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hes so annoying
my moms bf irritates the HELL out of me, like you have no idea. one time after i was getting over a fever we were going out my mom was like "do you want to take your coat" and im like "no im fine" and hes like "even IM taking my coat" and im like "okay..." and he's like "fine, stay sick if you want, i dont care" and i seriously wanted to backhand him. like, he doesnt even DO anything for me when im sick so why should i give a shit weather he "cares" if im sick or not. i dont think he was intentionally trying to be so bitchy but he seriously does that all the time and, to me, i dont see him as someone that has any authority over me since they've only been dating for 5 months or so. he lays it on too thick with my mom always saying "omg your such a good cook blah blah balh" allllll the time and i feel like i never get to hang out with her. i mean, obviously i have friends i hang out with a stuff, but it feels like i never get to see her anymore unless hes not there.
oh and he moved in with us.
joy joy.
sorry this was long but does anyone have any ideas of how i can talk to my mom about it??
thanks
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im sorry that this happened to you. i think you should try and have a conversation with your mom and tell her how you feel. try and find a time when he is not around. maybe while he is at work.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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First of he's just trying to fit in. Try writing a note to your mom and tell her you all need some family time. Save up some money and take her to lunch or a movie and try to build back your relationgship. Maybe your mom jus doesn't realise you need her...so try to let her know you do!
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tell your mom you hate him. and say shes like gonna either have to choose you or him, because you wont be able to live in the same house if you marry him.
this happened to my friend: her mom was very beautiful, and her boyfriend was a gross perv. then she went anoreexic, and you dont want that to happen to you
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I don't think its asking to much of mom to tell her you would like some private time with her.
Just tell her you miss doing things with her and would like it if you could have a day or evening each week where just the two of you do something together.
As for her boyfriend, hes moved in so she must be serious about him. Good or bad for her sake you have to try and get along with him. It sounds like he may be trying...even if he isn't good at it.
Be happy for your mom. It sounds like he compliments her a lot and really cares about her.
That's hard to find these days!
Talk to mom and I'll bet you two can work something out. If you want to, include the boyfriend in your discussion. You never know, he may be helpful. :)
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