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ok, stupid question.
do you think 14 is too young to get your upper ear peirced? my parents say i'm too young for a peircing like that...i don't know why... but i was just wondering if you think so?
i don't know. just wondering. (link)
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no getting your ear picered at 14 is not to young my mom is a super up tight mom but i pirced my toung my carlige 4 holes at the bottem of my ear and my bellibuton all when i was 12 i pirced all of that by my self and i never took it out even when my mom tried every punishiment to try to make me take the earings out but i never did and she got use to them so my advice is your not to young
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what are good foods to eat when you're on your period?, cus im not too sure..and i wanted to know.thanks.. ill rate.. (link)
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all i can say is don't have any caffine it will give you horrible craps it will hurt so no caffine
i hope this helps
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My mom workshift has changed, so she is no longer able to take me to school. So now I have to ride a bike to school. And I just feel so embarrased. People in the car when they drive by sometimes laugh and point. So I just want to know how does everyone else get to school. You know do you take the bus, ride, walk, bike, etc. (link)
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well you should walk so it's not that bad or just convince your mom that you need a car or talk to your friends see if they can pick you up in the mornings that is what i do
i hope this advice helps
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so my friends having a party and he invited all of my friends, except me..what should i do? should i confront him? or just leave it go?
PS.
it made me mad to know he did this but w/e (link)
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oh ya you DEFINENTLY have to confront him. just talk to him in a really nice way though. tell him how you feel and ask him why he didn't invite you.
can you remember anything that you might've done wrong that would've made him mad or anything? if you can, then that's probably it. but if you haven't, then you have to talk to him about it.
if he tells you what you did to him, just say sorry and hopefully he'll invite you to his party.
hope it works out
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what kind of motivation can help me loose weight??? (link)
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put a picture of yourself on something you look at all the time and right next to that picture put another picture that has a peson who is super fat and write a note underneath saying this could be me if i don't loose wieght
i hope this helps
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ok. so i need to know if this is normal or not.
15/f.
so like when my boyfreind is done fingering me like after he pulls his fingers out theres gross globby white stuff. i know theres obviously suposed to be something there...but its like in globs. and kind of gross. i dont know if this is normal or if something is wrong.
oh. and another question...kind of weird. but what should he do after? like all that stuff is all over his hands...where should he put it?
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well you could have staff infection thats what i had when it came out like that i would get tested to see if you have a staff infection also let him wipe it on his clouths or the ground or on a cloth
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I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how. I also think that her mom is to blame, because her mom calls her ugly and fat. But my friend isn't, shes really pretty, and weights only 102, and her weight is dropping. So i can't tell her mom, because her mom won't help....
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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tell your friend that she is beautiful and try to get guys to ask her out make her feel speacil give her atention i use to cut i still do but not as much cause my boyfriend is helping me calling me beautiful telling me that there is a purpus on this world and me and my boyfriend have a religon that is you kill your self you will go to a blank white room we both are wiccians so yea but tell things that will make her feel good trust she may say it does'nt help but deep down in side it does trust me when i say this i use to be a really bad cutter and i cut but not as bad trust me on this remember what i am telling
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im breaking out on my cheeks and i need to get rid of them or atleast make them smaller and less read overnight so does anyone have any special remidies that they use? thanks in advance! (link)
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well i used to have really bad problems with my face then i tryed st.ives apricot scrub and apricot shower cleanser/mask they really help USE
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I currently can do a mile in a little over 10 minutes. how can i get this down to like 8 minutes or less for track??
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well when you get home you can run a mile everyday. and time yourself eat healthy and keep drinking water lots and lots of water be careful though if you start running you may not be able to start to run a mile right away cause you'll get cramps and pain in diffrent ares .if you start to ach stop you rbody is telling you something hope this helps
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okay well i want to get my nose pierced and im allowed and everything but i was just wondering if it hurts and like how bad if any. thanks :] (link)
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well i take pain so it did not hurt at all but my sister said it hurt after she got it pierced so goodluck.you could have a drink befor you get it done that might ease the pain
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i have heard if u dont have a kid its not good to use a tampon so i was wondering if its ok if i use them i have had sex so i heard its ok.
