i am goin to be in a new school this year and i wanna get along w/ everyone and have lotsa friends. but there are alot a bullies in school and i don't wanna pick a fight ever.is there any way i cud get along w/ anybody--even bullies??? i wud appreciate help...tnx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? xxsima answered Friday June 30 2006, 12:38 pm: Well, you have to realize that everybody can't like you, and everybody can't be your friend. Just remember not to start fights. Don't spread rumors behind anyone's back. If you start rumors, they lead to more rumors from the other person, and then they get people to be mad at you, just because they say so, and then more people will dislike you. Don't cause any drama. Stay cool, and friendly.
Blondebarbie answered Saturday May 13 2006, 8:55 pm: Dear new school,
I know it's hard starting a new school, where you don't know anyone. Believe me, i've been there, done that. All you have to do is put yourself out there, and don't be nervous. BE yourself. That's all there is to it.
EriksBallerina answered Monday May 8 2006, 7:57 pm: I would recommend that you just try to treat everyone the way you would want to be treated. I'm not saying that they will treat you that way, but it should help you get along with most people. Also, try not to talk about anyone behind their backs, as that can usually lead to trouble. Just talk to people who seem nice, smile,(I know it sounds stupid but it works) and be yourself. Good luck! I hope this helps. :) [ EriksBallerina's advice column | Ask EriksBallerina A Question ]
xstephh34x answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 3:28 pm: There really is not a way that someone can get along with EVERYYONE at their school. My advice is to stay out of the drama and stay on the people's good sides. [ xstephh34x's advice column | Ask xstephh34x A Question ]
xokaylanicoleox answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 11:37 am: I guess the only advice I can give is: Be nice to everyone, but don't let anyone push you around. Make sure people know that you aren't going to just sit there and listen to them make fun of you and such. Say something back, just don't be too harsh unless it's something you have to do. Most times, as long as you are nice to people, they won't make fun of you or be mean to you. Just make sure you choose the right friends .. the friends that will stick up for you in case those kind've things happen. Lastly, be outgoing, try to talk to everyone .. just strike up a conversation. Chances are .. the most outgoing people in the class are going to strike up conversations with you and ask you where you're from and why you moved .. just keep the conversation moving and talk to them the next day. Hope I helped!
thats.smelly.good answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 9:58 am: you can try to be nice to everyone. bevery interesting always happy. you might not be able to get along with everyone but it's worth a try. In the circus we get along with everyonene and everything. because we have to. our job
is to make people laugh. thats why everyone loves
us.
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*Kate* answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 9:15 am: Well it is almost impossible for anyone to get along with everyone, so don't worry about being friends with everyone you meet. To avoid geting into fights, try not to put yourself into situtations where a fight could start.If someone says something or tries to start a fight just walk away. Just be friendly and open to everyone you meet and it should be easy for you to make new friends. [ *Kate*'s advice column | Ask *Kate* A Question ]
orphans answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 7:26 am: Well, if a bully tries to pick a fight with you, just ignore them and walk away. If you try to fight back, you will just be making more trouble for yourself. So just don't bother with the bullies and stay away, and they won't bother with you. Bullies like to pick on kids that they know will hate it but if you act like you could care less, they won't even bother looking at you. Best of luck. -Carmen. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
Melody_sss answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 5:28 am: Just be yourself. The only way you will "pick a fight" is if your looking for it. Try to stay out of anyones problems/fights, and you will be fine. Dont get involved in things that arent you business and you will earn respect and trust off other people. Always be a good friend. You wont get picked on if you havent done anything to deserve it. You will be fine. [ Melody_sss's advice column | Ask Melody_sss A Question ]
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