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ok i am 13 years old and my breast are a 38C! they hurt and they hang too. one of my breasts is bigger than the other and it is kind of noticeable. my mom said that when i turn 18 i can get a reduction because by the looks of it now they are going to keep growing. i dont want really small breast i want then to be big but not heavy like they are now. and right now they are triagular shaped insted of round. i want then to be round but not really small. i dont want anything less than a BIG B cup. but no bigger than DD cup. so do you think i should get a reduction when im older or keep them big? (link)
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Wow, and I always wished for bigger breasts, I don't even wear an official bra yet, at the stores, they tell me to get a size 30/32. Yeah, well since your breasts are still developing, their bound to get into different sizes and shapes. Some breasts are even lopsided. And you cannot get surgery at this age, even if you want to. Since your breasts are still developing, you have to wait until they are fully developed. And from knowing a columnist who went through this, it leaves physical and emotional scars, and her breasts still grew back, even though she was fully developed. Sorry to bring you down, but it's the truth. You could get minimizing bras, they make your breasts look smaller, and it supports you.
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My friend is such a liar and sooooooo bossy!!I want peace so I try to talk to her about it.But everytime I try to,she acts so sweet that I can't!She tries to hurt me by trying to take people away from me and lying to me that everyone like her better.She does all sort of mean stuff and when I do something that really isn't meant to be mean,she gets all upset and says lots of mean stuff!!She is just so insensitive about things that she should be sensitive about and very sensitive about things that she shouldn't be sensitive about!!What should I do?And is she really a friend? (link)
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no she is not a friend. you should talk to her and tell her how you feel even if she tries acting all nice before you tell her. than after that if she doesnt listen then start hanging out with new friends. cause that just means she was pushing you around. later on if she wants to start acting as a friend then she'll talk to you. and she should start giving you some respect. hope i helped! ♥ terri
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my friend ALWAYS copies me. like if i put something on my profile she puts that up too if i put something on my myspace she does that too. if i buya pair of shorts, she will buy them too. i know people say copying is a way of flattery but sometimes its just annoying. i like to be my own person. should i say something to her? if i should, what should i say? (link)
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you should try coping her so she knows what it feels like. then when she confronts you tell her i wanted you to feel how i do when you do this to me. or like if she copies your ideas tell her things you dont like and say you like them. also if them ideas dont work out then your gonna half to talk with her and tell her how you feel and maybe she should try different ideas on her own instead of coping everything like you. p.s. i know someone who use to copy me all the time i HATED it! its the worst thing ever so no what your going through. thats why i started telling her things i didnt like. lol. well i hope i helped. ♥ terri
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I just got my finger web pierced (between my thumb and index finger)
Does anybody know what the healing time is and what is best to clean it with? I completely forgot what the piercer said. I know not to use alcohol or peroxide but does bedadine work? or sea salt dissolved in warm water? (link)
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well i got my nose peirced, which i know isnt the same thing but what they told me i could clean mine with is sea salt dissolved in water. so im guessing you could use that too because it cleans the peircings. yeah definetly dont use alcohol or peroxide because that closes the peircing. you could also try using an antimicrobial soap to clean it with. hope i helped. ♥ terri
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How do I do the Charlie Brown dance mentioned in Electric Slide? (link)
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cha cha slide maybe? i think the charlie brown is just like kicking your feet up and down. hard to describe. kind of like how the stereotype of russians dance
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sorry if its under the wrong category, but i need a little clarification on the dating bases. i have an idea but i want to know each one specificly. like first is make out and im unsure about 2nd and 3rd. so help me out. thanks in advance! (link)
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1 make out
2 touching body parts
3 oral
home is actual sex
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i keep trying to make my boyfriend jelous is this normal? (link)
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yea its normal :)
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I am 15 years old and i have never made out or had a real boyfriend. I just started going to an all girls private school and i'm worried that i wont have boyfriends in highschool. I am trying to stay close with my old guy friends--but its hard. What should i do? (link)
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usually all girl schools have like dances that associate (sp?) with all boy schools dont worry its not a biggie just have fun
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ok recently, my relationship with my mom has gone pretty much down the tubes.... it always seems like ive done something wrong or shes just mad at me idk... i am pretty moody a lot and i get mad and storm off and then when i come back shes like giving me the silent treatment... its annoying me and whenever im in a good mood, she just like looks all sad which makes me mad.. idk its strange but is there anything that i can do??
