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can you get pregnant if sperm is outside the body?? ex. you use a public bathroom & sperm is on the seat, you have sex & sperm is on the area you had sex on, er juss sperm anywhere??

thanks!! (link)
Sperm dies when touched by air.
so, nope.


This Friday is this HUGE dance... everyone goes and I am getting tickets from this guy I know. So, he's going to be there and somtimes I get tongue-tied and say stupid things around guys. How can I not get tongue tied? Also, what are some cute,hot,sexy,etc. things to say to him that will make him like me more? I'll rate 5s! (link)
everything, eveybody already told you.
But to give you more help:
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html


ok well i have like soo many pimples and i have cream but does toothpaste really help them go away? please ii need help. this guy said he likes but i have too many pimples&ihate them too so please help. ill rate high. (link)
Toothpaste is okay for people with a little amount of pimples. I'd consider seeing a derm for you, or trying proactive (www.proactive.com)
And on the site i believe they have good tips.
But if for now if you wish to cover up, your acne you can buy MINERAL MAKEUP (ex: bareminerals, or neutrogena has new mineral makeup out) they dont cause more pimples. Contact the derm (go again even if you already, been there.)


hey
iv heard that if u straighten ur hair it falls out....... is this tru? (link)
no, its not. I mean little hairs fall out, but thats normal. But not all of your hair. If that was true, you wouldnt have many people going to salons to get there hair straighten now would you?


can you get pregnant if sperm is outside the body?? ex. you use a public bathroom & sperm is on the seat, you have sex & sperm is on the area you had sex on, er juss sperm anywhere??

thanks!! (link)
sperm dies instantly when touched by air, i believe.


my friends are constantly making me feel bad or blaming me for something. and i always end up feeling bad and apoligizing even tohugh half the time it isnt my fault...any advice? (link)
Dont say sorry, for anything you know you didnt do.
Honestly they ARE NOT your "friends" you need to make new friends. No excuses, they are not good friends, and nobody diserves friends like that. stop apoligizing, and stick up for yourself.


well my boyfreind has acne on his face and i was just wondering if it is contagious or anything and if it is...is there anything i can do so i dont start breaking out or anyhting? (link)
No, acne is not contagious && so you know it probably isnt your boyfriends fault he has it.


Are the Oscars and the Academy Awards the same thing? (link)
Yes.


i think that i'm kind of self conscious .. i didn't know where to put this under but i think im really self conscious about my body and my looks and stuff. so i dont know. but anyway .. how could i get rid of some of my self consciousness?

thanksss (link)
Im like you.
I'm horrible to myself about my weight.
But now im realizing i cannot sit, around drowning in myself i need to step out, and change it.
I suggest to you you make a list of all the stuff you dislike about you, and find ways to change it.
And then make a list of all the good stuff, also.


I have minor acid reflux if that has to do with this:

When I turn over in bed suddenly sometimes a get this odd feeling in the center of my chest. It feels like a bubble popped in my heart. It doesn't hurt, but it feels SO odd. What could this be? Should I tell my doctor about this? (link)
Considering its not hurting, i'd probably wait it out and if lasted awhile i'd see a docter.
But if your that worried, I'd just go ask a docter about it.


I have a math teacher and theres a bunch of girls that likes him. So I found out that they call him on his cell phone and they talk to him on the internet. I find this very strange
because he is like 25 and he lives with his parents and he's single. Half the girls that has his number is between 12-13. I have a bad feeling about this teacher because he goes to ball games and sits with those girls. Does anyone have any idea's on what to do? (link)
Tell a teacher, But I'd keep yourself annon.


i want to upload some new pics..
now somepeople have their pictures with 2 pictures, one on top of the other..
like when you got to picture idex instead of one picture being in one of the slots.. there are 2

if any1 knows what im talking about
and how to do it
please answer and ill rate (link)
The person below me is wrong.
1.You upload one picture (on myspace)

2.then go to
www.tinypic.com Upload the bottom image on there
And when you click "host image" (ignore the tag part) Whens its uploaded you'll see the words "tag" and a box with some inside

3.Example:

4.You delete some of the stuff so it would look like this...


5.AFter that copy and paste the stuff in part 4 into where you usally add your captions.


