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What I Found On My Sister Cell Phone...
Last night I had to spend the night with my sister. She is married and already has children. So while she was taking a bath I was looking on her phone and found Text messages that where from her husband (he has a driving job) and one said, "Talk Dirty To Me." and another one said, "Wouldn't you like to be licked all over?". I was so shocked. I mean I would have never thought of him acting like that. So I put the phone down and I just couldn't read anymore. I still feel shocked and horriable. I know she is married and has a right to do what she wants,and I shouldn't have been looking on her phone and nowI just don't know what to do. Any Ideas?? (She is 29, he is 30)
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I think it's great, personally. Some marriages lose their spark far too quickly.
No, you shouldn't have been looking. And if it made you feel like throwing up, it's your own fault for snooping.
There's nothing for you to do. She is a grown woman, a married grown woman with children and she's got the right to do as she pleases. Her sex life is no one else's business but hers and her husbands. You'll get over it. Just a little shocker. No one wants to think of their family in that manner. lol.
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Look. Shes 30. She has a happy se life and thats normal. You should be happy. My friends parents and like 30 and already divorced! So you should be happy. Look, Adults have sex, how do you think you got here?
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Hey they're adults. Adults fuck. How do you think you got here?
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Well, I have been in a similar situation with my older sister and I remember feeling a little shocked too. However, as I got older I realized how important and healthy it is for a couple to have a great sex life. Since this is between husband and wife there is absolutly nothing to worry about. Pretend you never saw it and don't do or say anything about it. You just never new he was like that because of course he is not like that with you or other people. Which is the right way to be. Don't feel guilty that you read the message, just keep it to yourself and you'll forget the impact it had on you in time.
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its actually a very good thing, that their relationship is still that amazing. And I could see how it be sicking if it was form another man, But its her husbend.
Just get over it really, its not a big deal.
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Actually you should be happy for your sister that her and her husband who are married still have a loving relationship. He's a driver and away from home and thinking about his wife.
Thats a wonderful thing!
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did you ever think of it as a joke maybe?
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sweetie, thats perfecty normal. There's nothing you can do, theyre grown up, & grown people get pleasure in doing things such as that. You might feel a bit bad for reading her phone, but those txt's were really no big deal :] feel better <3
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Well, I think you just need to accept that is is completely normal. I mean you know you shouldn't have been looking through her phone, and it is just something that is normal. Really there is nothing you can do except to just understand that they are a married couple, and they are going to talk like that.
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You shouldn't be shocked! Embarrassed maybe for reading someones personal messages! :)
You don't do anything about it. Whats to do? They are two grown married people who, by the way evidently love each other and get along very well.
Just don't read their messages anymore. :)
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