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i need help. please
all right, how can i put this?
there is this guy. we'll call him Jon. yeah, jon. anyway jon and i have a history. we went out for 3 months within the first month i met him. like, it instantly clicked with us and we were really happy. but then his friend said jon didnt care about me and i broke up with him. ( i was 13, i didnt know any better than to just do that and not ask him about it) ever since then, i've regretted it. its now 3 years later. and i still have feelings for him. but, i have a boyfriend of 9 months. we'll call him justin. well, justin and i are good. but whenever jon and i talk i feel as if im missing out on soo much. i know jon cares. he has a look just for me. and when we talk its as if justin never exsisted. I know i really don't belong with justin, but he cares about me a lot and i dont want to hurt him. so, sorry if this is wrong. but, in your honest opinion what should i do, please?
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In my honest opinion I think you should decide what it is you want. If you feel you are with someone who you don't belong with then you are already hurting him by being in a relationship that means nothing. The longer you stay in that relationship the harder it will be on Justin (and maybe on you as well).
I can't tell you who to choose because that's something you need to do but you do need to make a decision. 9 months is a long time so if you decide to break things off with Justin then it's going to hurt him regardless.
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