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Hi, I'm Dannii & I'm Owen and as of today (MAY 15 2006) We're back! & we're waiting to help you. So no matter what the problem or sitch we'll sort you out. Once again.... THE WORLD - WE'RE LISTENING! Look forward to hearing from you soon. Owen n Dannii xx

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i have a wart on my leg. i have heard that putting duct tape on it helps or something. is this true? by the way, i am 15/f and i already have a doctor's appointment for this so don't tell me to go to the doctor.

horse tail hair wrapped round as tight as it will go. it cuts the circulation off and it falls off ... its proven ... ny me!!

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so my friend hates her life and her mom and stuff and idk what to do for her. it seems like theres nothing i can do, you know? so what should i do to kinda get her to appreciate her home-life more, and make her feel better about herself. because shes so pretty and shes always like "i dont think im pretty and i cant get guys" and stuff like that...so yeah, 5's for any help? thanks.

i know that this must be hard for you as it seems that you really care for your friend!
I have a friend and she dosen't get on with her mom to the point where her mam is telling her she is 'fat' (shes a size 6) and ugly (she was voted pretteyest girl in our cless)and it really gets her down.
As i know that there is nothing really i can do as i can't change how her mom acts i find that the best thng to do when she is unhappy or upset is just to be there for her and reassure her ... Hope that heLPS
Dannii x

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My hamster died.:( I had him for like 2 years. Thats not the point though. I was thinking about gettting another animal but I dont know what. Cats,dogs,rabbits and any reptiles are just not going to work...should I just get another hamster but that seems like I am just replacing it. Got any suggestions?I love ferrets but I don't have the money for them.
I rate 5!!!!

Thanks
ps this isn't Britt but she knows I am using it.

why don't you start having horse riding lessons ... you cou;d help out at local farms and stables ...
if thats not an option why don't you get chipmunks ... there cheap, cute, playful and active!! there nt much bigger than a hamster ne ways!!!
Dannii x

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if you have sex like less than a week before your period and become pregant will you still have your period for that month?

No you don't have it ... but it isn't impossivle for you to still have tour period while your pergnant!

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Well, i told the guy that i like, well, for you readers out there, that have allready read the others, then you will probably get this more!
Well, i told him that i loved him, because we have become pretty close and i have known him for like 12 years, but we have been talking so ya!
The thing is that i was trying to get him to stay, because he was moving today, so i left a message last night telling him, and then told him today, but he didnt get the message, so by the time that i had told him, he had allready been off, but he did say "you to," well, at least i think that he was replying to me on that, because after i told him, we started on another subject, then out of the blue, he said you to, so ya!

Hev
PS: I miss him allready and it has onle been like 24 hors, wow!

i think that you are being a little o.t.t.
If you two are in love then why haven;'t you got together yet??
Anyway ... you could go up and see him as often as possible and spend holidays and stuff at his house!?!
Owen

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Ok, so I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have together for a good solid 7 months. We're sexually active, but trust me when I say that our relationship is about more than just sex. We respect eachother and this is the first relationship I've had that really means something to me. I'm not positive if I'm 'in love' but it sure comes close.
So, we've had sex maybe 8 or 10 times since we lost our virginity to each other a couple months ago. At first, I was totally "I'm ALWAYS going to use protection!" but we've gone a few times without (but we've made SURE to pull out). I know that that there are still SO many risks but I thought we were being careful. Well the more I've been thinking about it (and it's been increasing lately) the more I think I might be pregnant! The thought alone totally freaks me out!! I'm adopted and my birthmother had her first child at age 13 and me at 15 and I've always promised to myself not to follow in her footsteps. I've been researching everything online and I havn't had any of the 'earliest signs of pregnancy' EXCEPT for my missed period which was supposed to come yesterday but I've had missed/late periods before. Apart from that I havn't been bloated or tender anywhere and I don't know if it's just paranoia, but my stomache's been looking a little "poochy" lately. The last time we had unprotected sex was maybe 2-3 weeks ago but again, he pulled out wayy before he came.
I'M FREAKING OUT, PLEASE HELP!!
-kbabe