13/f btw...
thanks (link)
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I know, mom's are pains at times. I not an average girl, I'm smart, and my room is clean. My mom blows up if I do anything wrong, like forget to tell her a message, I'm doomed. She's probably going through menopause. She's gonna be moody like that for a while. Just, stay low for a while. Behave a little bit, and listen to her. She might chill off if you do that.
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I would like teenagers to answer this one,
My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be? (link)
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Hey...well I'm 13, and I kind of have that problem. I mean, I don't dress like your daughter or listen to the type of music she does, but I'm sure I feel the same way she does. Well, could you be more specific about her? Does she dress all black? Does she listen to heavy metal? If so, then she is going gothic. You know, there's this saying in a book I read " The good old days are the days of your life when you don't see the world as it really is." She probably sees the errors of the world. Or maybe she was hurt badly emotionally. What she's doing is not the fashion. I'm happy that your concerned. But I wouldn't interfere with your daughter. Then she would do it behind your back, which is worse. It's a phase she's going through, and most likely, she'll be back to normal in a few weeks, months, or years. It takes time. However, you might wanna investigate into her life a little bit. Whenever she's not home, look into her room, make sure there's no drugs in her room. She may just feel like this, but it could lead her down a bad path. But don't let her know your interfering. From experience, it's nervewrecking, annoying, and just plain bad when you know your parents are searching into your life. My room is clean and nice, and I'm not into anything bad, but if my mom sees anything wrong, like a sock underneath my bed, its the end of the world.That's why it's terrible. Hope I helped!
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What are some brands of mascara that make eyelashes REALLY long? I have an okay mascara by Clinique, but it gets kind of gloppy. So could you write if you have any preferable types that fit the description? (link)
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maybelinne lash stylist. its a patented anti clump
http://www.maybelline.com/products/productDetail.aspx?prodid=258
maybeline has really good mascaras, so you can look at their other ones too
it costs uner 7 dollars
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i'm getting braces soon. i don't know what color to get. i like the colors baby blue, light green, and baby pink, although i'm afraid those colors will bring too much attention to my mouth. will they? what colors are good so the braces arn't as noticeable. nothing vibrant like hot pink right? (link)
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**light blue is best.
RED make your teeth look whiter.
ORANGE & YELLOW make your teeth look yellower.
GREEN make your teeth look glo in the dark (lol, but its true).
BLUE is good (not dark blue though)
PURPLE & PINK theyre nice too
WHITE makes your teeth look insanley yellow
BLACK makes your teeth look crooked.
these are my personal opinions, but i find them verrry true
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I really need to lose a couple pounds before the 8th grade formal. I am a 13 year old girl. I have a really flattering dress and its black, but my stomach hangs out...What can I do to lose weight so I look good in it? My formal is on the 16th. (link)
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you would have to lose 1/2 a pound a day, which is hard for 13 year olds. it you do that, basically think about it this way. if you have a 2000 calorie diet, to lose half a pound a day, you would need to lose 3000 calories a day. you can do any activit. what you can do, very easy, is get masking tape, and tape your stomach in. lol, that might sound realllly wierd, but whatever. also, dont forget ladies suck their stomach in when they walk and do stuff, (no, not stereotyping, guys do it too) once you get used to sukin it in, its easy
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My friend is such a liar and sooooooo bossy!!I want peace so I try to talk to her about it.But everytime I try to,she acts so sweet that I can't!She tries to hurt me by trying to take people away from me and lying to me that everyone like her better.She does all sort of mean stuff and when I do something that really isn't meant to be mean,she gets all upset and says lots of mean stuff!!She is just so insensitive about things that she should be sensitive about and very sensitive about things that she shouldn't be sensitive about!!What should I do?And is she really a friend? (link)
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Dear Friend,
Lies and bossiness are not the marks of friendship, and I'm sure from the way you posed this question that you know this. Ever seen 'Mean Girls'? This girl sounds like a classic Regina. Ultimately, she's a "frenemy." Friend to your face, knife in your back.
Disposable.
Don't start a fight with her - just let her know that she's an upsetting person, and someone you'd rather not be that close to. In the words of Kurt Cobain, "I love you. I don't hate you. I just don't want to talk to you."
Love,
Ainsley.
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if u keep dreaming about the same thing/person.. what does that mean? like, why would i keep dreaming about someone that i don't really thing about during the day? thank youuu (link)
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Dear Friend,
Dreams are the way we process our subconscious. You haven't exactly specified what position the person you're dreaming about holds in your life, but if it's minimal, I'd say forget it. Your recurring dreams are most likely processing the fact that you had a dream about something less-than usual.
