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my friend told me that if someone does not puberty fully and if he masturbates, he will not grow for a period of time. My penis dun really have hair yet and i masturbated for a few times.. Will i not grow for a period of time? please tell me (link)
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either your friend is winding you up or your friend has been given some bad advice, masturbating does NOT at all effect the growing of your penis. you and the rest of your body will go through a number of growth spurts until you reach the end of puberty. hope this helps! if not email me on the-one-you-love@hotmail.co.uk xxluceexx
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What are some good sites for cute layouts for myspace. please give links.
no cleate blog
no whateverlife
or myspace pimper..
thanks n advance && cute advanaters things to please (link)
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Hi, I found a really cool site with myspace layouts. Just click on the category you want & some layouts with the code will pop up.
http://www.bigoo.ws/visualizza_cat.php?tipo=575
I haven't used that site before, but I looked at a couple of layouts & they're not bad. :)
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my boyfriend and i had dry sex, though im just the only one having my undies. i just want to ask if i can get pregnant doing dry sex. also, accidentally, mine and his came into contact but it was very quick. there was no penetration. can i get pregnant by that? im really confused and i really dont know what to do. please help me. thank you so much. (link)
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if sperm entered your body, you can get pregnant. otherwise, no
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ok so theres this guy at my school... he is really weird and so i decided to go and talk to him one time cuz he dosent have any friends. and now hes like obsessed with me and he follows me and im afraid he stalks me cuz he knows all the brand names of toiletries i use "by guessing" and all my friends hate him and are like starting to think im weird for hanging out whith him and i dont! gahhh i hate drama......please help! (link)
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If you read back through this column, one thing I say repeatedly is that "People don't like you because of who you are...they like you because of how THEY feel when they are around you."
You just described an excellent example of this.
This poor guy probably feels isolated and lonely and when you took time to show him some kindness, you made him really happy, so it is normal for him to be drawn towards you because of the happiness he felt when he was around you.
I'm really proud of you and I think you did the right thing by being kind to that boy. Imagine if you were one of the poor kids that got labeled "weird" and someone showed you a random act of kindness...you'd probably be drawn to that person too AND you would feel so happy and grateful.
I think you were following what you felt was right in your heart but now it seems you may be letting your friends influence you and turn your heart cold. Don't let them cloud your judgement. I think you did a very good thing and you should feel good about yourself. I think you should set an example to your friends and perhaps you will inspire them to follow your lead and make this world a nicer place.
And for the record, I think it's sweet that this boy noticed little details about things you like. I bet the jocks and jerks in your school are too self-absorbed to notice those things. This boy is going to make an amazing boyfriend and husband some day. And YOU can make such a huge difference in his life. I commend you and hope you continue to show kindness to others. The world would be so much better if others were more like you.
Much Love,
Mrs S
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ok i really wanna go to a dance on Friday but my parents want to go out that night and they never go out together so if i go to the dance they cant go out because of my sister but i really want to go to the dance and i havent been to one all year! what shood i do?!?!?!?! (link)
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You could always ask your grandma or a close relative to watch your sister while you go to the dance. If no one can watch her, you could always invite a group of friends to sleep over your house instead of going to the dance. I'm sure if you explained your situation to your friends, they might agree to stay at your place and have a sleepover, instead of going to the dance. & if you had a sleepover with your friends, you could always just keep your sister in her room, and check on her every once in a while. Hope I helped. If you need any more ideas, ask.
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I was wondering if theres something wrong with me right now.
- For the last two weeks, I've been very agitated, little things push me over the edge and everythings been bothering me. Usually I'm a happy person, and easy going but latley small things like having to repeat myself, running outa something like shampoo, people tapping there pencils, people singing to songs randomly, certain words+songs, and even people who talk to me, I get very angry with them, and just like they bother me, its like, why won't they just stop.
I'm not depressed or anything, its just thats small things are agrivating me alot more then usual in the past few weeks and my friends and family have noticed it too, is something wrong!? (link)
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Haha, yeah when you're about to get your period a lot of people get PMS or moodswings. Many people have to deal with it. If you haven't had your period yet, it could be a sign that you're about to get it. From what you've explained to me, it's signs of moodswings. But if you've already had your period for awhile and it hasn't happened before, then I suggest you see a doctor. I'm 99.9% you're fine, but just to be on the safe side, I'd talk to your doctor.
