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he talks to 7 girls on the phone every night
hey guys i need some advice....me and scott have been dating and everytime i try to call him the phone is ALWAYS busy! i know he has a lot of friends that are girls but he talks to like 7 girls on the phone every night he tells me its not even like that..but i'm having doubts then one day he called me and told me his ex girlfriend called him and she bought him a presant and i got mad and he goes " see i knew you would get all bent out of shape about it." ok if some whore is buying my boyfriend presants am i supposed to be happy? i dont know if hes cheating on me and i think he is because the phones always busy and when i try to talk to him about it he gets all mad..what do you guys think please help me out!
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if you dont have that kind of trust in your boyfriend then i dont think that your elationship will last. i do think it is wrong that his ex girlfriend bought him a present though. if you guys have IM, talk about it, straighten things out.
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kathryn
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Hey,
It doesn't sound like he is ready for a relationship. If my boyfriend was talking to 7 girls every night and his ex-girlfriend was giving him presents then I would dump him. It just sounds like you will end up gettig hurt in the long run. It doesn't sound like he is cheating on you, but I just don't think he understands how to be a good boyfriend. I mean he should at least understand why you were mad when his ex got him a present, and it just sounds like he is avoiding talking to you about other girls. So it really sounds like you should just dump him....
Well Good Luck with everything!
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If I was in that kind of situation I wouldn't be happy about it either.
I would think that he was cheating.
I mean why would his ex-girlfriend buy him a present? i would sit him down and talk to him about this and MAKE him listen.
If he's not cheating on you, then why can't he just sit down with you and talk about this without getting mad right?
Remember, that before you became his girlfriend he had a past and that past might have included all those girls he talks to on the phone.
So don't jump to conclusions about him talking to so much girls on the phone. I know it's hard to just sit there and think about all those girls he is talking to but if you trust him enough then you should let it go.
I hope everything works out with you two and if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.
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it sounds suspicious but you shouldnt just assume it. you should talk to him about it even though he gets mad, just tell him how you feel. and if he cant accept that then maybe he's not the bf for you. good luck!
♥evy
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I would be upset too about an ex getting my partner a present. The way I look at it is that exes are in the past and should stay there.
Honestly, I would move on and find a better guy. I'm seeing some major issues here. One, he seems to be putting all these other girls before you. If he was really interested, he'd tell those girls he has a girlfriend and needs to spend time with her. Two, there's a trust issue. I'm a strong believer that there has to be trust for a relationship to work. It sounds to me like you don't trust him much and he's not giving you much reason to trust him. Three, he's not willing to work on the issues in your relationship. If there's a problem, he needs to be willing to work to fix it too. The fact that he gets mad rather than trying to work it out throws up major red flags for me.
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