Member Since: March 6, 2006
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Last Update: March 6, 2006
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My boyfriend sort of fingered me last night, it's not the first time. This time he wasn't going into the "hole", he was moving his finger around the top, forcefully. I don't know what he did, but it hurt, and now this morning its extremely sore. The specific part it hurts at is the top of the clit, there is something like a small ball. It hurts to touch. What did he do and is something wrong with it? What should I do? (link)
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I always thought your clitoris was a small ball.
He was probably just a little to rough and it was dry, so it caused some irritation. It should go away. Don't put any chemicals on it, that might irritate it more. Just, tell him to calm down -- and not go so rough.
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OKay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months , and we are definantly in love. Lately we have been talkin about sex, a little more and more each time we talk to each other. Like last night we were texting each other and he said and i quote "Blaire, I love you, & you no that, i would do anything in the world for you. And , well now, i think im ready, for well you know, to have sex. I think we should try it. But only if your ready"
and the thing is , were young. He is 16, im almost 14.(one more week) and well, i would really love to loose my virginity to him, but he has already had sex(he used to be in the major party scene. He quit for me.) So should i have sex with him?
-Confsed (link)
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I concurr; if you have to ask if you're ready to people on Advicenators then you're really not ready to go for it.
And plus, you are young. Fourteen? You have your whole life ahead of you to have sex. For now, just enjoy life. Because once you start, you'll have to face consequences. And you don't want to do that when you're so young.
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I'm scared to death of tampons; but I need to start using them because I play volleyball and I don't want the pad to be visible. I keep trying to put them in, but they get to a point where I can't push it in anymore and it hurts so bad I want to cry. I've used almost a whole box trying to put one in; does anyone have any tips that might help this be less painful? (link)
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First of all, don't be scared. Because when you're scared your muscles tense up and it's really uncomfortable to try and stick something up there when your body is tense. Second, start off with the smallest size and PLASTIC. Plastic is key, it's easier and it slides in. Cardboard can hurt. [Oh, and by plastic I mean -- the applicator.] I hope this helps, I had the same problem with volleyball. Eventually you'll be used to it.
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