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talk to her & tell her that she needs to stop and if she doesnt listen u are gonna have to tell sum1 else... if she gets madd tell her that ur doing this for her own good cuz u care about her...

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At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee

go up to people and start convos wit em... when people look at u smile... be confident

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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?

No its not silly at all... there are sum guys out there that will save themselves for a special girl too... a lotta guys lie about not being virgins dont worry about that... at this point just worry about urself and what u wanna do...

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months.... and we met at church camp where i asked jesus into my heart for the first time.. and that totally changed my life.. but then when we got home all reality came back.. i had used to be really bad.. such as have sex and drink... and well now i stopped all that and my boyfriend is really religious... and he found out about all that and he told me that when you ask jesus into your heart the first time all your sins from that past are forgiven... and he told me he loves me for who i am now and my past doesnt matter to him.... but now.... we were like in my pool and he get touchy feely.. and im not like that anymore.. we still didnt do anything or anthing. .but it scares me cuz i think that he might try to do something i dont want to.... and also... people sign his buddy profile guest boook telling him lies about me haveing sex with a 21 year old and stuff like that... and he still worries.. and ill tel lhim they arnt true.. but it still bothers him.. i dont know what to do... and my parents are leaving for a week and ofcourse me n him are ganna hang out... i just dont wanna do anything that we will regret... and i dont know how to tell him that without embarrasing him.... please help me!!!!!

Its nice to hear that u are religious and u realize doin certain things is wrong... im sure he realizes too... but you guys still have horomones.. so u need to have a talk wit him and be like i really wanna do stuff wit u but i cant cuz i wanna be a better person and i know u do too... & about people signin his g-book be like haters will always talk shit and try to break us up... tell him he needs to trust u cuz you've changed... and u can prove to him that you've changed by not doing stuff wit him...

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Me: I really wonder why guys have been hittin on me lately lol
Him: u realli wanna know that
Him: cuz i'll tell u
Me: ok lol
Him: cuz
Him: ur
Him: HOTT!!!!
Him: duh
Me: aww lol
Me: why cant guys go for my personality? its alright if they wanna go for my looks but then they could playas
Him: I'd go for both
Me: lol

Is he flirtin or just talkin? There's more convos where he says sweet things like that but I just chose this one.

i think hes flirting

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How can i make a website that is for free?? I use 2 have aol but i don't have aol anymore so i wanted to make a new website...anybody kno what i can do??

u can still make it on aol if u have aim... go to Hometown.aol.com ... or u could try geocities... or buddy4u.com

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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways.

try drinkin sprite... im not sure if it works for every1 but it doesnt hurt to try

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Im a 16 year old girl and ive been dating this girl for 3 months I want to make a move but dont know how, what do I do?

well if ur thinkin about doing BIG stuff than u need to talk to her about it first and make sure shes ready cuz if u just try to do it u might hurt her... but if u just wanna kiss and make out... u should still talk to her... but go slow...

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i have a bf but i'm not sure if he is really into me nemore we use 2 tlak bout everything bout now we barely talk.I call him sometimes n he doesn't really seem lyk he wants to talk he never calls me n he is always busy n cna never do nething. i talk to his brother on the IM n ask him but he doesn't really kno wut am i suppose 2 do...how do i find out if he really lykes me or not? plz help!

ask him... be like whats up... we havent been talkin much lately... are u really that busy or is sumthing else wrong... no one can tell whats on his mind other than him...

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

Dont worry about what people say... cuz whether u are going out with a nerd or a hott boi people will always make up sumthing to say about u or him... haters are always gonna talk shit no matter what...

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Ok, I have this irritation in my private. be4 i had scratches on it. It has been hurting all summer. The only thing that seems to help is a bath or shower. I told mi mother and she says its healing. but its not. does any one know what to do.and should i tell?

Go see a doctor... it may be sumthing serious and it may not... but the only way u well knO and get better is if u show it to a doctor

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What can i do to be more popular in school...i have soo many friends but i just wanna b a lil more poplular....and guys give ur true and honest answer dont give me a "full house" answer please.....help me out!

Be nice and friendly... if u look like ur a warm person more people will approach you... that way u can make more friends...

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i threw up the other day like 9 times and maybe ate 3 little things like half a slice of turkey, a little piece of chicken from a salad, and a bannanna. i wuz sick that day cuz i had sumthing really bad to eat the day before. well the next day i had a bowl of ceral {{wif milk}} for breakfeast/lunch. then i had black beans and rice for dinner and sum plantanes and like two pieces of a slice of pork. today i had nothing at all to eat. im waiting for my bgi brother to come home with food. we have no food at home. its 12:30 and im really hungry. ive been missing meals etc. lately and getting really hungry. can this turn into belemia or inerexia? it been like maybe 3 days can i get that in just 3 days? help me out im scared.

