i am 13/f, and i think my boyfriend has a crush on my bestfriend. he is always hanging out with her. he actually spends more time with her than me. when i talk to her she says that she'll try to stop but she never does. the worst thing is that she has a boyfriend already. ive talked to him and he isnt comfortable with it either! what should i do?
GwinnCheer2005 answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:51 pm: Hey well when my boyfriend and i started going out he flirted with my bestfriend a lot! Before we started going out he even said that he liked her!!! Just talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him how you feel. Tell him you hate it when he flirts with your bestfriend. My boyfriend even flirted in front of me and didn't even acknoledge i was there. It was horrible i know how you feel. Just talk to him about it and if he really cares about you and your feelings he'll stop! Also if you tried talking to your bestfriend about it shes obviously not your friend if she flirts with your boyfriend and she knows how you feel. Hope i helped!!
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br0ken_x_smile answered Saturday March 4 2006, 5:46 pm: Hang out with her boyfriend and see how she feels having her bestfriend and boyfriend hang out. I'm sure she won't be too happy and will get jealous.
orphans answered Saturday March 4 2006, 3:10 pm: Be straight forward and tell him the facts.
"If your going to hang out with [nameofyourbestfriend] this relationship may not workout, She has a boyfriend. You have a girlfriend. You decide, what you want"
Is exactly what I'd tell him personally [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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