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yeah its perfectly fine im 13 and ive had my period since i was 12 and ive used tampons ever since then and i don't have any kids.
hope i helped!
xoxo melissa xoxo
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hi mrs. s...i don't really know you or your son, but i go to chs and your advice sounds helpful. I'm not exactly the coolest guy in the world, i'm a gamer, love to mess around with computers, and am more or less a somewhat geek. nevertheless, i managed to fall for a cheerleader. now, i told her a few months ago when she still had a bf that i was in love with her, and we were friends before that so it wasn't that bad. now, she split up with her bf, and whenever i try to talk to her, she avoids me. does she want to avoid me asking her out or something? i don't know what to do. i really love her and can't ever stop thinking about her, but she doesn't seem to want to be on the same planet as me. help?
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Hi! Thanks for giving me a shot at helping you with this! And BTW - I make a very good living with computers and I not only WORK with guys like you - I AM like you! And for the record - COMPUTER PEOPLE/GEEKS ARE AMAZING!!! (haha) So I don't see any reason you can't "get" your cheerleader!
Ok so with THAT said - the hard part about giving advice is that when someone asks me a question, I know I'm getting PART of the information I need in order to be effective with my advice. If you go back and read your question, I think you will see what I'm talking about. Based upon the information you wrote to me - I'd say that YOU don't think she likes you and YOU already are feeling rejected. And my dear, that is at least 1/2 of your REAL problem right now!
No girl, boy, or organism (joke) is attractive when they lack confidence. Since you mentioned computers - look at Bill Gates - he isn't exactly Matthew McConaughey (yummy!) but he could have pretty much anybody he wants. So let's start with building up your confidence...get out a piece of paper and write down at least 10 reasons you would make an amazing bf for this young lady. Read it and RE-read it until YOU realize how lucky she is that she has won your heart. Now - start with her FRIENDS. Trust me - if the FRIENDS don't approve - you don't have a chance. So win their hearts over. Be careful though - never bring her name up to them. Never tell them how much you like her or want her. Just CHARM the friends. They will "sell" you to her without even realizing what they are doing. After you get that little "project" going - start project #2 - work on HER. Never EVER tell her you want her or love her! This is CRITICAL! At your age - most of the "fun" in relationships, is the actual CHASE. If she knows you are a sure thing, you will be "boring" to her. If you don't believe me, look at which guys have the most luck with the ladies...they are usually the "pigs" or the "playas" because these guys just can't be CAUGHT. Girls LOVE that and they want to feel SPECIAL. Girls (and Guys too!) need to feel that the person they end up with makes them the envy of all the other kiddos out there.
Ok. So what do you think? Can you do this? I know it sounds like a game - but in reality, "dating" and "relationships" ARE a game. They are complicated and they are challenging. But isn't that what makes life fun and interesting? So as you go through all this - remember - HAVE FUN!!!!!!!! You have the rest of your life to be married. As frustrating as all this can be - ENJOY it!
Thanks for the question! This one was a lot of fun for me to answer! And keep me posted! I love hearing these types of stories. IM me at SteeleSlavsMom if you want! My away is usualaly up but I'm usually around and recognize that "aim beep." Good Luck! Love, Mrs S
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hey mrs. s,
its been a full year now and im anorexic.
im 99lbs and im tired of being like this.
i started off about 17 lbs heavier, and i go through times when i eat alot - and then when i just starve. so my weight goes up and down. im tired of being like this. im tired of taking diet pills and laxatives. i use to throw up too. until about a month ago i threw up blood. im afraid i need help because this IS a problem, but im scared to tell my parents and i want to loose more weight because im not satisfied with my image.. your a really nice lady and i love you to death. but i need your help.
am i a total nutcase?
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If you are making yourself throw up - you are bulemic. Eating disorders are very common and very serious. I bet that you don't fully realize what you are doing to yourself. You are still growing and you aren't allowing your body to get the nutrition it needs to fully develop. You could also be damaging organs in your body. Many people with eating disorders end up with heart disease.
If that isn't enough to scare you into seeking help - know that you are completely destroying your metabolism. When you finally DO beat this thing, your body will gain so much weight and it will be hard to get it off because you are conditioning your body to be in starvation mode - which means your body is being conservative in burning off calories in order for you to survive. You could be setting yourself up for a lifetime of fighting obesity.
I know you said you are scared to talk to your parents. Frankly, I'm shocked that they can't LOOK at you and see that there is a problem. If you really can't bear to talk to them, go to your couselor at school and tell her what you just told me. She has been trained to help and will be able to get you the help you need AND she can even mediate with your family if you feel that would work best.
