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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.




My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.

I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.

I don't really use chat programs much anymore so e-mail would be the best way to get in touch if you wish to chat but if you really need to chat then I am able to do so via Facebook, Yahoo or MSN. I'm a very social person so don't mind anyone wanting to chat. ^_^

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on microsoft word there are a few documents that i want to make password protected so that only i can read them. I know you can do it because i used to do it all the time. But i forgot; does anyone know how?


and ps DONT tell me to put a password on my username on the computer.

Click on TOOLS at the top and then select OPTIONS.

In the box that pops up click on the SECURITY tab and there will be two fiends at the top which you can use to set a password to open and another password to edit the file.

Hope that helps. :]

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how many lbs is 5 kgs???

12lbs would equal roughly 5kgs.

There is a conversion chart at http://homepage.ntlworld.com/sanjo145/weight%20conversion.htm

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help!
I'm 17+.I loove singing! so I'd love to add my songs which i have recorded on the record player on my computer to my page on the hi5 website which is

http://prettylollipop.hi5.com
. the problem is that I dont know how to add the song file .. a code is needed ryt? how to get a code made for my song file so i can attach it? please it would be such great help if u can help me!!!! I'd be ever so greatful!

also i would love to know how to add some other music files i have on my comp in my space in hi5... what is a good website to find codes for songs? (example( codes for avril songs, linkin park songs etc.. cos I'm a freak on them!)


thanx in advance!

Hiya. As far as I know you can't upload your own songs on there unless you register as a band/artist on there (under the music tab there's a link to do that). I had wanted to upload a few mixes I had done on there but was unable to as well.

Youmay want to try contact hi5 directly (the contact us link) to ask them if it is possible but a very good alternative might be to have your track uploaded somewhere (bolt.com would be an ideal place) and then use code they supply to embed the track in your 'about me' section. This will also work just as good.

Hope that was some help. :]

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I'm a quadroplet (I have 3 other sisters that were born at the same time as me) The only difference between us is our eyes my sisters have grey, green, and hazel and I have light blue. I'm mixed with White, Puerto Rican, and Black. I'm about 5'4, carmel complection, wavy hair. So Most people would say that my life is wonderful. BUT I HATE IT! I feel like I don't even have my own identity. I guess it would be easier if I was a twin or triplet but I'm not. Everyday I wake up and I have to look at 3 other girls that have the same face as me! I feel like nobody sees WHO I AM INSIDE, all they care about are my looks and my sisters. I dont like to talk about it because it seems like nobody understand because I don't any other quadroplets. Please help me. I just want to know how I can feel better, etc. And I am very serious about my situation so If you just want to critisize me instead of helping me, please don't bother to answer.

Looking the same as someone else doesn't make you the same at all. As for the part about who you are inside - that's a problem with 99% of the worlds population. They only see what their eyes show them instead of looking deeper at what a person is on the inside.

A lot of people also only care about looks (I have seen that a lot where I live). It's why my general rule to any of my female friends is if a guy only likes you for how you look on the outside then it's a guy not worth bothering with. It's the same for me too. If someone only cares about what I look like on the outside they are someone I don't care to know.

You are who youo make yourself to be so you need to break free from this invisible bond and become yourself. Do what you want to do and what you like. Even if it happens to be the same things as your sisters it still doesn't make you all the same. Most important of all, don't let what other people say get you down or make you feel any less of a unique person. You make who you are, not them.

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my best guy friend's girlfriend just broke up with him. i know he's devestated but i also know that we've both always had feelings for each other. him and his gf broke up on saturday, and we went to a party on monday. while at the party we ended up in my friend's bedroom cleaning up. suddenly he put his hands between my legs and started feeling around. then he started feeling me up and i went along with it and did the same because i really like him. we started to make out when i stopped him because i realized that he still isn't over his ex girlfriend. i know this situation will probably happen again. i wouldn't mind doing things with him because he's my best friend but i dont know if i should let these things happen because i know he still has strong feelings for this other girl. im friends with his ex girlfriend and she says that she doesn't have feelings for him anymore and there is no chance of them getting back together so what should i do?