If you know it has nothing to do with your period, maybe you're not getting enough sleep? A lot of my friends who don't sleep that much get really crabby. Or maybe you've just really been stressed out lately. Have you had a lot of tests and projects to work on in school? Have you been getting into fights with your friends? Or have you been having any problems with family members? If you answered yes to any of those questions, it could just be because you're stressed out. If you're a teenager, teenagers get really stressed out because of boyfriends, gossip, and rumors.
So to wrap it up, your moodswings could either be that your period is coming, you're not getting enough sleep, or you're just really stressed out lately. If you're really scared about it, you can always contact the doctor. I'm almost positive nothing is wrong with you though! :)
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my mom really pisses me off. She always says something and then denies saying it. A few weeks ago she said I could get whatever I wanted for my graduation present, as long as its not too expensive(meaning over about 3$00 or so). I finally found what I want. A digital Camera. I showed her the webpage and now shes saying that she never said I could get a graduation present, when i KNOW she did! it makes me so f*kin mad! (sorry for the language) What should I do? (link)
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I know how you feel. I have the same problem. It sucks doesn't it? Well, there isn't much you can do, because most likely your mom won't quit her habit of denying what she says.
Here are two choices that I think would be the best things to do. You'll have to choose what you think will suit you better.
1. You could sit down with your mom & tell her that you were 100% sure she said that you could get a present. Explain to her that all of your other friends are getting gifts (even if they arn't) so it would only be fair for you to get a little treat. Tell her this is a huge event in your life & it would be nice to be rewarded. Just open up to her, but don't push the topic so much or beg, because that will just make her even more angry.
2. Ask your dad or another family member to get you a present. I'm sure atleast one person in your family would agree to get you a gift, even if it wasn't what you were looking for. But if you feel uncomfortable asking someone to buy you a gift, then purchase it yourself. If you don't have the cash you could always walk dogs, baby sit, or have a bake sale to earn the money.
Maybe your mom is really getting you a present, but she wanted it to be a surprise so she just said she's not getting you one. It may be unlikely but you never know. :)
Hope I helped, & if you want me to explain anything with more detail, just ask away. :)
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what do you all think about guys wearing bras.
one other question why do women always say bras are a pain to wear. I don't see why. (link)
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well, i think it's kinda weird. & if someone ever found out, you could be the laughing stalk of your school. sorry to say. it's up to you but it's not very manly to wear a bra. and also there would be no purpose whatsoever for a guy to wear a bra unless he had huge man boobs. :)
bras get uncomfortable sometimes, especially if your're wearing the wrong size bra (which seems unlikely but does happen alot.) that's why sometimes they can be a pain to wear. :)
any other questions? ask! :)
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how do you french braid? (link)
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http://home.columbus.rr.com/dreamweavers/braids/french.htm
It has detailed intructions & pictures with showing every step! :)
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1.quickest way too get stomache flatter.. and loose the love handles.?
2. i do 300 crunches every night how long do you think it will take to see improvment, i mean i can feel it and all but when will i see it.?
3. i am 5'3 and i weigh 120, how do i loose more weight, healthy but fast? (link)
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1. crunches & sit ups
2. it all depends on the person. its different for everyone & you can't lose much weight unless you have a healthy diet. when i did 300 crunches a night with a healthy diet, i lost 2 pounds a week. its not the same for everyone though.
3. run, crunches and sit ups, DDR, sports, working out, go on a tredmill every day for 1 to 1 and 1/2 hours. eat healthy! eat smaller portions & eats lots of fruits & veggies and NO OR VERY LITTLE JUNK FOOD! and drink lots and lots and LOTS of water to get your metabolism going.
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ok well im punk and i really wanna dress punk and like i wanna start dressing punk not goth but my mom is not really likeing it but o well what are some styles to be punk other the wearing black and having converses cuz i do that already and i rate 5s (link)
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www.hottopic.com
it has a lot of gothic stuff but there's tons of punk stuff too! it has both punk and goth so just look through the punk stuff.
http://www.nzgirl.co.nz/articles/3869
it's titled how to dress punk, so i'm guessing it might help.
anything else.. ask?