If this 'thing/person' means something to you, however, I'd advise that you investigate the meaning behind it. Why are you questioning its existence in your life?
When you no longer want to dream about this, think about it at length before bed. Transferring the thoughts from our sub- to conscious will allow them to pass through the dreaming mechanism.
Sleep tight,
Ainsley.
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whats a really good makeup remover that can remove water proof mascara and lots of eyeliner? and i dont want the expensive ones and thanks!! (link)
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Dear Friend,
Theoretically speaking, all makeup remover will remove makeup, but we - as girls - know that this is rarely the case.
L'Oreal is a fantastic low-budget option: it's relatively inexpensive, and it really does the job.
Always be gentle when removing stubborn eyeliner, or you risk tearing the soft skin under and around your eyes.
Love,
Ainsley.
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ok i need some good advice here. every day i put on deorderant(soft&dri) and i still sweat perfusely and get large sweat rings. also i might add that i am allergic to the powder/white deorderant cause it gives me large rashes. Any advice on what i could do so that i dont sweat as much? -thanks (link)
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Dear Friend,
Don't sweat it! There are a range of things you can do to eliminate this nasty problem. Try an anti-perspirant specifically directed at excessive sweating. Wear cool clothing, keep hair off your neck, and drink plenty of water throughout the day.
While strenuous excercise can trigger perspiration, the fitter you are, the less you'll sweat. Aim for three 25-minute sessions of cardio-vascular [Upper body.] work-outs per week, and be sure to shower soon after.
Love,
Ainsley.
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Okay...I am having a birthday party in a couple of weeks and I need some activites to do while I am there. I am inviting about 15 girls...no boys and would like things to do to entertain the guests. Thank-you very much!!! 15/f (link)
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Dear Friend,
A prelude to your Sweet Sixteen is definitely in order! This time calls for everything girly, which roughly translates to 'No, little brother, you are not invited.'
A sleepover would work - try a pink pyjama party, or something of the like. Wear your cutest PJs, bring a heap of pillows, and turn your lounge room into a supersized bedroom.
Cheap facials and manicures are a great opening, and a chance for everyone to catch up.
Pick up 'Legally Blonde' and 'Mean Girls' on DVD, stock the shelves with popcorn and donuts, order pizza, and have a blast.
Happy birthday,
Ainsley.
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please help me. i hate my life. i really dont even wanna live anymore. my mom is so stubborn. today i said the "s" word. not to her but i got mad because something wouldn't work so i said "oh sh**" she got sooo mad. and she swears all the time. i didn't even mean to swear, it's just a habbit. just because she was mad that i swore, she unplugged the whole computer system, told me im a waste of space, hit me, and she wont let me make any plans for the whole weekend. all because i said a "word." i can't stand this. how can i not swear when she puts me through so much pressure. i just want to die. i really wanted to go to the movies with my boyfriend tonight. i've been waiting forever. what can i say to my mom to let her know i'm sorry so i can go to the movies? and do you feel her actions were a little "much"? i need your advice on what to do. im soooo sad right now. im crying as i type this. (link)
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Dear friend,
By hitting you, your mother commited an act of physical violence that is a serious offence - both morally and legally. Domestic abuse is not cool in any situation, regardless of what you've said. If this is repeated behaviour, you need to do something about it.
In a few years, you'll be out of her custody, and out of that house. Live for that.
Love,
Ainsley.
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like omg wen i shave my legs they grow back in one night's time:
1. is there any way i can make them stay smoother longer Ps I wana shave
2. is it a good idea to shave every day? (link)
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Dear Friend,
Grooming mogul Kyan Douglas says that if you need to shave every day, you're just not doing it properly!
Try these tips:
1) Invest in a high-quality razor with at least three blades: the extra blades will cut hair closer to the roots, which will make your legs smoother, longer.
2) To ensure you're applying enough pressure on the razor, hold it relatively close to the blades. This simple act can help you remove twice as much hair.
If you are shaving every day, you should be replacing your razor less than once a week. A sharp blade is your key to success.
Shaving this often is by no reckoning a 'bad' idea, but keep in mind that the shins are the dryest part of your body. Exfoliate regularly and moisturise daily, especially following hair removal, to keep them silky.
Happy shaving,
Ainsley.
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