If ur throwin up on purpose it could be belemia or anorxia... but if u feel really sick and are throwing up u might just have a virus... either way go see a doctor...

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Im havin diffcult evr since my 23 year old cuzin died what shuld i do? i rele miss her! help me asap

awwwwww im sorry... Everytime u feel sad just remember that shes in a better place now... keep her alive in ur heart and ur memories...

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omg ok this may be confusing..please just try to follow..im 15..my b/f is 16..he's really experienced..unlike me the farthest i go is like touchy feely/kissing..we absolutely love each other and it's obvious we WILL be 2gether for a LONG time..but anyways..he;s extremely touchy feely & like he wants to make - out constantely & i mean i love it, but at the same time im scared, i could SO easily so myself doing things with him that i'd regret..like i love him and all, but i was brought up to respect myself & save myself til i'm a lot older, if not married..and like i want to do things with him, but at the same time, i feel kinda guilty..like iduno i guess i'm a moma's girl ..& everytime he touches me or sumin go a lil but farther..[like yeah ya'll know how i mean], i hear my mother's voice, and i want to but iduno..i'm just confused and scared..what would ya'll do?..don't tell me to only do something if i'm ready and feel comfortable, because i do and i am!..but at the same time i think i should respect myself and my mother and listen to what i've been brought up to do..ya'll know what i mean..hmm ..please help me out here..
xOx ..thanx

you should never do sumthing that u have doubts about... i think u should save ur self for marriage... you'll feel a lot better about urself... just cuz u feel like ur ready now doesnt mean that u might regret it in the future...

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wat types of things that guys do are concidered cute or sweet by girls?

Poems, Flowers, playin wit their hair, huggin em, constantly tellin them that they are beautiful, surprises (jewelry or a surprise visit... etc) stuff like dat

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ive noticed that alotta people have questions on people they believe they are in love with and so on but sum of the people are realli young and i dont think that they notice that being in love and loving sum1 are 2 totally different things....well thats what i think i was just wonderin other opions on bein in love and just lovin sum1

yeah u are rite... a lotta kidds have really big crushes on people and they believe its love & stuff... and like Tinahofcourse said... when u are in love u dont need any1 elses opinion... but theres nothing really that we can say that will change their minds... they just have to learn from their own experience...

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well tomorrow is my school check in and pictures and im undecided on how to wear my hair for my pictures i know its a dumb fuckin question but oh well...anyways my hairs about a lil above my ...boobs or below my shoulders and its nat. wavy/curly sooo how do yall think i should wear my hair...down curly or down straight or up or what should i do with it (its pretty thick too)...oh and if yah need to know i think im wearin this pink v neck top w/ my hoops and i need some opinions!...thanks lol.

if u are wearin hoops i think should leave ur hair curly and put it on in a nice pony tail or bun... whichever suits ur face...

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i want to get something for my boyfriend who i have been going out with for 2 years on june 26th, 2004. i feel like gettin him something or making him something just because ... anyone have any ideas ?

You should get a cute lil box and decorate special stuff and put it in their... like y'allz pictures, poems, dates of firsts, stuff like that... be creative and use glitter... for Valentines day... which is me and my boiZ anniversary... i did that... i got a cute lil red box wit hearts on it and put all kinds of stuff in it...

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everyone says how ther bf does this blah blah and when ther upset he drives over to see t hem and just is perfect...i havent found a guylike that and thats all i want i want to find sum 1 who i can go to w/ no make up , hair a mess and hell still love me bc he loves me for me not looks/body...i wish i found a guy like that...im pretty and ive had alot of bfs but theyve either cheated on me, can never see me or just rnt very close tome like theyll call but wont b very sweet...i want a sweet guy who will love me ive nvr had ne 1 says he loves me and mean it..im startin h.s this yr....how old wer u when u furst had ur furst love?? how did u meet him?? =\

first love doesnt necesarily mean sweet guy who will do anything for u... sumtimes first loves suck... but ur not doing anything wrong... u just havent found a guy that will love u from the inside instead of the outside... i was 16 when i met my one and only... and i was very lucky to meet him @ that age cuz most people dont meet the people they wanna spend the rest of thier lives with untill they are a lot older... just give it sum time and u will meet sum1 who is everything you've ever wanted... Hollah at me on AIM if u wanna chat about diz

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