theres still a possibility of you being pergnant, because before he cums, he leaks 'pre cum' out which is basically the same thing!!
Your missed period may as you say be normal for you, but it may also be because you are stressed or worrying about it ... if your getting up everyday and thinking i have to come on today or im pregnant then you won't because you are stressing yourself over it!!!!
also your stomache could be because your worrying!!
As i have experianced this brfore, i would advise that you try not to worry yourself over it, wait maybe a week or to and if you still havn't come onto your period then go and see a doctor for a pregnancy test!!
Good luck
Dannii x

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How long can you las to take the next day pill?

up to 3 days if your on about the morning after pill ... but the earlier ou take it the more effective it is!!
Owen xx

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Hello there. I'm do to horseback riding shows about once a month and get quite a few ribbons from it. I also get trophies (like cups and stuff) for first place, when I get it. Does anyone have any creative ides on where to put my ribbons and trophies?

P.S. I have my ribbons hung on my windows around my room, but just two shows almost fill it up and the top of my bolluntin board is filled with ribbons from my old barn with my old horses.

ah ... i ahve this problem too!!! i have all of mine in a room with my trophies ... but spell out each of my horses names eg:
i have a mare called sophie and all the rosettes i have won from her spell out her nme, there is a framed photo of her underneath her name and the trophies go smallest (in the middle) to biggest(at the ends) on shelves underneath all that ... as its only one room in the house it looks really good and creative as i have my tack in there aswell ... hope this helps!!
Dannii x

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I was wondering if anyone can give me advice on activities to do with my 8 year old daughter this summer. All she seems interested in is watching TV or playing with her cousin, who is 10. We read together at night but usually she falls asleep right away. I've tried to get her interested in cooking, but I'm not much of a cook myself. Can anyone give me some ideas?

as i have horses this is my suggestion .... if she likes animals, it may be a good idea for the both of you to go for some riding lessons ... at the end of the day you can both review the day and have some fun at the ame time!!
Dannii n owen xx

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My parents own a female Beagle and they have noticed that she has been chewing on her ears. They are concerned, I told them to take her to the vet because she might have ear mites. Is this common for Beagles to chew on thier ears? Any feedback would be great.

a while ago my dod had really bad ear mites, he sat and chewed, scratched, rubbed, anything he did to relecave the itching really. i suggest that you tell ur parents to take the dog to the vet for a check, if shes clear, she might just be really bored, so some chew toys might be a good idea!!
Dannii x

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Should i be worried if the boy i like called another girl that likes him .. But my friend says that they only talked on the phone for 2 minutes. should i worry about it? or wonder whats goin on with them?

xox - brandy marie

woah hold on a sec ... are you going out with him ??? coz if you arn;'t then its not really your place to go off on one about his private phone calls.... also, friends come before lads so if she says she only spoke to him fir 2 mins, then believe her!!!
Dannii & owen xx

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13/f

Me and my mom have always had this sort of best-friend sort of relationship instead of a mother-daughter relationship. I didn't tell her everything, but I did tell her enough and wasn't embrassed infront of my friends with her. Infact, I kind of like to "show her off." She's really funny and basically acts like someone my age would act - only 43 and graying hair. But right now everything sort of changed.

A few weeks ago my mom went out on a date (My dad and her are divorced) and she said she would be out a few hours. Dinner, a movie, the basics. So figured it would be a perfect time to.. well, masturbate, I suppose. Only apparantly the date didn't last as long as she expected, and I didn't hear her open the door. And she kind of heard me, since I tend to get kind of loud. I have no idea what she was thinking, I just know that she opened the door to my room and saw me. Then shut the door and didn't talk to me for the rest of the night. After I got dressed I went and found her in the kitchen, and told her that that had been a little awkward, but she didn't say anything or do anything. She just kind of ignored me. And every since then it's been kind of weird, especially since my mom is one of those pre-martial-sex-and-I'm-sending-you-to-a-convent type of people. She's only had sex once, and that was when she "planned" to have me.