I think a good idea might be to ease back on anything happening for now. You may end up being nothing but a rebound and his actions a result of that. He may actually like you but if he is devestated about what happen with his ex he will not be thinking right (would him putting his hands between your legs without warning be normal behavour for him?).

I think the best course of action may be to tell him you do like him but that you also want to give him time to recover and get over his ex and what has happen with her. It's a little hard to explain but rest assured I have been through the exact same thing before (where I was the guy who is your friend in your question) and the girl (you) was one of my really good friends.

If you both really have feelings for each other and like each other then waiting will make no difference at all other than clear the air out of his past relationship since him having strong feelings for this other girl (as well as jumping into something so soon after a breakup) may have some bad repercussions.

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There is this boy in my class, he is not really my friend but I don't really know him. Then there are these other two really immature guys who ALWAYS make fun of him. Like they never shutup. Its really annoying to me and Im sure to him too. Like they always talk about how "small" he is and like the boys mom own a restaraunt so the two stupid kids always say "oh that place is disgusting." and then one time we weren;t supposed to do something in class and we had a sub and there was a sign that said "do not use the computers" so the two boys got on them and were messing around and as soon as the sub walked in they were like "What the hell Jimmy why did you take the sign off? and the sub got really mad at him when he really didnt do anything. They are just really mean to him and I feel bad cause noone sticks up for him not even his friends. These mean guys are really popular so you would get like beat up if you ever stood up to them. I just wish i didnt have to sit back and watch someone get stepped all over. Have any advice?

Bullying is a big problem in schools anywhere in the world. I've been through it myself for many years and eventually got tired of sitting back playing the helpless victim. It may also be why I have zero tolerance for anyone who is a bully.

"You're the voice, try and understand it
Make a noise and make it clear
We're not gonna sit in silence
We're not gonna live with fear."
-John Farnham.

I have a lot of respect for you for being the one who doesn't want to sit in silence while this is happening and for that I applaud you. It is a shame that others don't do the same in your class because strength comes in numbers and unity. These bullies and their friends would not have a chance against a school that stands up to bullies, no matter how strong they think they are.

As for what you can do, the best option I think would be to talk to a teacher (someone higher up maybe than just a normal teacher) and explain the situation to them. Tell them what you have seen and that you think it's wrong for it to go on and nothing be done about it. Over here in the UK such things are taken very seriously so I would hope (if you are not in the UK) they are over there too. For now it is at least the best option in my view. Do let us know how it goes and good luck.

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How can I e-mail a song to someone from a CD I own?

If the CD is a disk that is protected by copyright then the action of ripping the CD track to send to a friend would be considered illegal therefore an innapropriate question to ask here. Sorry.

If the CD is not copyright protected my apologies in advance.

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I'm a teenager who has always struggled severely with her weight. I'm 5'2" and I'm usually between 165 and 170 pounds. I have been up to 183 previously though. I just started a new exercise program where I do 20 mins on the elliptical trainer and I go on the treadmill for 40 mins (i run 1/4 a mile and walk 1/4 a mile alternating it until it adds up to 2 milds) and it says that i burned 563 calories the last time I did it. I do this 4 days a week (i have dance classes the other 3 days)

I gained 5 pounds recently and I can't tell if it's from PMS or just because I'm fat.


So how do I tell if it's from PMS or not?


Also- i'm CONSTANTLY hungry. i'm a vegeterian so i'm not going to eat meat or anything.


someone give me some advice and tell me if you think that my exercise program will make me thin.

PMS can make a big difference to a lot of things - weight included. So it may be nothing but that.

