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pushing to far
so im 15f and my bf and i have been goin out like 2 months and were totally different we havnt kissed yet but he stil wants to go farther im nervous cus ive nvr done anything past making out b4. he wants to have sex but i said no i just have no reason not to do other stuff hes into to drinking and drugs alot and im rlly not how can we be so different yet still together? should we be together? ug wut do i do???
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I'm not going to give you advice on what to do. I believe in you and I know you will make the right choice. But I do have some thoughts for you to ponder...
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Some points for you to consider -
1. If you wanted to do these things, you wouldn't have written me in the first place.
2. Part of being a "couple" is to bring out the good in each other. Read what you said about things he does. Is this something you want to be part of? Is he really good for you?
3. Two months and you haven't KISSED? But he's talking about having SEX? What do YOU think about that?
4. 2 months may seem like a long time but when you consider the rest of your LIFE - it's nothing. Are you willing to risk your entire future (i.e. Possible pregnancy) for this guy?
I say this a lot, but it applies to you as well -
STAY TRUE TO YOUR OWN BELIEFS and you will NEVER regret your decisions. Don't change to match up with someone elses beliefs.
Tip - Avoid people that try and change you and don't try and change someone else.
If you change for the wrong reasons, you are betraying yourself AND you are betraying the people that truly love you. Your family has given you guidance and the foundation for the beliefs you have today. Ask yourself if this person really wants what is best for you.
You seem like a really good person. And you seem smart. You already know what you need to do. You don't need my advice but I really appreciate your question. Maybe it will help someone else reading this as well.
Keep me updated on what happens.
Much Love, Mrs S
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