Now, instead of feeling all laid back when I'm around her, I keep getting this feeling like she's giving me a dirty look, like she thinks I'm some kind of skank. And actually, I know that she thinks that, because me, being the curious one, listened in on her phone call with her best friend, who my mom told that I was turning into some kind of slut ever since I started going out with my boyfriend, which really isn't true, since I was doing this long before I started going out with him.

I just don't really know how to make things cool between us again. Or how to break the ice so I don't feel like I'm being watched ever second of every day because my mom believes that I'm doing "dirty things."

if your mom is being this immiture then ignore her back!! she has to accept that you are growing up and that she can't controll you forever!! Her beliefs and yours may not be the same, and as far as what she is saying about you to her friend is bang out of order because she is tellinbg everybody what is going on behind closed doors!!
Dannii n owen x

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How do guys show that they like a girl alot?!

from BITTER experiance, guys show they like a girl by totally ignoring her and trying to make her jelous of her ... but you do get the occasional few who are honest and upfront and say ' hey i like you, will ya go out with me?'
Dannii x

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okay well i weigh around 117 pounds and im about, 5'4. I am turning 15 this year. I am convinced that im fat, i hate myself for it too, i watch what i eat 24/7 and even though people tell me im not, i still feel that i am. I am probley one of the most self concious people. so i guess im asking about what i should weigh

i know what you mean, i am very self concious and i hate being in anything skimpy or tight!!
I weigh 9 1/2 stone and do alot of exersizing ( i have horses) but aslong as ur exersizing it dusnt matyer.
Remember, if anybody critisises you about your weight don't take it to heart. just tell them to stick there comments where the sun don't shine!
Dannii x

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i have this vibrating massaging thing and i put it down there and it feels wicked good.. and like within a minute i feel like REALLY good but it lasts litterally 5 seconds.. is that an orgasm and is this masturbating? also one more thing, by doing that is that bad? like would it affect my eggs in the ovaries and stuff from the vibration of the massager?

an orgasm is basically when ur at the height of your pleasure so lasting 5 seconds is normal!
yes it is masturbating and no it wont affect you ... masturbating is healthy and a normal part of exploring your body
Dannii & Owen xx

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pleeease help! I have a guy friend that is always up on me i use to like him but i like someone else now, so he always flirts with me and has his arm around me and holding me and i dont want to tell him NO GET OFF ME! caus i still wanna be his friend, just not like a couple, what can i do to kinda give him the idea i dont want a boyfriend and what can i say to make him stop putting his hands around me other then no or get off me or your making me uncomfotalble, they all sound so stupid

basically, if you don't say something to this guy then you will be leading him on, and then he will be more hurt when you tell him you don't want him.
Have a sit down with him and tell him that you don't want a boyfriend, nor anyone to think that you have one! Don't forget to mention that you thimkl hes a great guy and that you don't want this to ruin your friendship!!
Dannii n Owen xx

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Can anyone tell me the price range of a hamster?

Hehe, thanks. =]

in england about £2.50 to £10.00

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Red cherry on his chest what do i do ?What could it be?

my dog had on of these (also a boxer) it was a small cyst , but it was nothing to worry about ... just take him to the vets to have it removed!!
Dannii x

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ok my dad wasnt home so i snuck a reeses peanut butter cup, even though i wasnt supposed to have one and i dropped it and my dog ate it...is he going to die? please help me i am so scared right now...hes a wire fox terrior, 1 year old and weighs about 18-20 pounds if that helps...please help me danielle

er,m no ... not off one!!
owen

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i just wanted to know if it was safe to feed budgies black eyed beans, and kidney beans???

yeh, aslong as ur not over loading it with them ... my horse eats ham and pickel sandwitches and shes 23 and has done for a while. shes f9 and it hasnt affected her so ... go ahead
Owen

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