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Guys
pleeease help! I have a guy friend that is always up on me i use to like him but i like someone else now, so he always flirts with me and has his arm around me and holding me and i dont want to tell him NO GET OFF ME! caus i still wanna be his friend, just not like a couple, what can i do to kinda give him the idea i dont want a boyfriend and what can i say to make him stop putting his hands around me other then no or get off me or your making me uncomfotalble, they all sound so stupid
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
just tell him that you like him as a friend and you don't want him to touch you anymore. or just say that he is just your
friend. and just get that in his mind until he stops doeing what he's doing.
i hope i helped
thats.smelly.good
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give your friend hints like, "oooo i met this HOT boy and i REALLY like him," it might hurt him... or you could.. say, "i just want to be friends,"
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you should say I don't think I'm ready for this kind of relationship with you right now...I really want to still be friends!
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talk to him about a boy you like..
he'll soon get the idea.
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basically, if you don't say something to this guy then you will be leading him on, and then he will be more hurt when you tell him you don't want him.
Have a sit down with him and tell him that you don't want a boyfriend, nor anyone to think that you have one! Don't forget to mention that you thimkl hes a great guy and that you don't want this to ruin your friendship!!
Dannii n Owen xx
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True, they do sound stupid, but often they do work. Believe me. Tell the right guy, "No means no" It'll hit hard to his heart. Although if none of that crap they tell you in school about how to handle a problem like this works then go with the "NO GET OFF OF ME!"
-BlackBatman-
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hey!! alright this guy likes you, and he needs to realize that you don't like him ASAP because you don't want to lead him on and hurt him even more in the end. i can see why it bothers you when he puts his arms around you and stuff, and honestly there isn't much you can do other than tell him that you don't want him to do it or just take his arms off of you. you don't have to be harsh about it... just playfully pull away when he does it. after a couple of times, he will deffinitely get the hint!
as far as letting him know that you don't like him... you don't have to tell him that straight up, but what you CAN do is bring up the fact that you like this other guy to him or to a group of people while you guys are talking. you can just say something like "___ is so cute!" or "i really like ___ a lot"... something like that! that way he will know that there is someone you are interested in, and it is not him. at first he might be hurt and even ignore you for a bit, but that's just because he is trying to get over you! if that is the case, let him go for a little bit, and once he is healed you guys can be friends again! :) let me know if you need more help! good luck!
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