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I know this may seem stupid. but i cannot stand freaking "popular" people. i have an advice collumn, and everyday i have a different message in my inbox from them like "stop being jelous of the popular people" or "why dont you wear preppy clothes and dress like everyone else? you'll never be popular if you do." and i sware im not jealous, and i wear all the same clothes they do. why do they think there the best? there really not that great. and i know im not a loser, so why do they call me one? they are all extremely mean, and full of themsleves. i dont want to be friends with them, but is there any way i can make them stop this? i really cant take it anymore and its really lowering my self esteem. pleaes i need help as soon as i can get it! thank you so so much!
love always. (link)
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Most people would say ignore it but like a sticky damn key on a keybord sometimes it just won't go away and you will have to learn to have the cofidence to say fuck you or fuck off or bite-me! anyways hope i helped...bye lovez ya
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Hi, I am recently 15 years old and have been suddenly feeling selfconcious about my body. I am about 5'6'' 5'7'' ish and i weigh 130 pounds or so. Is this considered over weight? I exercise constantly (cheer practice, running, abs, etc) but im still terrified to get cellulite ( back of my thigh area) Is there any way to prevent cellulite? and is it true once you have it you cant get rid of it? also what are some exercises that slim up you abs(under belly button) and the back off your thighs. (right under your butt) any answers are appreciated =)
p.s. i am in no way anorexic/belimic just for the record. (link)
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no i personally think its a LITTLe overweight (like TWo pounds -- nothing to worry about) but the thing is, if you are muscular, then you are VERY THIN> MUSCLES WEIGHS ALOOOOT! so yea i dont really know what cellulite is, but i would say your underweight in a positive way (not too underweight) if you are strong
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15/f and hes 16 ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and we've talked about having sex in like a year and a half but the thing is i want to but im so scared that i think ill chicken out..i heard that it hurts alot and that you bleed alot..that true? also im so self concisous about him seeing my body like how do i get over it? i mostly scared because of the pain but i mean what do i think about or do the first time so it doesnt hurt that much?
Thanks so much xoxo me (link)
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Sex is supposed to be a beautiful and pleasurable thing. If you're having doubts about it, you probably shouldn't do it. Plus, you'll be more tense and it won't feel good if you're tense. Some girls bleed and some don't. It's not a lot of blood either. Listen to your heart. :)
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does anyone know why my itunes will not open? i have tried reinstalling it but it will not work so any tips? (link)
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ok so first, off, reboot or restart your computer, or both. normally, itunes always takes a pretty long time to start up, so this means that only click it once. if you click too much, it wont work. also, try clicking from the start menu, if not already
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im going to the movies with my boyfriend next weekend.. and i want to make a good impression because we dont see eachother in person that much. i'm 13, 5`2 blue eyes and long light brown hair. i`m about 105 pounds. i need some REALLY cute outfits for the movies. i know you're just going to say that it's just the movies and it doesn't matter what i look like, but i really want to look nice cause thats just how i roll. i like hollister, a&f american eagle etc. i need full outfits with the colors that will look good on me. if you give me atleast 3 really good whole outfits, automatic 5. thanks. (link)
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well, its true it doesnt matter what your wearing DURING the movies, but after words is like so important! since its just the movies, definantly go with jeans. jeans or a mini skirt, but id say jeans, cuz i always get cold in theatres. then, you can either wear chucks(jeans only) if you have them, or flipflops. you dont want to like get realy into it, so for your shirt make it a casual-flirty shirt. ex-halters, they may be a little overdressing, whereas a hollistershirt is good.
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so last night i tried to put my first tampon in. i got it to go in alright but once it was in i started to get dizzy and stuff so i took it out then like 2 minutes later i puked..is that normal? thanksss! (link)
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you should pronbably see a doctor or ask your mom, but it might be the mentallity of it: you though it was a bigger deal than it actually is, and so the thought of it is bad. for example, i faint when i see blood, but if i get like a cut and im bleeding, it doesnt bother me as much.
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I'm 13/f and have the most "gorgeous" bedroom. or so my mother says. it's all matchy matchy and looks like it could be in one of those design magazines, because my mom is an interior designer. but i don't like it, its too stuffy! What are some easy ways to update my room? i want it to be like a teen chill out place. and where can i get these things? thanx! xoxo alicia (link)
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well you could take out what ever curtins and put smaller ones...take down a few posters take off a few blankets/pillows,andput some bean bags!
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pleeease help! I have a guy friend that is always up on me i use to like him but i like someone else now, so he always flirts with me and has his arm around me and holding me and i dont want to tell him NO GET OFF ME! caus i still wanna be his friend, just not like a couple, what can i do to kinda give him the idea i dont want a boyfriend and what can i say to make him stop putting his hands around me other then no or get off me or your making me uncomfotalble, they all sound so stupid (link)
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you should say I don't think I'm ready for this kind of relationship with you right now...I really want to still be friends!
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I am in anal sex since few months and feeling quit normal. we do this atleast three four times a week.Is there any health risk involve in anal sex? Pls. reply. (link)
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yea, you could get an std. but if your partner does have an std, than it is completely fine. (you CANT get pregnant :)
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I'm afraid of getting my period at school and I have decided to use tampons and I think I figured out how to use them/insert them but what it I get mine at school?I tryed wearing a pad of all sizes and they all feel like dipers but what if I can't get my tampon on right?ahhhhhhhh help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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you should put wadded up tishue in ur panties 4 the day!