My dad is really abusive...towards me and my mom. Especially my mom. He calls her degrading names and he used to abuse her..alot. Even while she was pregnant with me and my brother and my sister. To this day, I am almost 17 and he still verbally abuses and me also. My mom has considered divorce, but we have no money, no where to go. Today something horrible happenned and he was calling my mom ALOT of horrible words that I can't even say on here. I am afraid that when he comes home from work tomorrow that he will yell at her again..Also, I am afraid that when my siblings and I go to school, he will beat her. Please give advice. (link)
I'm 41 yrs old but you just described my childhood. I know enough to realize that you have barely scratched the surface about what you are having to endure. I ended up getting my first job at 15, moving out as soon as school was out, and making many mistakes out of desperation along the way. I would change so many things if I could do it over. So this is the advice I offer to you...
1. Your Dad is the way he is because of the way he was raised - NOT BECAUSE OF YOU or your mother. The worst effect this man will have on you is giving you a low self esteme. You will probably fight with this the rest of your life because your father doesn't show you or your Mother the respect you deserve. It's up to you to break this cycle. Stay away from males like this. They will destroy you. You can't choose your FATHER, but you CAN choose the men in your life.
2. The best thing you can do for yourself is to do well in school and get into college as soon as you graduate high school. Even though my father refused to pay for my education (since it was a waste on a GIRL), I got it anyway and it was the single most important accomplishment I achieved myself. GET your degree. Be independent. NEVER depend on ANYBODY. Be strong. Be confident.

You are lucky. You are 17. Stick with school and get out of that destructive environment - but not hastily. Don't end up like your poor mom. And remember that you are not responsible for her situation. She made bad choices. Don't do the same with your life.

I truly hope you are able to follow this advice and break this abusive cycle. Wait until you meet a guy that truly respects and admires you and your accomplishments. You are valuable. You are important. And you ARE in control of the rest of your life. Stay focused on YOU and your future. Good luck! Much Love, Mrs S


Im 13 Female, And Im the 7th grade. Im moving soon, really soon. Im finshing off the 7th grade in the current state that i live in then moving out of it to one thats only 2 hours away. Around here Middle school is 6-8 and see once i move I'll be an 8th grader to a new school, with new people. Im really scared, And Im afraid to face the fact that im leaving everything behind for the better (Where i live now is drug filled and trashed what you'd consider the brighter side og the ghetto since its not that bad as a ghetto) Im scared to move, my mom is pressuring me to start packing my room and I dont want to. I dont want to move, I dont want to leave everything thats always been my comfort. I know moving is for the better, but how can i convice myself that it really truely be a better place for me? or atleast not be so scared. I RATE! (link)
yOU'LL BE OK.


i am 13/f, and i think my boyfriend has a crush on my bestfriend. he is always hanging out with her. he actually spends more time with her than me. when i talk to her she says that she'll try to stop but she never does. the worst thing is that she has a boyfriend already. ive talked to him and he isnt comfortable with it either! what should i do? (link)
Be straight forward and tell him the facts.
"If your going to hang out with [nameofyourbestfriend] this relationship may not workout, She has a boyfriend. You have a girlfriend. You decide, what you want"
Is exactly what I'd tell him personally


my modeling manager wants me to be in the magazine MAXIM. i am 14, do you think this is weird?
he says its good for exposure since i am just starting. (link)
Your only 14. I think its a bad idea, i'd consider another Manager who give you magazines that will show off your pretty face.


the (gym) teachers @ my school begged my last year to join track, i went to a practice and almost died with the warm up (1/2 mile) and they are begging me again this year. they want to teach me to do the high-jump. i've been walking/jogging/running on my treadmill lately.

i would join track, but i don't like the fact of being with alot of other people && if i did high jump they would watch me (link)
If your not going to be 100% decicated dont do it.
And find yourself your own running area.


What do guys think about when they "feel you up"? and do they care if they are small? (link)
If they plan or already feeling you up, I doubt they care. If they did they wouldnt feel you up.
there is no right or wrong anwser tot his question each guy is different.


Hey, all you teen boys out there, I was wondering if any of you like horses or are involved with them. I'm just curious, it seems like it's too much of a girl thing for some reason. So I want to know if anyone knows any horse guys or if you are one yourself.

lol and I'm not looking for answers saying "horses are cool", because I want to see if anyone likes them more than "cool" and have actually done things with them.

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I've never met a guy who rides horses, But really.. I dont see why you cant. Alot of my Girl friends, They ride them. But if you meet a girl who rides them she'd like the idea that you ride them.
ORRR if you meet a girl who doesnt know anything about them you can show her (Kinda like idea the with sports only now were talking about horses)

lol@myself. I didnt realize you were a girl, but hey atleast you got my point.


Heres some pics of me...
http://public.fotki.com/xstephh34x/me/mypicture1.html
http://public.fotki.com/xstephh34x/me/mypicture.html
http://public.fotki.com/xstephh34x/me/sdfg.html
Password:steph
Thanks!
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By any chance do you go on the Myjellybean chat boards?
I think I've seen you there.
Anyways I think side swept bangs would do you some, good.




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