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I'm to pretty
I'm a quadroplet (I have 3 other sisters that were born at the same time as me) The only difference between us is our eyes my sisters have grey, green, and hazel and I have light blue. I'm mixed with White, Puerto Rican, and Black. I'm about 5'4, carmel complection, wavy hair. So Most people would say that my life is wonderful. BUT I HATE IT! I feel like I don't even have my own identity. I guess it would be easier if I was a twin or triplet but I'm not. Everyday I wake up and I have to look at 3 other girls that have the same face as me! I feel like nobody sees WHO I AM INSIDE, all they care about are my looks and my sisters. I dont like to talk about it because it seems like nobody understand because I don't any other quadroplets. Please help me. I just want to know how I can feel better, etc. And I am very serious about my situation so If you just want to critisize me instead of helping me, please don't bother to answer.
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at least you are not ugly. many people would die to be you!!! second of all be glad your sisters are not ugly because i have a friend that is really pretty and her twin brother is really ugly.(so people bother her all the time) Also i am friends with a lot of twins. Although they might look the same they all have different personalites and even if they are identical they have differences. And if you look closer at each of your sisters im sure you can find tiny differences (other than the eyes). if people are just judging you by the way you look then they are not looking hard enough. But remember DONT try to change to be different!! You are who you are and nothing can change that. Just find that difference between you and your sisters and make it bold!!(you could be more athletic, a better singer, smarter etc.)BUT REMEMBER always be yourself and dont try to change who you are.
hope this helps!!
x3 kaylee
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Looking the same as someone else doesn't make you the same at all. As for the part about who you are inside - that's a problem with 99% of the worlds population. They only see what their eyes show them instead of looking deeper at what a person is on the inside.
A lot of people also only care about looks (I have seen that a lot where I live). It's why my general rule to any of my female friends is if a guy only likes you for how you look on the outside then it's a guy not worth bothering with. It's the same for me too. If someone only cares about what I look like on the outside they are someone I don't care to know.
You are who youo make yourself to be so you need to break free from this invisible bond and become yourself. Do what you want to do and what you like. Even if it happens to be the same things as your sisters it still doesn't make you all the same. Most important of all, don't let what other people say get you down or make you feel any less of a unique person. You make who you are, not them.
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This is gonna sound crazy to you, but I wish I had a twin. I've always wanted a sister, but the only sister I've got is one that I've known my whole life [we're not related].
Anyways, if you wanna put yourself out there & be your own person, then do things that set yourself apart from your sisters. Be a dancer, start writing, do some sports, act, cheerlead, sing. Do anything your sisters don't do. Fuck, skateboard or snowboard if you've got to. And if you live somewhere warm & by the beach, surf! Or, play music. Do anything your sisters don't. There are tons of things you can do to set you apart, but you've gotta be willing.
And try to explain to people that just because you like alike, it doesn't mean you're all the same.
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Try and differentiate yourself from them. Find a completely different style that you like. Ex, if theyre all preppy, go for a more alternative style. Also, (I know this answer always sounds cliche BUT) join clubs and have afterschool activities. Make a lot of friends so that you don't have to spend tooooo mcuh time with them. Eventually, you might become thankful that you have them. Try and find some differences and distance yourself from them a little, and you can become a different person.
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