I am unsure about what your diet consists of so I cannot give a very detailed response I'm afraid (also your age here may play an important role as well) but the one thing I would like to suggest is that you seek professional assistance with your diet and exercise plan.

You may be able to have a session with a personal trainer who can write up a routine for you to follow as well as make recommendations on a healthy diet (which is vegetarian) which may better be better suited for the results you seek. It was what I had done in the end (I had joined a gym and their trainers there were more than happy to walk me through a routine I could use for weight loss).

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What are some things i can do to turn a guy on?

It depends on the guy really. Every guy is different and every guy finds different things a turn on. One guys turn on may be another guys turn off.

In general though, clothes (what you wear), how much makeup you wear and how you wear it, the way you talk to them, the way you touch them (just generally touching their hand or arm and little things like this) all contribute towards turning a guy on.

If you are referring to the more direct approach like turning a guy on in the bedroom (since you were not specific in your question) then that is something you should not be asking here but instead should be asking your guy since they are the only ones who can be specific and tell you (don't be afraid to ask him). :]

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I have bff's and were super close and we don't like to even talk to people outside of our group (when u give advice I don't need "Grow up who does groups any more") but everyone's seat was changed in our one class and I sit next to one gurl:she okay to me were okay friends one other gurl:we HATE each other I tried being friends but she said no so now I act like a b**** to her one other other gurl: she's friends with the gurl who hates me so now she doesnt like me I just want some peace in my one class so I can just do my work.
With Love,
Massie

Hello Massie.

I don't actually understand what your question is. If you are asking what can you do about the situation so you can just be left alone by the two girls who hate you then maybe ask to be moved to another seat because the two around you are disrupting you while you are trying to work?

I usually tend to just blank people who have a problem with me. It's easy enough - you just pretend they don't exist. :] It may work and you'll be able to get your work done as well.

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Okay to start of me and my boyfriend broke up last night we've been together for almost 2 years and i love him so much but hes such an asshole and i dont want to be with him anymore. I promised my mom i wouldnt get back with him. But he keeps calling. I dont know what to do why is he calling me.

He will probably be calling for the same reason every ex boyfriend calls after being dumped when they did something wrong... to say they are sorry, they won't do it again, they never meant to hurt you and they can't live without you they want you back etc, etc, etc. At least, that's usually what they call about.

If you have decided you really don't want to have anything more to do with him and that is your final decision you may just have to face one of those phone calls and tell him to stop calling because no metter what he has to say he won't get you back.

That said you may even want to hear him out first becuase I could be wrong and he may actually have something else he wants to say. If you dumped him without telling him why then I would say after 2 years he may just deserve to know why he's an asshole just to put his conscience at rest.

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all right, how can i put this?
there is this guy. we'll call him Jon. yeah, jon. anyway jon and i have a history. we went out for 3 months within the first month i met him. like, it instantly clicked with us and we were really happy. but then his friend said jon didnt care about me and i broke up with him. ( i was 13, i didnt know any better than to just do that and not ask him about it) ever since then, i've regretted it. its now 3 years later. and i still have feelings for him. but, i have a boyfriend of 9 months. we'll call him justin. well, justin and i are good. but whenever jon and i talk i feel as if im missing out on soo much. i know jon cares. he has a look just for me. and when we talk its as if justin never exsisted. I know i really don't belong with justin, but he cares about me a lot and i dont want to hurt him. so, sorry if this is wrong. but, in your honest opinion what should i do, please?

In my honest opinion I think you should decide what it is you want. If you feel you are with someone who you don't belong with then you are already hurting him by being in a relationship that means nothing. The longer you stay in that relationship the harder it will be on Justin (and maybe on you as well).

I can't tell you who to choose because that's something you need to do but you do need to make a decision. 9 months is a long time so if you decide to break things off with Justin then it's going to hurt him regardless.

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Does anyone know what the phrase "pop your cherry" means?

The term 'Pop Your Cherry' refers to when the hymen is broken - when a girl looses her virginity through sexual intercourse.

