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does he like me? -guys only please...
okay..
so my birthday was last friday and i had a couple friends spend the night...and this guy that ive been talking to for two years, kyle, came to surprise me at one oclock in the morning with his friend alex... now ive been talking to kyle for two years.. but this was the first time we've actually met in person cause he lives 2 hours away...anyways it went pretty well or so i think... they stayed till 4.... and when he got home... he texted me
"Umm so we had fun and we will be back soon...We hope ya'll had fun 2 and will want to hang out again..."
and then i said..."Ya! ya'll are awesome! i had fun!"
and then he said... "ok,cool...well ill ttyl, bye"
and i was like "thanks for coming to see me, goodnight kyle"
and he was like "ur welcome, goodnight"
so i figured he had fun...
so i texted him saturday twice and then he texted back...
and then i texted back but he never did... and on sunday night... i texted him again... but he didn't text me back and today he still hasn't texted me...
okay backing up....
when he came to my house it was awkward at first, but then we became really comfortable...and my friend says that she thought he liked me from the way he looked at me...and he wanted me to give him a tour of the house...and somebody else offered too, but he said he wanted ME to, and there were many times we could have kissed..(but im kinda dating someone else, but i like kyle and my kinda bf knos that)
i guess my question is.. is that.. am i just being a paranoid teenage girl and overanalyzing the whole situation or does it sound like he really does like me...but if he really did like me...why wouldn't he text me back?
thanks...
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its simpel but wut wuz the last message u texted him that he never replyed to
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Sounds like you are overanalyzing the situation. As another reply said, guys thing different to girls. I've been accused of being very flirtatious by a lot of my female friends but truth be told I don't feel that I am, I consider it personally more as being nice to someone. So what may have been signs of him saying he likes you may have been nothing but him being nice to you.
Also, I feel I have to point out teenage guys and girls think very differently. I'm not saying all of them do but a majority from my experience do. For example where a girl may think a guy is really sweet and kind and can be a really great boyfriend a guy may think a girl is very hot and, "I would love to do her." Just an example but I hope you see what I mean. Sometimes the signals may be interpreted as one thing when they are actually something else. In this case I think it's just too early to really say where you stand with him. Maybe give things some time and talk to him and such and you may find out. :) However, that said, ensure you are honest about things with your boyfriend as well. I don't like guys who lead girls on but I also don't appreciate it being the other way around either.
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Hate to say it, but I think your overanalyzing the whole situation. Also, you have to keep in mind that for him, and just about every guy you meet, they don't think the way girls do. Most guys don't feel that if they like a girl, they should go out of their way to call or text. You should be honest with your boyfriend of course. I wouldn't get your hopes up high - keep trying though - but don't expect the best results either. If he hasn't mentioned anything about liking you then I would guess it hasn't crossed his mind as something serious. Hope that helped and good luck.
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