDR. I never do any exercise and if I had it I would do it every day non stop because I love it so much. Problem is I dont have PS2 and I dont want to spend the money to get it if DDR is the only thing id be playing. I was wondering if there was a version of DDR you could get for your computer, because i have a big screen TV and could hook it up from a laptop along with the floorpad and do it like that. Any ideas? (link)
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groove-o-matic from yahoo games. its only like 20 bucks
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I know "Pop Yo Collar" is a song, but my friend says its more then that, but she wont tell me what. Please tell!! I rate!! (link)
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its like when preps wear there little polos or whatever, they have their collar "popped"
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ok so could you get pregnant without having sex...like just having sexual intercourse with guys and idk "getting messy" i suppose is a good way to say it. me and some of my friends were talking about it. if anyone of you guys/gals know the answer to this. lemmie know!! thanks. (link)
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if he like ejaculates into your vagina, you can get pregnant. but if you are doin like anal, then no
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so im 15f and my bf and i have been goin out like 2 months and were totally different we havnt kissed yet but he stil wants to go farther im nervous cus ive nvr done anything past making out b4. he wants to have sex but i said no i just have no reason not to do other stuff hes into to drinking and drugs alot and im rlly not how can we be so different yet still together? should we be together? ug wut do i do??? (link)
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Your answer is in your own question!
I'm not going to give you advice on what to do. I believe in you and I know you will make the right choice. But I do have some thoughts for you to ponder...
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Some points for you to consider -
1. If you wanted to do these things, you wouldn't have written me in the first place.
2. Part of being a "couple" is to bring out the good in each other. Read what you said about things he does. Is this something you want to be part of? Is he really good for you?
3. Two months and you haven't KISSED? But he's talking about having SEX? What do YOU think about that?
4. 2 months may seem like a long time but when you consider the rest of your LIFE - it's nothing. Are you willing to risk your entire future (i.e. Possible pregnancy) for this guy?
I say this a lot, but it applies to you as well -
STAY TRUE TO YOUR OWN BELIEFS and you will NEVER regret your decisions. Don't change to match up with someone elses beliefs.
Tip - Avoid people that try and change you and don't try and change someone else.
If you change for the wrong reasons, you are betraying yourself AND you are betraying the people that truly love you. Your family has given you guidance and the foundation for the beliefs you have today. Ask yourself if this person really wants what is best for you.
You seem like a really good person. And you seem smart. You already know what you need to do. You don't need my advice but I really appreciate your question. Maybe it will help someone else reading this as well.
Keep me updated on what happens.
Much Love, Mrs S
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is it true xanga is illegal? (link)
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no it is not true.
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Last night I had to spend the night with my sister. She is married and already has children. So while she was taking a bath I was looking on her phone and found Text messages that where from her husband (he has a driving job) and one said, "Talk Dirty To Me." and another one said, "Wouldn't you like to be licked all over?". I was so shocked. I mean I would have never thought of him acting like that. So I put the phone down and I just couldn't read anymore. I still feel shocked and horriable. I know she is married and has a right to do what she wants,and I shouldn't have been looking on her phone and nowI just don't know what to do. Any Ideas?? (She is 29, he is 30) (link)
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its actually a very good thing, that their relationship is still that amazing. And I could see how it be sicking if it was form another man, But its her husbend.
Just get over it really, its not a big deal.
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Im a guy, me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up(she broke up with me, said she needed some time off)...anyways its been over 2 months and all I do is think about her, i miss her so much, and even though we still hang out and talk on the phone, i feel alone. I wonder if maybe i should go and date other girls because i seriously can no longer take the emptiness in my heart, i love her so much and wanna be back with her, however, i dont know exactly what plans she has. I have asked her if she sees us getting back together and her answer is always the same " i cannot answer that, cause i dont know?"
What am i supossed to do here, in one hand i love her and miss her so much, and i can continue feeling empty while waiting for her to come back to me, but on the other hand, i dont know if we will ever get back together, so maybe im getting my hopes up too high, all i know is that the emptiness and despair i feel everyday cannot be good for my health, what should i do? (link)
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If she doesn't know if she wants to get back with you, I think you should find someone else. Whhy should you wait for her to decided your future? Look and see if there are any other girls and if she decides she wants to be with you, you can decide then whether you'd rather go out with her or someone new.
hope you find happiness soon...