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Okay well me & this guy are best friends and we really love each other a lot {but just as friends not bf gf}. and he told me today that i make him feel like shit. So 2nite on the fone he said its the way i always turn everything good in his life negative, and i think im just telling the truth. We both know that i don't have the will to try for anything, I have never had the will to try, so he won't believe me when I said I'm gonna rly try not to be so negative. Also tonight on the phone i asked him if I was a horrible person for doing this to him and he said I'm not gonna lie and didnt answer... and when he finally did answer he said im rly tired and I need to go to bed. So i dont kno if he was jus ttoo tired or if im a horrible person! Please please help me!!! he's my wprld and idk how to get him to trust that i'll try!!! help this heartache is killing me!!!

I don't think you're a horrible person at all, that was unfair. We all have our issues to deal with, some more than others and not everyone always understands them so he may just not understand. He may have been tired so give him some time to cool down and gather his thoughts. He may not even have meant everything he had said to you.

Try not to worry and just let things simmer down. Give him some time and then try talking to him tomorrow and then tell him how you feel. Tell him what you said in your question - that he is your best friend who you love very much and who means a lot to you. Tell him you do want to try but you need your friends support there to help you along the way.

Just let him calm down then talk to him again. I hope everything gets resolved, I know how much we all need our friends there for support, just hang in there. *hugz*

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Ok so i know when people say "popped her cherry" it means losing your virginity and all. And i know something happens and you bleed and all.
But whats actually happening? Why does it hurt? Can you pop it before hand so you dont have to go thru the embarassment on ur first time?

The hymen is a thin layer of tissue that stretches across the opening of the vagina. I think the best way for you to find out all about the hymen and any associated information would be to have a look at the following web site:

http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm

There is a lot of information there that answers all your questions in a lot of detail. I hope that helps. :]

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is it a really bad idea for my first time with a guy to be casual sex? i'm really hot for him and i'm pretty sure he is for me, but i already know that he doesn't want a relationship (and anyway, it probably wouldn't work out - we don't seem to be able to establish that intimate verbal communication). he's really gentle and sweet, and it's not like we're completely distant or anything - we're friends and he does seem to have some tender feelings for me. but still - we're not in love and he has conveyed to me that he doesn't have feelings for me (he was extremely vague though). my other friend says that casual sex feels really empty, but maybe that's just if you don't know or care about that person at all? i feel like if i weren't a virgin i'd jump his bones the next time we were in a room alone.
i'm 18 and go to college, by the way, and we live in the same student housing facility.

Hi. I don't think casual sex is a bad thing at all if it's what both parties are sure about and won't be a problem however, with you being a virgin as well there are other things to consider as well.

I'm actually uncertain as to how to answer this question. This is something I am usually asked by teenagers who have no idea what they are getting themselves into or are giving into peer pressure or because they were told that being a virgin is 'un-cool'. :-/ You, however, are an adult so what I say to them wouldn't really be relevant in your situation.

Since you know what the score is (that it will be nothing but casual sex and nothing more) I think it really is totally up to you on what it is you wish to do. The only thing I will say however is that I have always said if someone is wanting to give their virginity away they do so after much thought. It may not seem to mean much nowadays but I still think it's something special that should be shared with someone special since it's not something you can go back on and change and will probably be an experience you will carry and remember with you your whole lifetime (it's true what they say, you never forget your first time).

Have a think about it and if youo feel this is what you want to do then by all means go for it - you are old enough to be able to make this decision for yourself. :] However, I will say in the interest of spreading the message of safe sex, if you do decide to go ahead ensure protection is used. You will only be doing yourself a favour.

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Okay so this is for any good runners...how do you run long distance? what do you think about, and how do you overcome the pain in your lungs and chest and the throw-up feeling in your stomach? see because at my school we have to run a little under a mile, and that may not seem hard but the people who lead the runs run pretty fast. and theres this one hill that's just killer... so i was wondering if you had any tips for not stopping and just going the whole way through? like what you think about, breathing, what kind of stride, etc. ANYTHING will help!