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my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and my Granny is 88,but I don't think that is an excuse for her telling me that iam to fat for my own good,and she talks really bad about my mom and my sisters to.she fusses about every little think like if there's a wrinkle in my blanket when I make my bed she'll yell at me and if I actually don't fold my dirty clothes she'll yell at me and she tries to tell my Aunt what to do al the time and she is almost 68 years old and it is her house and when my cousin was folding clothes she stood right over her to make she she did everything just right,and on my 17th b-day she told me that my mom dosn't care about me and I don't love her the way I use to when I know that is not true at all.sometimes I feel she dosn't love me anymore.All my family tells me to just ignore her and everything will be alright,but i've been ignoring her for almost 5 years ever since my dad her son died and it's not working.Iam afraid to tell my mom becouse she might not let me go over there any more and I still love her and I want to see her as much as I possibbly can before she dies becouse I know she probally dosn't have much more time to live what should I do?please help. (link)
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you have to the the dreaded...the unthinkably...the horibble...mature chat!:o
thats rite you have to tell her...I DO NOT like when you insult me and put me down.tell her I under stand you are getting used to not having dad but..you can't take it out on everyone else!
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Kayy. So this is deffinently veryy embarressing but I can't really talk to anyone about it so here it goes.
I'm 4'11 and a half, 82ish pounds, and a 32bra. I shave my legs. Basically, I'm going through puberty. A lot of my friends who have smaller boobs than me have already had their period? Am I late or are they early? [[it's more than one.]] Also, I've been getting discharge for a while now. But I get so much! I change my underware twice a day! Will I be getting my period soon? I'm sooo confused! Sorry for the nastyness. (link)
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I'm going thro the same thing, I think once the discharge strts getting heavier...you get ur period and you seem to be a normal bloomer...also breast size is only a small role in periods...don't be worryed you are normal!
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Ok. I have long brown hair and I always shower and keep clean. But I always wear my hair down so I think that affects my neck. I always notice I have acne on it so im affraid that when I HAVE to wear my hair up, it will all show. what do I do to stop that acne? (link)
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A really good sulotion(because this is probably caused by swear/natuural skin oils) Oxy cleansing pads...they work great on my face,back and neck!
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Hey,
my friends boyfriend says he doesn't want their braces to stick together when they kiss. Does that actaully happen? or is it just like a myth or something? Please I really need to know! Thank you! xoxo-mar (link)
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yes this can defenatly happen(trust me) make sure there are no little hanging bits and if there are puch them back on tightly!
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last saturday (may 13th)me and my boyfriend were having sex and the condom broke. he noticed it a few minutes after it had broken but he hadnt cummed yet. there was still precum though and im worried i might be pregnant. ive been showing all the signs. having to go to the bathroom a lot, severe mood changes, eating a lot more, and ive been having dreams everynight since then. like sex dreams and dreams where im pregnant. im suppose to be getting my period around the 27th so could it just be PMS or should i get a test if my period is late? i rate 5's (link)
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wait...if you miss your period 2 times go get a home preagnancy test...then go to a few doctors!
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well my family isnt the richest in the world but im ok with that. i mean we aren't poor at all, it's just that i live in a town where probably 75 percent of the people there are really wealthy. everyone here wheres all these really cute clothes and i'm like where did you get those, and their like (this isnt the real name of the store) store b. well i go there and it's like a expensive store and most people here can afford to buy their wardrobe here. my parents said they will buy me something there once in a while but not always. i really want to find out how i can somehow make money to buy these cute clothes cause i love literally everything in there but i can't buy alot of stuff there. i dont want to get stuff there cause everyone else does but because i love the clothes!! (link)
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Theres always the work ethic if you are like 14 go to a fast food place or something but is ur too young 4 that go door to door (places your friends don't live) and ask if they need any extra help(e.g.mow the lawn,weed the garden,water the plants,walk the dog,clean the hamstar cage,clean the garage ext.)
=) hope I helped
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I'm 14/f, 5'4", and about 103 lbs. I'm goign to this pool party on June 8th. I pretty much am ok with my body, but I want to make my stomach a little flatter (no so much my flatter, just get rid of the extra chubbieness). I also really want to get rid of the flappiness/sagginess on my butt. It's aroudn the bottom of my butt, where the creese is. It really bothers me and I want it to look better if not go away. What exercises can I do, and what can I eat to help them! I have about 17 days left at the most. Thanks, I'll rate! (link)
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Use silacone cups and if you are wearing a 1 peice...wear a cotton like elastic on ur stomach.
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What's the difference between being 'High' and being 'Stoned'? (link)
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I think (remind you think) being high is seeing fake crap and halosanating and being stoned is like taking drugs to pass out or something
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hey! everyone has always told me that i am "an old-time classic beauty" "the kind every artist in the 1800's wanted to paint, the talk of the town!" and that i don't fit in to this era. i have the darkest hair with ringlets, full red lips, the longest eye lashes, and thick eyebrows. I guess its a compliment but i don't like the way i look. i want to be beautiful NOW and be considered hot NOW. I look at girls like Jessica Simpson and stuff and it makes me feel so bad about myself. how can i raise my self-image, look more modern, stop looking like a "young elizabeth taylor" or "an 1800's beauty?"
thanks in advance! (link)
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If you like you stick with it if not here are a few make-over tips from a pro
-wax/pluck eyebrows if allowed
-dye your hair blonde/red/black or w.e.
-get hair cut short(no one in the 1800 had that look)
-really make your self look moden with your cloths!
-if u have hips/a figure...USE IT AND USE IT WELL!
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I'm gonna make this short and simple. Hopefully the answer is simple too. Is it possible to get pregnant from being fingered if the guy has cum(even dried) on his hands/fingers?
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If the cum (ejaculation) was wet yes,it not no.
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