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fingering
My boyfriend sort of fingered me last night, it's not the first time. This time he wasn't going into the "hole", he was moving his finger around the top, forcefully. I don't know what he did, but it hurt, and now this morning its extremely sore. The specific part it hurts at is the top of the clit, there is something like a small ball. It hurts to touch. What did he do and is something wrong with it? What should I do?
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I always thought your clitoris was a small ball.
He was probably just a little to rough and it was dry, so it caused some irritation. It should go away. Don't put any chemicals on it, that might irritate it more. Just, tell him to calm down -- and not go so rough.
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that particular area is very sesitive, it can just be sore or it can be as much as herpes. i would get it check it by your o.b.g.y.n.
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He might have just gone too rough for those sensative areas. i think you need to tell him what you want and how much pressure you want, etc. it'll probably hurt for a bit but it should be fine within 3 days. <3
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Well, if your boyfriend is doing something to you that hurts tell him to stop! That is very very important. He doesn't know that it's hurting you, he's not trying to hurt you and it's not going to hurt his feelings if you do say something. I'm kind of afraid for you. You need to stick up for yourself sexually or you're going to end up letting him rape you. If you don't say "no" there's no way for him to know that what he's doing is not okay. I don't think anything was damaged. It's probably a bruise or something. I would wait a few days to see if it gets better. After 2 weeks and it's still really bad, you should see a doctor. It would be best if you didn't make up a story, but I think that it would be okay in this case if you were too embarassed that you would't even go if you had to tell the truth. I hope that I helped you and good luck.
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i know exactly what it did...this is the smae thing my bf did to me... dont go to the doctor... to imbaressing... it will hert to pee for about one day put lotion on it.. doees it feel like a brush burn?? ok yeah and ok this is what i want you to do... take a peice of tolit paper and wipe where it herts... it will bu but shee if i was a brust burn form to mych friction yeah i knoww hehe he didnt know what he was doing (prude boy) ehehe lol.
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He probably scratched it, But if it doesnt stop hurting in awhile, I'd go check it out. And tell your boyfriend to go a little easier, lol.
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Hey hun,
Sounds like he maybe just scratched you or was just being a little too rough...I would just see if it gets better overtime, but if it doesn't then I would get it checked out, but for right now just wait and see.
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i dont know what he did, but something is probably infected or something. i would go see a gynecliologist.
kathryn
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