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please help!
my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and my Granny is 88,but I don't think that is an excuse for her telling me that iam to fat for my own good,and she talks really bad about my mom and my sisters to.she fusses about every little think like if there's a wrinkle in my blanket when I make my bed she'll yell at me and if I actually don't fold my dirty clothes she'll yell at me and she tries to tell my Aunt what to do al the time and she is almost 68 years old and it is her house and when my cousin was folding clothes she stood right over her to make she she did everything just right,and on my 17th b-day she told me that my mom dosn't care about me and I don't love her the way I use to when I know that is not true at all.sometimes I feel she dosn't love me anymore.All my family tells me to just ignore her and everything will be alright,but i've been ignoring her for almost 5 years ever since my dad her son died and it's not working.Iam afraid to tell my mom becouse she might not let me go over there any more and I still love her and I want to see her as much as I possibbly can before she dies becouse I know she probally dosn't have much more time to live what should I do?please help.
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well... stand up for yourself! you don't have to take that... your grandma is acting really mean just over clothes! say.. i love you.. but you are acting mean.. i am almost a grown up and i can make my own choices and live my own life.. i need advice and help now and then .. but you don't have to criticze me and put me down .
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thats rite you have to tell her...I DO NOT like when you insult me and put me down.tell her I under stand you are getting used to not having dad but..you can't take it out on everyone else!
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