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a lil long..but sum support and help would be greatly apprec
omg ok this may be confusing..please just try to follow..im 15..my b/f is 16..he's really experienced..unlike me the farthest i go is like touchy feely/kissing..we absolutely love each other and it's obvious we WILL be 2gether for a LONG time..but anyways..he;s extremely touchy feely & like he wants to make - out constantely & i mean i love it, but at the same time im scared, i could SO easily so myself doing things with him that i'd regret..like i love him and all, but i was brought up to respect myself & save myself til i'm a lot older, if not married..and like i want to do things with him, but at the same time, i feel kinda guilty..like iduno i guess i'm a moma's girl ..& everytime he touches me or sumin go a lil but farther..[like yeah ya'll know how i mean], i hear my mother's voice, and i want to but iduno..i'm just confused and scared..what would ya'll do?..don't tell me to only do something if i'm ready and feel comfortable, because i do and i am!..but at the same time i think i should respect myself and my mother and listen to what i've been brought up to do..ya'll know what i mean..hmm ..please help me out here..
xOx ..thanx<3
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tell him that you just don't want to do that yet, you want to wait until later cuz u know u will still be together right? and you just don't want to mess things up... you want to enjoy them as they are and then when you guys are older, and you know each other like the back of ur hand, u can take it further. Tell him you still love him, and make sure he isn't offended by this. That is the most important part!
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you should never do sumthing that u have doubts about... i think u should save ur self for marriage... you'll feel a lot better about urself... just cuz u feel like ur ready now doesnt mean that u might regret it in the future...
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Well... obviously you're not ready and comfortable if you keep having these second thoughts. I think you should first, talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If he doesn't know this, then he's just gonna keep doing it. If HE respects you, he should understand. But just do what you think is right. Have fun and be good, kiddo. :]
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well if he loves u then he would respect you till u guys get marriedand if he cant wait then he just likes your look and want to get u in the bed
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well there is nothing wrong with being scared. you are still young. and it is good that you have respect for yourself. atleast you are not out being a little hoe like most gilrs your age. i see it this way, if you have any little doubt, then wait. wait until you have no doubts. thats when you will know you are ready. and im sure if your bf loves you he will wait til you are completely sure.
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i think you should decide what you want to do before you get into the heat of the moment so that you aren't making decisions when your *tempted* lol and let your bf kno these decisions...don't do anything you may regret ~ if you and ur bf are serious, then they'll be plenty of time for that and it'll mean more when things do happen!
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if u think its wrong in the back of your mind.. dont do it..{{"always go for the gut feeling" ))wait a while anyways.. tell him how u feel and he'll back off if u guys really love eachother.. :-p <3
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