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ex boyfriend.
Okay to start of me and my boyfriend broke up last night we've been together for almost 2 years and i love him so much but hes such an asshole and i dont want to be with him anymore. I promised my mom i wouldnt get back with him. But he keeps calling. I dont know what to do why is he calling me.
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In my opinion, you should break up with this guy. If he's an asshole, then you shouldn't be with him -- he's not treating you as you deserve, and should never settle for anything less.
He's calling (probably) to tell you how sorry he is, it will never happen again, and all the other stuff guys tend to say after we break up with them. But it's not worth going through again, because the same thing that's happening now, is more than likely going to happen again.
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If he's really being an asshole and not being nice to you, just seriously end it. Did he not understand that you guys broke up last night or something? Maybe reiterate some of the points that were made when you broke up. Or just say "i thought we broke up last night." You will probably have to be blunt about it. He has no right to be an asshole to you, or even to keep harrassing you by calling. Finally, if your mom doesn't like him (which i take it is the case) you shouldn't go out with him. She's had a lot more experience than you, and she has your best interest in mind.
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He will probably be calling for the same reason every ex boyfriend calls after being dumped when they did something wrong... to say they are sorry, they won't do it again, they never meant to hurt you and they can't live without you they want you back etc, etc, etc. At least, that's usually what they call about.
If you have decided you really don't want to have anything more to do with him and that is your final decision you may just have to face one of those phone calls and tell him to stop calling because no metter what he has to say he won't get you back.
That said you may even want to hear him out first becuase I could be wrong and he may actually have something else he wants to say. If you dumped him without telling him why then I would say after 2 years he may just deserve to know why he's an asshole just to put his conscience at rest.
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