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my little cuz has a boyfriend. they have been going out for 4 months do u think that 10 and 12 yr olds should be kissing (link)
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The age doesn't matter, it really depends on the maturity level of the two. But considering that one of them is only 10, then that is kind of young because when you're 10, it is very un-likely that you are fully mature. But really, like I said, it depends on how mature they are.
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every so often after i go pee, it feels like i still have to pee,but i dont.its not exactly a burning feeling, but sort of.what could it be?
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I'm not sure. It might be harmless, but your best bet would to talk to your doctor about it. Like they always say, better safe than sorry. :)
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I don't have caller ID. And this girl Alyssa keeps calling my house and saying stuff about me and being all rude. It really upsets me; she has been doing it on Wednesdays starting last week. She calls me a dirty whore and making fun or me and stuff. I don't know what to do. If it happens again I'm calling the police for harrassment. Is that the right thing to do?
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One word, YES!.
That is your best bet & there's nothing much more I can say. :)
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my friend is doing a 300 cal a day diet and exercises off the other cals she eats. and i know its bad but really i see her loosing weight and i am very jealous and i want to try it. could anyone give me more information on the out come.
ill rate 5's (link)
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Wow! It sounds to me like she has an eating disorder! Seriously, the last thing you want to be is jealous of her!
Your body can't function without around 1,950 calories a day. Okay, and she's like not even eating half of that. That's totally unhealthy and she's most likely going to die!
Your best bet would be to talk to a school guidance counsler or your mom, right now. If you want to save your friend so she can get nursed back to health, then I suggest you tell someone.
Just remember, it's never bad to go on a diet but you have to eat enough so your body gets the nutrients it needs, or it will start eating off your body. I know that sounds gross, but that's how the human body works.
I hope you learn from what your friend's going through and never make that same mistake. You may be jealous of her now, but when she's in the hospital on her death bed, you will be far from jealous my friend.
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My mom won't let me talk to boys on the phone. Whenever my cellphone rings, shes like "Who is it??!?!?" When I actually tell her she rolls her eyes and then asks my 20 questions about the person I'm talking to.
I know like trying to "protect" me, but I have to pretty much "hide" in my room when I talk on the phone.
Help? (link)
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Haha! That's funny because the same thing happened to me with my mom. & This is how I handled it..
I sat down with my mom and told her how I felt. After that, I told her that I wanted to prove to her that I can be trusted so she could ease up on the "parental control". She said if I improved my grades and got straight A's, she would trust me and loosen up.
It depends on your parents. So just have a chat with them & ask them what would make them trust you. It should work. If not, ask me some more questions. K love ya. :)
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is lake water bad for acne? (link)
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I don't think so from my experiences. In the summer I'm in the lake 24/7 and I have never gotten acne from it. I've never heard of that little myth before. Well, back to your question. It may be different for other people, but I swim in lakes alot and it hasn't caused me any acne problems. You should be fine.
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i am goin to be in a new school this year and i wanna get along w/ everyone and have lotsa friends. but there are alot a bullies in school and i don't wanna pick a fight ever.is there any way i cud get along w/ anybody--even bullies??? i wud appreciate help...tnx (link)
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Well, if a bully tries to pick a fight with you, just ignore them and walk away. If you try to fight back, you will just be making more trouble for yourself. So just don't bother with the bullies and stay away, and they won't bother with you. Bullies like to pick on kids that they know will hate it but if you act like you could care less, they won't even bother looking at you. Best of luck. -Carmen.
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hey. i'm from guam and like there's this guy who likes me and i like him back, so we went out for a few months and then we broke up. because he still had feelings for his old girlfriend who dumped him. is it ok if i can still like him and think about him and still wanna go out with him? (link)
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Of course it's okay! Just don't try to break up him and his new girlfriend, because that could be trouble. And don't act like a slut around him either. :)
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Okay,
This is for anyone who has done Color Guard. I'm going to join and I really want to but I'm not sure what will be required of me. You don't have to be experienced in my High Schools program but I want to know what will be the base of what Color Guard is. And what will be expected. (link)
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Trying out for Color Guard, for some reason, is nerve racking for most people. Don't worry, the other people don't know anything either. You'll be taught EVERYTHING. You're expected to look up as if at a crowd, smile big, smile when you make a mistake and keep going. As long as you do the best you can, you'll be doing what they expect.
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