Do I know who you are? I can't think of any kiddos that hang out here that appear to have a eating disorder. If you want to im me, I'll be happy to talk to you. I understand about this better than you realize. Im me and I'll explain. I don't want to get into it on this advice page though. If you and I are close, and you feel comfortable, maybe I can talk to your parents for you. Just know that you have several options. You took the first step by asking for help - now follow through with this and get help before you really hurt yourself.
All my love, Mrs S
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Lately i have been "wet" down there more often and its even when im not horny or anything. why is this?? im 13/f (link)
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its just discharge.. its perfectly normal because ur going through puberty. just ask your mom to buy you pantiliners.
good luck!
XOXOmelissaXOXO
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Today I got my period and thank god I didn't go to school. It came down jus like that and I was feeling relly rellly great! Then 2dai I went to gym and when I started working out I felt like something in my stomach was boiling. IT hurts alot alot allllot!!!! Isn't the gym supposed to ease the pain of the periods?''PS...I'm not preggy or ne thing (link)
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its just cramps, you can put a hot water bottle on ur stomach and then they`ll feel better.. ps gym is good during ur period
good luck!
XOXOmelissaXOXO
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Ok i can only seem to find converse extra high (roll downs) on eBay and i dont want to buy off there incase they are fakes....is there any chance anyone knows any shops that sell these?? Please dont suggest random possibilities as shops e.g. Hargreaves do not stock this particular type.
*I rate :)
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well really depends where you live, if you're in the uk, then JD sports definitely do them, i got mines from there. if you're in the US, maybe you could ask your friends maybe?
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I know this guy who's a workaholic. He's confident, witty and articulate.
He's my ex colleague. Although i hardly know him, i seem to be having a huge crush on him. I caught him staring at me.
However, i do find him a little weird.
Although he responds so well to my email on work issues, he doesn't seem to answer yes/no to my little personal questions.
I find him extremely shy..like for eg: when i asked him whether he goes for swimming or not.
What is so illegal about asking that question?
One day, i called him up to chat up with him. He acted like a total stranger and said that he was engaged with his mom.(like he was trying to avoid me)
Why is he acting so weird and so shy when all i want is to be his friend?Plus he's a succesful engineer!
What should i say to him when i call him again without being invasive?
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There are terms in here that are very confusing to me. I'm betting that English is your second language. Did you mean to say that this guy told you he was going to marry his mother? Or did you mean "engaged" as in - he had plans with her? I'm not sure I understand the situation correctly but I'll try and respond.
It sounds like this guy is either not interested or he is very naive. Either way, a relationship with this guy seems like a waste of time to me. But if you really want to try and pursue this "friendship," I'd start out by asking him out for "coffee" or "tea" or lunch. Those types of activities are innocent and avoids uncomfortable situations.
From what you described, it sounds like a lost cause but Good Luck anyway. I hope it works out the way you want it too.
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okay hi! i am not new to this site but i have not been on in a long time. i was just wondering how to put in a tampon? i have been struggling with the decision to use one or not and my mom told me that i should. i am just to scared to ask her how to put it in and everything. can you give me a website or something that can explain this process to me..thank u very much. i look forward to your answers.
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its easier then you think! well first of all you don't want to be nervous when you put it in because your muscles tighten up and its practically impossible to put it in. its really easy if you know where your vagina is. you just prop your foot up on the toilet or something then just push it in slowly until your fingers are touching your body then just push the inner tube in..&& the directions will be in the box too. the easiest tampon to start off with is plastic so i suggest tampax pearl lites or playtex slimfits or tampax compack or something like that. good luck!
xoxoMELISSAxoxo
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okay well tomorrow i want to wear this long jean skirt. its not super long but it goes a little bit past my knees. and its like body fitted.. i dont know if thats the right way to say it.. like its thight not flary. but anyways i dont know what shirt to wear with it? like i know a polo would look stupid & i dont know bout a real fancy top? what would look good with that? thanks in advice (link)
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you can wear a cute cami under a jean jacket that matches the skirt. good luck!
xoxoMELISSAxoxo
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ok let me start off by saying my name is meghan and i am 14 and i am an 8th grader and i feel so embarrassed when my friends talk about their periods well the problem is that i have not started mine yet and i don't know what is wrong with me but i play soccer all year and i have no clue if that has something to do with the issue.well i am 5'0 and 125lbs. and i have "boobs" and i have hair down there and i know that this sounds weird but i will do anything just to get my period.i promised myself when i was younger i would never kiss a boy until i got my period and now i don't think i can wait that long!PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
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EDIT; you can ask your mom when she got hers and your period should come the same age as hers came! (sry about that last edit)
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