---->Maureen
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my moms bf irritates the HELL out of me, like you have no idea. one time after i was getting over a fever we were going out my mom was like "do you want to take your coat" and im like "no im fine" and hes like "even IM taking my coat" and im like "okay..." and he's like "fine, stay sick if you want, i dont care" and i seriously wanted to backhand him. like, he doesnt even DO anything for me when im sick so why should i give a shit weather he "cares" if im sick or not. i dont think he was intentionally trying to be so bitchy but he seriously does that all the time and, to me, i dont see him as someone that has any authority over me since they've only been dating for 5 months or so. he lays it on too thick with my mom always saying "omg your such a good cook blah blah balh" allllll the time and i feel like i never get to hang out with her. i mean, obviously i have friends i hang out with a stuff, but it feels like i never get to see her anymore unless hes not there.
oh and he moved in with us.
joy joy.
sorry this was long but does anyone have any ideas of how i can talk to my mom about it??
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tell your mom you hate him. and say shes like gonna either have to choose you or him, because you wont be able to live in the same house if you marry him.
this happened to my friend: her mom was very beautiful, and her boyfriend was a gross perv. then she went anoreexic, and you dont want that to happen to you
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Does proactiv really work and get rid of all or most of your acne? A girl told me it was great for her and her friend, but other people say its junk. I just wanted to know cause I always have acne and i want to know if this stuff really works. (link)
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its WAAYYYYY overpriced. ask your dermatologist, because they can sell you the same thing for like half the price. proactiv was just a succesfful marketing plan. and it didnt work on my mom.
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How long after buying body lotion should you throw it away if it is not all used?
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I'm not quite sure, but body lotion DOES last a long time. Maybe a year, or so? Sorry, I hope I helped:)
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are there any lip plumping lip glosses that dont burn? i saw this one in a catalog but my mom threw it away. i want an inexpensive one. preferably one that doesnt stink...lol thanks (link)
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supposedly dessert by jessica simpson is good, and you can eat it!
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I have a new hamster. When she is on her wheel, it is really loud. It is keeping everyone up and I was wondering if there was anything I can do. I am going to try to find a different wheel, but I am not sure if there are any quiet ones out there. Does anyone know what I can do for right now, until I can find a new wheel?
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put oil/grease on the wheel. when i used to have one, my mom would put on olive oil on a weekly basis. the hamster also liked the olive oil, and it was good for her diet!
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This is really embarassing, but I've had worms for a number of years and when I was younger I took the medication but it didn't help and I still had it. I estimate I've had it for about 8 years, maybe longer. Its never really had an effect on me, except being very itchy. I'm started to worry that it will cause long-term health effects on me. I'm too scared to tell my mother as its pretty gross.. is there anything at all I can do? Should I not be worried?
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OH MY GOD YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR MOM!! this could turn into something really serious. you could research them online before you tell her. its not good to have parasites in you for years, and so you really should talk to a doctor and a gaurdian. i know thats not what you want to do but you MUSSST tell her.
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we get to do a research paper on anything we want, what would be some good topics? (link)
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do a person. my suggestions are milton hershey (is that his name?) anyways, chocolate would be easy, becasue you can write about what inspired him, about his childhood and growing up, and give out hershey kisses at the end, for example. you could do an old celebrity, like the glamorous marilyn monroe. you could also do a famous WWII person, such as winston churchill, because he was a very important leader. or do anyone else thatinspires you.
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Okay, I wasn't sure if this was good enough for the health section, but I was just wondering about something.
A little over a year ago a friend of mine was in a car accident due to drinking and driving and she didn't make it. I was completely torn up about it. I wouldn't say that I'm over it now, but I've found other ways to deal with it.