Breathing is important - in through the nose and out through the mouth helps a lot but does require some getting used to. Also keep a steady pace. For long distance I have seen many people sprint away at the very beginning only for me to see them struggling a lot further down the line. This is because they burnt a large amount of their energy right at the very start only to be left with nothing but reserves further on.

Try and keep a steady pace and try to concentrate on something else - anything else that will keep you preoccupied. I usually have my MP3 player when I run as it lets me concentrate on music and the musics beats/tempo helps with the run. Another thing I would suggest is practice. If you have time for preporation then run distance timing yourself each time, every day. As you do it more and more you will see you are getting better and better at it and its becoming easier after which you may choose to increase the distance. Hope this was some help. :)

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okay..
so my birthday was last friday and i had a couple friends spend the night...and this guy that ive been talking to for two years, kyle, came to surprise me at one oclock in the morning with his friend alex... now ive been talking to kyle for two years.. but this was the first time we've actually met in person cause he lives 2 hours away...anyways it went pretty well or so i think... they stayed till 4.... and when he got home... he texted me
"Umm so we had fun and we will be back soon...We hope ya'll had fun 2 and will want to hang out again..."
and then i said..."Ya! ya'll are awesome! i had fun!"
and then he said... "ok,cool...well ill ttyl, bye"
and i was like "thanks for coming to see me, goodnight kyle"
and he was like "ur welcome, goodnight"

so i figured he had fun...
so i texted him saturday twice and then he texted back...
and then i texted back but he never did... and on sunday night... i texted him again... but he didn't text me back and today he still hasn't texted me...

okay backing up....
when he came to my house it was awkward at first, but then we became really comfortable...and my friend says that she thought he liked me from the way he looked at me...and he wanted me to give him a tour of the house...and somebody else offered too, but he said he wanted ME to, and there were many times we could have kissed..(but im kinda dating someone else, but i like kyle and my kinda bf knos that)

i guess my question is.. is that.. am i just being a paranoid teenage girl and overanalyzing the whole situation or does it sound like he really does like me...but if he really did like me...why wouldn't he text me back?


thanks...

Sounds like you are overanalyzing the situation. As another reply said, guys thing different to girls. I've been accused of being very flirtatious by a lot of my female friends but truth be told I don't feel that I am, I consider it personally more as being nice to someone. So what may have been signs of him saying he likes you may have been nothing but him being nice to you.

Also, I feel I have to point out teenage guys and girls think very differently. I'm not saying all of them do but a majority from my experience do. For example where a girl may think a guy is really sweet and kind and can be a really great boyfriend a guy may think a girl is very hot and, "I would love to do her." Just an example but I hope you see what I mean. Sometimes the signals may be interpreted as one thing when they are actually something else. In this case I think it's just too early to really say where you stand with him. Maybe give things some time and talk to him and such and you may find out. :) However, that said, ensure you are honest about things with your boyfriend as well. I don't like guys who lead girls on but I also don't appreciate it being the other way around either.

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What kind of things can girls do INdirectly that can make a guy horny? Just Wondering. Like clothe wise, or actions? dancing?

Thankss

As an addition to the reply already posted, not everything will work for all guys. Everyone is different and some guys like what others will not For example with me, I can find certain clothing to be extremely sexy, or the way a girl has her makeup done (especially eye makeup), how she talks -- little indirect things like these work for me but may not for others. If you are trying to get the attention of someone specific you may just have to experiment until you find something that works.

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does a woman's time of/during ovulation increase her sex drive, or want of sex?

This can depend on the woman but from experience (from what I have been told by some women) yes, it does increase sex drive. Do bare in mind however that not all women are the same and so this will not be the same for all women. :)

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