Recently another friend of mine was in a car wreck and was injured pretty badly. The first week or so that he was in the hospital he was in a lot of pain but he was there. He understood what we said to him and he could talk back to us clearly. By the end of the 1st month it was just like something was eating away at him, he was like a mentally ill person. You couldn't understand what he was saying, and well I don't know if he could understand me. He lives in a different state than I do (I moved away a few years ago) but we still kept in close contact after I moved, he even helped me through the death of the friend I mentioned above. I owe him (and a few others) my life. But anyway, about a week ago his health completely deteriorated. He is now in a coma and I feel really guilty because I have shown no emotion whatsoever. I'm living my life just like I did before. I cried once and that is when I found out. And that kind of scares me. I am not that much of an emotional person, but when somebody like a brother to me is in a coma and his mom doesn't really love him (she used to abuse him) and wants to pull the plug thing that is keeping him alive (sorry, I don't know what it's called) because she is sick of paying for her sons mistakes (she told me that when I talked to her) I just don't know what I should be feeling.
How come I'm not feeling anything? Is it wrong not to be feeling anything knowing that such a great person and somebody so close to me may die?
I don't know, I'm just confused, I needed to vent and just see if anyone else has experienced or knows somebody who has experienced something like this. I just kind of found it weird that I was sooo devastated when it came to my one friends death, and now this person, and I've cried maybe once...
Oh 15/f (link)
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Your really like me.
To start off, Im really sorry about your friend.
To clear it up, this doesnt make you a bad person at all. I think your just so confused (or maybe in shock about it happening) and you dont really even realize the reality of it. You cant cry, when you dont understand yourself. I bet reading that out, gave you a better undertstanding of your feelings (hopefully)
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i didnt know what to put this under so oh well lol.
ok, i have acne, but its not bad. its mostly near my eyebrows and nose and stuff. but i can't find any makeup that works. i have the true blend pressed powder, and that doesnt seem to really work at all. my skin is always blotchy, and its really dry now because of the cold. i was wondering that there was any makeup that would work. i cant stand liquid foundation though, because it feels like im putting paint on my face. i hate it. any suggestions?
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Bare minerals.
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hey, i was wondering if there was anywhere you could get that bare mineral makeup, or something like it for relatively cheap. i went to sephora.com and it was wiked expensive.
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I got mine at a Place called "Ultra"
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i sweat like all the time! it's really emabarresing to have these huge sweat stains in school. i don't know what to do, i mean deoderant and antiperspirant just don't work. i went to the doctor and there's nothing wrong with me, i just need good deoderant and/or antiperspirant. does anyone know the name of a REALLY good one? thanks! (link)
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Try Certain Dri. You can find it at your local drugstore and it's about $6-$10. It works realllly well and actually stops you from sweating. It clogs your glands or something. It's amazing! :) I hope I helped
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My friend has been taking pills that some, or many of you, are familiar with. The street name are "triple c's" or "skittles". I think theyre called 'Coridicin Cold and Cough' or something, and what gives people their 'high' is the dextrophine or something close called that. Well, She steals them out of walgreen every day and swallows about 16 of them every day or every other day. I, myself, have only taken 6 in my life and I learned it was a very stupid decision and that I will never take them again! But my friend on the other hand, I think, is becoming very dependent on them. Shes been doing this for about a month or two, every day taking more. She keeps telling me and herself that she'll stop but she just won't. She is my best friend and im really concerned about her health and what permanent effects these pills can have on her. So what i need is some info and/or sites that give me the dangers, etc. of taking these pills. Thank you guys so much i want to help her. (link)
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Your friend needs help.
You clook up the effects,but you really need to take action. Now, Tell her parents please. Drugs are serouis, and i wish my brother ( a herion addict of 3 years) had, had a friend like you to have had this chance to save him. Please, tell somebody, She's starting up her addiction and you can serouisly help it, I really wish you do tell her parents. She's already stealing, and stuff and it really only gets worse from there.
I'm 12 I've had to suffer from my brothers addiction, and its pretty bad, I've beens stolen from by him, lied to him by him. And 2 months, she can really help make it stop, and shes really young. Shes already lying to you and herself by saying shes going to stop and she doesnt. Please tell and adult, fast
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